I knew this girl for a while, we were really tight before and I'm pretty sure she liked me. She used to not go more then like a few days without texting me or seeing me and I used to do the same. Now things are crap. Its always me that has to do the texting first now and she's so confusing because she acts all friendly and excited when I text her and says all these things to make me feel like she's still into me but I'm about to give up. The past two weeks I waited for her to at least text or check up on me and she didn't so I couldn't take it and just texted her each time at least once a week. Now I'm feeling like she wants me to go away so I'm waiting for her to text me and its been like another week and she doesn't seem like she will. Why did she change like this? We don't even hang out as often anymore. But when we do she's all sweet and like I said when I text her she's all cute and sweet and seems to miss me..is this her nice way of telling me to go away? Its been like a week and I really want to talk to her but I don't want to chase after someone that doesn't want me anymore ): I want her to show me she still cares but she isn't and every time I try to cut her off to see if she'll notice I fail and quickly text her and check up on her...am I just a friend now?
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I don't think she's not into. I atcually believe she is. I do this too. When I first start liking a guy I text him more often buy as I start to like him more and more I start to get more nervous because I don't wanna mess it up so I usually tend to avoid texting him altogether because I would rather him just text me. Even if I'm obsessed with a guy I will not text him till he texts me once I start to like him more. She probley asks all sweet because she wants you to know she's interested and she wants you to take the lead and for her to meet you halfway same reason why she does it in person she wants you to take the hints.That's probley why she says things like I feel bad that we haven't hung out for awhile because she wants you to make the plans she's just giving you a hint. Start taking them! She could also be tired of waiting. Becuz she probley thinks if you were gonna take the next step in whatever you guys have you would have done it already and she probley just doesn't wanna waste her time on someone who doesn't like her back. I know a lot of girls including me who think this way. Why don't you try asking her out on a official date? Then you'll know for sure. Or ask her to hangout make sure you plan a date and then tell her how you feel. If she says she likes you back or accepts the date I was right and if not then at least you know. Good luck!0