How is that the“ first time” feels better and other times just didn’t make me feel pleasurable?

[MyasiaJ]

With my first ex the first time felt great because I was a virgin but afterwards it didn’t feel like anything I wasn’t feeling good. I don't know cause I need a certain spot to be hit or there wasn’t enough playing out going on. I was only in missionary many times and cowgirl for one time. I know I have very little experience but I thought it was odd it was like I was faking moans or something💀💀💀 I do not know if men have this same problem of not feeling “ good.”
Thoughts/Experiences?

[chriscdi]

a penis is full of nerves so men will always feel pleasure, never thought i would ever start a sentence like that but whatever, women have a g spot or a clit that needs to be stimulated in order to feel pleasure and a man's job is to hit those spots and some people just aren't good or experienced enough to do so, so it can explain why you didn't feel shit the other time, long story short, they guy sucked

[chriscdi]

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[COMMODOREII]

Guys need to explore your body better and find your special spot to help you get off. Sometimes just intercourse is just not as pleasurable and women may need more foreplay, clit stimulation or attention to the G-spot to orgasm.

[Browneye57]

Yeah, just fucking is a bore. It's way better in a committed relationship where you can actually communicate your needs and wants like a real adult.

[s2firestar]

Been there. Unfortunately if your partner does not cater to your needs or care to explore you, then you are quite literally fucked. Only fucked.

[ZelFromZion]

You need to experiment more. Try different angles. Get flexible. Take your time and make sure you like the guy a lot not just because he's cute.

[MyasiaJ]

Lmao I look more into personality and all at the end of the day it not going to workout anyway if all you see being with a dude who cute but has a opposite personality. Not going to work for me as an introvert. Cuteness is alright but someones personality is just as important haha not that a girl wouldn't lie and say a cute dude is all that they're all for.

[joker4545]

Wtf... I found it awkward at the 1st time.. now I am good! 😛

[Anonymous]

Because sex is sex

Once you've done it, you just sort of become like "eh, it's sex".. big deal

[vald9inches]

Its all about the size and experience he has

[NewUser19]

You are a gay