I cannot speak for other women, but I am looking for a guy that is "the one." One that makes me feel special, cares for me, is loyal, there for me, and is ready for a committed relationship. Trust me, not all of us do flings or hookups.
It sounds like you have just had a string of bad luck with women, or lack of compatibility: the joy of online dating; that will happen.
I think you need to make it clear on your dating profiles that are you only looking for serious commitments or relationships, if that's what you want at least.
Also, to answer your update question, "Am I missing something when I take these girls out and I walk them to their car at the end of the date? Am I supposed to say, hey let's go to your place and watch a movie, I don't want the night to end yet." It depends? That might imply you want to sleep with her, which on a first date might be risque, especially if she's not that kind of woman. Offer to go out for a cup of coffee, or if she really seems to be enjoying her time with you, ask her would she like to do anything else with you (basically give her the lead to see what she wants to do!)
well I don't know about other girls but I'm the type to generally look for THE ONE. the one that I'll end up marrying and is genuinely taking this seriously for marriage. This might differ between cultures too. That's why I don't use tinder, I use another app for Asians bc we Asians get each other about the whole marriage thing lol.
You could certainly say you don't want the night to end, putting the ball in their court. Set up a second date, or go to watch a movie. See how that works out. It's probably 50 50. There are so many different women, there are probably just as many reasons.
Online dating allows a woman who is a 3 or 4 to get sex with a guy who is 8+. This & all the azz kissing simps on IG has led women to have inflated egos. They all now think that they deserve the rich banker with model looks and 8 homes.
This isn’t a problem for women during their whoring phase of jumping on D after D after D. But it’s a big problem when they eventually decide they want a quality guy for serious because the guy sees zero value in a worn out woman with no clue how to appeal to a man beyond superficial stuff
Have you tried making a move like kissing her after building attraction with playful teasing and flirting?
If not, that may be why you aren't getting much dates or hearing from the ones you want a lot.
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Typically when people start dating, it's because they know the person beforehand. So they've already got some chemistry. If you're meeting these women for the first time, there's no guarantee that there's chemistry. You're gunna have to meet a lot of girls to find that. Some people get lucky tho 🤔
Absolutely, no matter how pure and chaste their personals are. When I was using those sights I was always fucking the "just seeking a friend?" Types. I tormented one such date (who showed up wearing a dress so low cut and so short hookers were blushinhg.
Attention but also looking for a match. You guys might not be compatible. Are you paying for the date? What about talking about interesting things
Your lucky to ave got as far ss dating. I used to be on Badoo with a very honest bio and a real photo and over a long time I had a lot of matches. Few actually responded to my intro, only one was the first to communicate and none got as far as an actual date. I came to the conclusion that girls were quick to add a lrofile but not zerious enough to follow through
They are probably not into you if you dont get none lol
You just pick the wrong girls that's it. Eventually you will end up going out with someone that has same interests.
They want ATTENTION.
Thats it. No hookup. No relationship.
Most girls are on such sites because they dont get attention or they have had a breakup and miss the attention that they used to get.
They have unrealistic standards because they are seeking guys that are way out of their league.
I thinking that u might miss all sights girl giving for deeper relationship with them and u miss all that why u ending up likely. Or u talking things may thing be not right way.
Yup pretty much, they use dating sites for hookups just like we do.
After several dates where I never hear from the girl again, I'm starting to think that girls just use dating sites when they want to hookup.
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What they’re looking for is the ego boost; the assurance that they don’t need to be online to get what they want.
Looking to play the field using the online apps to tilt the scales in their favor.
Best question, because I don't even think they know.
I know a few who use it for getting ig followers
Attention and an ego boost.
A good conversation with a decent-looking guy.
Attention, fuel their narcissism, get free food
Most scammers looking for fast money
Some are just lonely and want to chat
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