Before you read this I will assume you mean peoples first impression of you when they meet you first time. I wouldn't date you if you randomly approached me because for one they look... distasteful to me. But if you were my friend and then asked me out and I liked you then yes I would date you. It's just that I would automatically get the impression that you are depressed or emo or something not that I am being stereotypical or anything. It would just be my first impression of you, and it would be my view I'm not speaking for anyone else.
Lmao im anything but, im energetic and happy most times
You may know that your energetic and happy, but I get the impression that you are not because of your appearance. Im not saying that you look bad, but your face will always be the first impression you give someone.
You’ll smile and whatnot
I’m sure there are plenty of guys out there that are into that or at the least don’t mind it. Personally, I’m not a fan cause once you take the gauges out your ear lobes look all weird and droopy and stretched out. But I know there’s all sorts of people that are into gauges and other forms of body modifications. Plus, I’m sure if you’ve got a pretty face and/or a great personality then I’m sure your ear lobes won’t be a deal breaker.
Kind of but it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker. It’s their body and their choice. It’s how they choose to express themselves. I don’t necessarily find it physically attractive but then again I don’t date people because they’re physically attractive so
It's probably be too much of a turn off, like I just hate the way they look.
They look better with something in there, because it's not as stretched out, but still, not a fan of the luck.
Dating wise, I doubt it, unless they could fix it.
I think getting a simple, black earring is a better option, like if you go with something simple, it can give the illusion of it potentially being stretched out, but actually isn't, though it wouldn't look as stretched out, if that's the look a person wants to go for.
Of course! If you like someone, it's what's BETWEEN their ears that counts. Seems pretty shallow to discount someone cuzza their ears. Same guys that do that would most likely also abandon a supermodel girlfriend if she got 3rd degree burns all over her body. We gotta start looking at the person INSIDE the body, guys. Otherwise, we're missing out on a lot of amazing ppl!
God that’s insanely reassuring for me, i really want em but also want a good guy and a long term relationship and whatnot. Thanks so much!!❤️❤️
Very welcome! Heck, if anything, it's a good way to weed out the jerks. If he can't see past your ears, he ain't worth your time & value anyway!
That’s awesome bro
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Maybe as a fling.
For anything long term, we would have to be a complete match in personality type in order for me to put up with that.
To me, for a man or a woman to mutilate their body in such way (it's not like we're talking tattoos or normal piecing's here), it just tells me there is something mentally wrong with this person.
It's like a flag for people to wave to attract others with mental disorders or something.
To see a relatively attractive woman with one of those, my mind automatically says "daddy issues, and likes to be tied up and burnt with cigarettes in the bedroom".
I totally love many types of facial and body piercings (with a few exceptions of course - I hate certain types, I don't like piercings on guys, I don't prefer tattoos either). When it comes to preference, I'd steer away from gauges but it's not like a person with stretched ears is plagued or something so if the girl is my type (long lost, nevermind) I'd definitely go out with her. She's a lovely girl on the inside anyway 🤷
Guages? Nope no problem with them at all. Do I find them to be a turnoff? No. Do I find them to be a turn on? Again no.
I see every body as a work of art on it's own, but if an individual wants to make their body into a canvas for further expression, so be it.
I will say I have my own limits though. If the guages/piercings/tattoos are of an excess that it detracts from my personal admiration of the body, it does become a turnoff.
Is it a turnoff? No.
But I don't know that it's a turn-on for many.
In the end it's really just mind over matter. If a guy don't mind, then it don't matter.
Wow thats Pretty open minded thinkin!
Neutral, but I would be randomly tempted to hang things in her ears because I'm a goof like that. I'd be like, "Hold this for a second, honey" and hang an empty wire clothes hanger from her ear.
Awww thats actually cute
Thanks. (And yes, clicked your link. Thanks for being endearing. ^_^ )
Thank u sm!!❤️
It's going to vary by guy and boils down to personal preference. I'm fine with stretched ears to a point, but there definitely is a point where I'm like "yeah, that's too much and not attractive to me at all." This doesn't necessarily mean it's a deal breaker if they are stretched too far, but there'd definitely have to be other redeeming qualities to make up for it
Absolutely NOT a fan.
i dont have an issue with it, peoples ears should be an issue
mine please?
Too strong messaging girl on Instagram? ↗
It's not a turn on nor a turn off. I have 2 piercings that are gauged but only to a 6g. I dont really care for the ones over an inch just is to much for me.
I enjoy piercings and tattoos and colored hair type.
Ears have little impact on the overall cuteness equation.
Aw thats nice
my son has those stupid looking things. I have no idea what makes you young kids want to disfigure yourself like that. They look absurd. Right not, that is the number 1 plastic surgery in the first world nations. Repairing that ridiculous thing.
Maybe some guys but not me. I don't like women with significant body modifications including multiple piercings, large tattoos, gauges, or tacky cosmetic surgery (like Botox). I like women that are natural and not into temporary fashion trends. If you are into that stuff, that is fine, but from a personal perspective, I'm not a fan of it.
Hell yes, body mods are pretty attractive, tattooed, piercings everything 🤤😍
Wow even on a girl?
To an extent... If I can flip a nickel through it, it's a bit much for me...
So like you wouldn’t date a girl cause of it?
Personally I would actually kinda like cuz I think it provides more character to certain girls, but I'm pretty sure to the average dude it's pretty nasty seeing flappy ears
No real preference, as long as it isn't a ridiculous amount.
Like for example would the pic be considered too much?
No, but any bigger would be a little strange
I personally think its cool looking but what isn't is what it looks like without the earring in, but even so say the girl in the picture yeah she's a babe I would get used to it because there are proboble irritating things about me too we all got to take the bad with the good.
so long as she does not over do it with them. then sure I would date a girl/woman. with gauges in her ears.
There's guys out there who will like anything, no matter how freaky it is. In fact, I'm sure some guys have a fetish for this stuff. The majority of people in western cultures find stuff like this to be repulsive, though, and would see it as a huge turn off.
That would be completely up to the guy in question. If you're only 15, I'd hold off on body modifications. You might change your mind in the near future and once stretched out of shape, your earlobe will never return to how it looked before.
mm not really a turn off or on for me when I see gauges, but i will say it's huge turn off when the person takes them out cause all you see is dangling skin with a gaping hole in it.
its okay.. just not super attractive... if they are too big, they look ugly and your ears never shrink back.
i know a girl that did this and had surgery to shrink them... she is happier now.
It's possibly not an ideal, but I don't care. Bigger things to worry about.
Who cares about all that? It's what's on the inside that matters ! Do you judge a book just by it's cover?
Yeah, it's a turnoff for me. It might not stop being entirely, but it would definitely be something I would have to get over
Yeah... They're going to be like that for life unless you get cosmetic surgery.
And they're going to be a liability when you're a senior and they dangle even more.
depend on other factors but maybe, though I find that look horrible and unappealing, if the rest of her is good (personality included) then I could make an exception.
I have dated girls with stretched lobes, triple pierced lips, one with nose bridge piercings, and pretty much everything in between. So no problems with it, just another form of self expression
Oh definitely not! It can be really cute and sexy when they are that size. But it she made it really big I would be tempted to push my huge cock through her ear lol 😂
This one's going to depend heavily on age. Older people don't like any piercings other than little earrings and won't hesitate to call you ugly human trash for making that choice.
It's a turn on if it makes the girl confident for me personally
Not a fan at all, but if my girl decided to do it, ofc I wouldn't leave her, but she'd have to understand, just like I gotta respect her, that it might be a turn off for me at times.
I had them , not to big though I reached to size 0, if she constantly keeps it sanitary it's okay other than that it could stink and that's not cute
Yeah i know, mine are 3/4 of an inch
I think it depends on the person really, I've seen people with them and they are still very attractive and I've seen other people and was wondering what the hell is going through their head when they done it cuz they look like shit.
I hate gauges.
Her ears are permanently warped and will be dangling flesh when she takes them out.
Yuck.
Yes, they are a turnoff to me. Not to mention the smell and appearance once you pull them out to clean it. It's right up there with smoking, once you start the damage is nearly irreversible.
I am not a fan at all. What happens if you get sick of them and then you require surgery to repair your ears.
It is but it could be worse with guys.
I’d think it’s a symptom of her mental illness UNLESS she is socially part of a traditional culture where that is normal
I wouldn’t... I find these soo unattractive when men get them. Women look just as unattractive with them in my opinion.
I personally don't like stretched ears. I have 3 tattoos and 9 piercings. I don't think facial piercings are a turn off however there are certain body modifications that are a big turn off. As well as tattoos on the face.
What body modifications do you like?
It’s a turnoff. Probably not a dealbreaker but a turnoff - and I don’t mind piercings and tattoos in general.
Yes, leave them natural please, this ain't Africa where the longer your ear lobe, the wiser you are 👂
I’m not a fan of the gauged ear look. One night stand— it wouldn’t bother me. Relationship? Ehh no thanks.
It definitely would be a distraction for me and a bit of a turn off, but if I already like her, it wouldn't be a deal breaker (I don't think? lol).
I would not be interested in dating someone who mutilated their body in that way.
It's not something I would want in my gfs or wife. I think it's personally very ulgy. And really dumb to do that to your ears nose and. Mouth areas
I think smaller plugs in the earlobe are ok. Anything over 1/4 inch (0.6 cm) diameter is excessive and unattractive in my opinion.
However, it probably would not be a deal breaker if she was right for me in every other way.
I DO NOT understand that at all. Most other bodymods / piercings make far more sense than that one, and even those are dubious.
I’m not a big fan of it, but it wouldn’t be a deal breaker
Yeah, it's a turn off! It looks about as bad as those stupid bull rings many girls like to put between their nostrils on the septum! Makes me feel like tying them to a post so that they don't wander off. It looks freaking stupid and really ugly!
Yes i would love to date a girl like this
U know something u date someone who u like and physical appearance not matters many of the time.
No. I know that I am nowhere near perfect but I could never get over not looking at those stretched ears all the time
no. I love piercings and tattoos. but I am probably in the minority of blokes thinking that way. if you want it. get it. make yourself happy
Never read that much into it
I guess it doesn’t bother me
It’s kinda like a nose piercing
You think “oh cool” & never mention it again
Im laughing cuz my 8 year old sons teacher has them and he very much dislikes them
They gross me out. Why people do that to themselves is beyond me.
I dont find it attractive, but if I'm genuinely attracted to her and her personality, then I wouldn't let something so trivial stop me
No. It makes her look like a retired senior citizen. her ears aren't supposed to drag on the floor until she's 90 something. go ahead and tell me to put a cork in it, I will!
Some do some don't a question like that gets a range of answers I'd say depending on what part of the country your standing in
How about America?
They'll be flappin' around long before that... By the time you're 17 once those gauges are out, they'll just be sagging skin tags... I say wait until you're older before you stretch stuff out of shape. Junk gets out of shape for natural reasons.. Doing it on purpose... hmmm
Yes it is. It looks painful, and defiles the human body unnecessarily.
Also most women with those things smoke weed and like skateboarding, which is like the opposite of me haha
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