Before you read this I will assume you mean peoples first impression of you when they meet you first time. I wouldn't date you if you randomly approached me because for one they look... distasteful to me. But if you were my friend and then asked me out and I liked you then yes I would date you. It's just that I would automatically get the impression that you are depressed or emo or something not that I am being stereotypical or anything. It would just be my first impression of you, and it would be my view I'm not speaking for anyone else.
I’m sure there are plenty of guys out there that are into that or at the least don’t mind it. Personally, I’m not a fan cause once you take the gauges out your ear lobes look all weird and droopy and stretched out. But I know there’s all sorts of people that are into gauges and other forms of body modifications. Plus, I’m sure if you’ve got a pretty face and/or a great personality then I’m sure your ear lobes won’t be a deal breaker.
Kind of but it wouldn’t be a dealbreaker. It’s their body and their choice. It’s how they choose to express themselves. I don’t necessarily find it physically attractive but then again I don’t date people because they’re physically attractive so
It's probably be too much of a turn off, like I just hate the way they look.
They look better with something in there, because it's not as stretched out, but still, not a fan of the luck.
Dating wise, I doubt it, unless they could fix it.
I think getting a simple, black earring is a better option, like if you go with something simple, it can give the illusion of it potentially being stretched out, but actually isn't, though it wouldn't look as stretched out, if that's the look a person wants to go for.
Of course! If you like someone, it's what's BETWEEN their ears that counts. Seems pretty shallow to discount someone cuzza their ears. Same guys that do that would most likely also abandon a supermodel girlfriend if she got 3rd degree burns all over her body. We gotta start looking at the person INSIDE the body, guys. Otherwise, we're missing out on a lot of amazing ppl!
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Maybe as a fling.
For anything long term, we would have to be a complete match in personality type in order for me to put up with that.
To me, for a man or a woman to mutilate their body in such way (it's not like we're talking tattoos or normal piecing's here), it just tells me there is something mentally wrong with this person.
It's like a flag for people to wave to attract others with mental disorders or something.
To see a relatively attractive woman with one of those, my mind automatically says "daddy issues, and likes to be tied up and burnt with cigarettes in the bedroom".
I totally love many types of facial and body piercings (with a few exceptions of course - I hate certain types, I don't like piercings on guys, I don't prefer tattoos either). When it comes to preference, I'd steer away from gauges but it's not like a person with stretched ears is plagued or something so if the girl is my type (long lost, nevermind) I'd definitely go out with her. She's a lovely girl on the inside anyway 🤷
Guages? Nope no problem with them at all. Do I find them to be a turnoff? No. Do I find them to be a turn on? Again no.
I see every body as a work of art on it's own, but if an individual wants to make their body into a canvas for further expression, so be it.
I will say I have my own limits though. If the guages/piercings/tattoos are of an excess that it detracts from my personal admiration of the body, it does become a turnoff.
Is it a turnoff? No.
But I don't know that it's a turn-on for many.
In the end it's really just mind over matter. If a guy don't mind, then it don't matter.
Absolutely NOT a fan.
Neutral, but I would be randomly tempted to hang things in her ears because I'm a goof like that. I'd be like, "Hold this for a second, honey" and hang an empty wire clothes hanger from her ear.
It's going to vary by guy and boils down to personal preference. I'm fine with stretched ears to a point, but there definitely is a point where I'm like "yeah, that's too much and not attractive to me at all." This doesn't necessarily mean it's a deal breaker if they are stretched too far, but there'd definitely have to be other redeeming qualities to make up for it
i dont have an issue with it, peoples ears should be an issue
mine please?
Too strong messaging girl on Instagram? ↗
my son has those stupid looking things. I have no idea what makes you young kids want to disfigure yourself like that. They look absurd. Right not, that is the number 1 plastic surgery in the first world nations. Repairing that ridiculous thing.
It's not a turn on nor a turn off. I have 2 piercings that are gauged but only to a 6g. I dont really care for the ones over an inch just is to much for me.
I enjoy piercings and tattoos and colored hair type.
Ears have little impact on the overall cuteness equation.
Maybe some guys but not me. I don't like women with significant body modifications including multiple piercings, large tattoos, gauges, or tacky cosmetic surgery (like Botox). I like women that are natural and not into temporary fashion trends. If you are into that stuff, that is fine, but from a personal perspective, I'm not a fan of it.
Hell yes, body mods are pretty attractive, tattooed, piercings everything 🤤😍
To an extent... If I can flip a nickel through it, it's a bit much for me...
Personally I would actually kinda like cuz I think it provides more character to certain girls, but I'm pretty sure to the average dude it's pretty nasty seeing flappy ears
No real preference, as long as it isn't a ridiculous amount.
I personally think its cool looking but what isn't is what it looks like without the earring in, but even so say the girl in the picture yeah she's a babe I would get used to it because there are proboble irritating things about me too we all got to take the bad with the good.
so long as she does not over do it with them. then sure I would date a girl/woman. with gauges in her ears.
There's guys out there who will like anything, no matter how freaky it is. In fact, I'm sure some guys have a fetish for this stuff. The majority of people in western cultures find stuff like this to be repulsive, though, and would see it as a huge turn off.
That would be completely up to the guy in question. If you're only 15, I'd hold off on body modifications. You might change your mind in the near future and once stretched out of shape, your earlobe will never return to how it looked before.
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