Is it wrong for a girl to wear another guys hoodie when in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

If it was long distance would it make a difference? What if they other guy is gay? Would it still be wrong?

[MrCommodore]

It depends really.
My female housemate a few years ago used to secretly wear my hoodies, well she did a few times, even a hoodie I wore all week to work!!

We were both single (& Straight), and it was a bit weird. I'd understand her grabbing one of my clean ones, but wearing a worn one? Ok, it wasn't dirty or stinky, but still would carry scent.

[Asker]

Friday there was a football game and my friend let’s call her g was really cold and my other friend let’s call him T (he’s gay) let her wear his hoodie because he wasn’t cold. The thing is that G is taken and it’s a long distance relationship

[MrCommodore]

I don't think there would be an issue with a gay guy giving a girl his hoodie or jumper or coat.

Issues only kick off when a boyfriend think some other guy is hitting on his girlfriend, by giving her his coat etc.

[Asker]

This wasn’t included no the question but on social media I could tell that g and t we’re going to another girls house let’s call her J and they left at like 3pm the next day (when j posted a video of g waving goodbye walking another Direction and t getting into his parents car) would that be wrong too? Because she was holding hands with him and laying on his shoulder? Like I get he’s gay but something seems off... I probably shouldn’t really worry because it’s just my friends and it’s not really my business

[MrCommodore]

Is he definitely gay?

[Asker]

He says he is so I’m going to say yes

[MrCommodore]

But you think. maybe something is going on between them?

[Asker]

They were holding hands and she was laying on his shoulder while wearing his hoodie.. she also gave him her oversized hoodie that goes to like her mid thigh to him (I guess he likes that hoodie and it fits him) and he’s going to give her 2 of his hoodies in return. I’m not sure what to think

[MrCommodore]

I don't think anything is going on, he is gay, he is swapping clothes with her. They are probably just close friends

[MikeTheBartender]

Yes for relationship, no if gay. But the bigger red flag for me is who is dating a girl that can't afford her own clothes?

[Asker]

Friday there was a football game and my friend let’s call her g was really cold and my other friend let’s call him T (he’s gay) let her wear his hoodie because he wasn’t cold. The thing is that G is taken and it’s a lost distance relationship

[Asker]

Long*

[Apope16]

Yes. Someone elses clothing is intimate. A sign of ownership, not of a person, but a relationship commitment. Another guys hoodie is not good at all. A huge red flag. Certainly flirtation and disrespect of your man.

[R4vedave]

I wouldn't really be comfortable with that.

[COMMODOREII]

Why are wearing another guy's hoodie?

[Screwed_Up_Texas]

Just don't say anything it's urs