Bosnian Muslims are more liberal compared to Pakistani or afghani Muslims
Yes, they are. They wear "normal" western attire, for example. But let's just say that even muslim college girls/women from the Middle East "did as the Romans did" while here for school. I knocked on one of their apartment doors one evening around 9:00 (she knew I would be coming by), and she's wearing shorts and a t-shirt and obviously no bra, and I could see there was an American guy (white) sitting on the couch. I have no proof that they had sex, but I am pretty sure they weren't studying for an English test.
Dayuum were they middle Easter?
The girl was from UAE, the guy was American.
Was it serious or a fling,?
I didn’t walk down the isle but certainly not one night stands.
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Isn't physical contact prohibited? Do they go to movie, restaurants, or bowling? Have a drink?
It would help if she wasn't very religious as i am atheist. Doesn't them wearing their full Muslim garb indicate they are probably very religious?Also, they seem nice. When I say hello they smile and say hi back. I have no idea what to say after that
@StephenCF my clever love❤❤❤❤❤❤
@celin98 Ben de seni seviyorum 💋💋💋
Where are you from?
@Asker Me? Ireland 🇮🇪
Because I'm not one?
Was she Muslim? Then why did she marry him in the first place?
yes she is one word "love"
To clarify things my home country was a french colony so most kabyle people that lived back then were illiterate and didn't know how to speak or read Arabic (like my grand parent) and ignorant about the religion, so they weren't all that religious and didn't think it was that big of a deal when she married him
I know Muslims, there is no such rule. There are just rumours and blind faith in those points. So if the girl is a real Muslim, she won't care about those rules and be happy to date a guy of any religion if she likes. Accordinging to Islam, they willingly submit themselves to Allah and not to those blind faiths.😁
Did you leave her?
Not really. Instead it all just fell apart when we both approached her parents.
They string you along? What do you mean - do they flirt with you? Many Muslim girls would love to date a white westernised guy but can’t because of backlash from community and family,
Yeah they flirt with me, one even told me she liked me and we went on a few dates. Many assume i am muslim because I work at a halal restaurant. I am Italian-American.
And when you tell them you’re not - do they back away?
Some do, some dont. I have only talked with 3 muslim girls romantically. 2 in person 1 I met onlineThe 2 girls I took on dates, one rejected me when she found out i wasn't muslim. And aplogized, we only did one date. The other said it wasn't a problem we went on 4 dates. She was really cute! but yeah she ended up not liking me haha. The 3rd online one was super cute, special, and intelligent. We talked for about 2 years. But her family would have rejected me 100% They were wealthy and muslim. I am lower-middle class and christian. She said she didn't care, but I knew it wasn't going anywhere so i stopped.
So your Muslim gfriends ask you out?
Yes they really like me. Despite being christian, I actually have lived with muslims throughout college. So always interacted with muslim people (I am very fond of muslims) I also helped MSA a few times (Muslim student association) so I networked with muslim guys and girls.
You can still date people! And do other things!!
^ you can indeed.
No, you can't. 🙄 Show me where in the Quran it allows you to date and do other "things" before marriage.
You can date. Because the Quran says nothing about not dating anyone the word dating didn’t even exist back then. As for other things like sex it says no sex before marriage but in 2k19 us kids have learned that if you weren’t meant to have sex before marriage then why would god give us sexual urges for it? And hence i’ve had sex multiple times because im not looking for marriage just what’s in between.
@Daniel3035 Dude, I asked for you or her to show me in the quote in the Quran that proves your point. Not what you personally think and feel. Do what you want to do. You have free choice after all, but it's not what Islam believes. That's a fact. Don't bring "2019" into it either and use it to excuse your actions.
And I told you that no quote states it nor states against it. It's not what I personally think or feel most muslims don't know if lard is halal or haram but most agree is it's fine to eat same applies here. Islam and do what you want go together well when there's nothing that fits the criteria for that situation. What excuse my actions lmao? I stated 2019 because the quran was designed to fit a time that wasn't like 2019 not excuse my actions which really don't need to be excused at all.
NOT true for a Muslim woman. Asker (anonymous) DO NOT lie!
Well-Said , Commander
Commander red is right, coming from a Muslim. Daniel you shouldn't talk about something that you know nothing about.
@UI_Vegeta01 Ummm I am muslim thank you very much maybe you should take your own advice and not tell people to not talk about a religion they were born into?
@Commander_Red, Dating doesn't equal Sex and not everyone drinks Alcohol. Also, Alcoholics Anonymous is in Muslim Countries for a Reason... The Quran Never Mentions Dation or Courting Pro or Con...
@Daniel3035 If you are a Muslim then I suggest you convert to some other religion because you obviously don't know what you are talking about. Any Muslim man who says that a Muslim woman can date before marriage doesn't know anything about Islam and should just be ignored.
@Moonchild714 Thank you a wise woman !
You are welcome @Daniel3035.
@UI_Vegeta01 Wow how noble of you telling me to change my religion? How about suck a penis and mind your own business and don't ever tell me what to do? You committed sin right there telling another brother to change religion because I do not follow your views? Wow that kinda reminds me of ISIS. Really I do not know what i'm talking about please do tell me where it forbids dating genius. Oh and because you say that it is true you think everyone will listen to you now? What are you Islam did you create it? One of the stupidest statements i've seen a scholar who studies Islam for years but says it's ok for a muslim women to date not before marriage you dont date after marriage that's cheating genius but according to you the scholar doesn't know islam and should be ignored? Your very smart.
@Daniel3035 Love it...
@Moonchild714 Ty honestly some people just can't think for themselves always need direction.
@Daniel3035 I didn't read all that bullshit. You don't know what you are talking about. Get educated. Not replying to your nonsense anymore. You are probably not a Muslim, a pretender trying to change Islamic beliefs. Your name suggests you are a non Muslim anyway. Keep dating and I will be the one laughing when you burn in hell.
@Moonchild714 You're literally defending 1 dude who stated he had sex. Your argument isn't valid. Also, @Daniel3035 check 5:5, 23:5-7, 24:30-31, etc where it clearly states that you shouldn't have had sex to begin with unless you are married. Again, you can do what you want, but don't say Islam is for it when it's not true.
Commander_Red, my point is valid Dating isn't Sex!!! Sure some people have sex while dating as well as some people wait till they are married to have sex. But just because two people are dating doesn't mean they are engaging in Sex. Can you prove otherwise? If so, tell all the Virgins out there they are Lying!!!
Was she Arab?
No. She's biracial. In South African that's the bulk of the Muslim population.
I've been to three weddings. One 15 years ago. American Navy Seal Irish Catholic married an Iraqi Islamic girl. Familes were very happy for both of them. They have five kids now, I'm Godmother to two of them.
@Moonchild714 Such a marriage would be considered void in Islam. In Islam, two people are not considered married until they have had a nikah ceremony which can only be performed by a imam. Most imams will refuse to perform a nikah between a Muslim girl and a non-Muslim man even if the families agree to it. In the example you have given it seems that family were not very orthodox Muslims which is not the norm amongst Arab families. However, in the majority of cases most Muslim families follow the religion closely and would not permit their daughter to marry a non-Muslim man.
Both Imam and Priest performed the cermony. And it was the most beautiful Wedding I've ever been to. Different cultures religions coming together
I get not the norm but also not unheard of.
What if she wore the hijab?
I wouldn't mind
What if she was breathtakingly beautiful?
Beauty fades but morals stay
I wouldn't prefer to date a girl like you.I have an only request. Get out of my country and take your race siblings.You Muslims fucked up my country , look at the Muslims , they want to date unbelief guys.I had a religion but I have learned everything through you and I have no any religion anymore thank you !!! Turkey don't believe any religion through you. you have stolen people's right , people are unwork , because of you but you are rich !!! I haven't seen people wearing headscavers are poor.
Where do you live?
Some white guys can be Muslim you know
yes ik that im just not attracted to whites when i was little i use to love white guys thinking back I don't know but i changed for the better.
Each to their own. Are you Pakistani
why is that relevant now?
White guys are nice.
She actually thinks the religion Islam is a race lol
I respect that. You got to stick to your own.
wanting to stick to your own is actually respectable.
What does pakistan has to do with this!
She doesn’t believe in sex before marriage but she might do other things lol
I wouldn’t mind having to breed with them for children
Okay I'm Muslim but this is true, if you can't accept other people's culture and values then stay away from them. If you wanna approach people from different cultures then get off of your high horse.
@daliah oh no. o accept your culture but don't move into a western culture or other civilizations and. Expect the same treatment you would get from muslim men because you won't you need to. be OPEN to that person's life style & not just your own or it will never work
Oh no i accept*
Yeah that's exactly my point! I was agreeing with you that Muslims should either accept non- Muslim's cultures and values or never associate with them or try to change them. Cause everybody thinks they're right and everyone else is wrong.
@daliah well good because some people. Come with ghe intent that somehow a guy from another culture will fall for them easily & will become a muslim and marry them when that's not how it works, it happens but as i heard they're just called fake conversions, you like Blaxican D tho?
Yeah I do they're awesome! I appreciate people from all races and cultures for me it goes down to person themselves if they are good and we're compatible then it's all great
@daliah wanna have sex later?
Yeah sure! In the bedroom or on the couch?If you're saying this to offend me I must warn you mister I'm not one of em snowflakes who get offended by the easiest efforts :)
You gotta try harder
@daliah. I like it in the bedroom and no i wanna fuck i like Muslim women but not the super religious ones just PM me
What if she wore the hijab like in the picture?
Sure, doesn't bother me
They fun and nice
I see, but there are many more fun guys besides whites.
I find them handsome
Aha. Are you Muslim?
Are you lesbian?
What if she wore hijab?
I dont know partly because I have no idea how I would meet this person
There’s a few of them on dating sites
and seriously, what happens if you get the guy's cum on your hijab?
Can I ask why not other Muslim girls?
Wrong race. That's allIf I wish to preserve European heritage, I need to make sure, that my kids are a continuation of our biological identity.
How was it?
Delightful. I messed it up, though.
@MajesticTwelve not funny
No being killed because I’m an infidel is definitely not funny to me. I’d kinda feel like a black girl dating an active member of the KKK who tells me not to worry because he doesn’t believe in the bad racist beliefs of his group. So even though you personally may not claim to feel that way, I’ll pass!
Besides, on a lighter note, it’d be similar to a gamer dating an Amish person.
Even if she’s the most beautiful woman you e ever seen?
Looks only go so far if we don’t get along
What if she was really westernised?
Yes, then I would date her. Muslim women are beautiful but I dont like the culture.