Girls: What do you feel after your first time sex?

[Jibaku]

A curious thought I had just a moment ago

[bunnyy]

First he gave me oral for a long time since he loves that and then I asked for sex because it was the day before my 19th birthday and I wanted to have sex while I was still 18 for some reason. Well he got really nervous because he'd never had sex with a virgin before and he was scared that he'd hurt me. So he was thinking about it hurting me and he freaked himself out and couldn't keep it up and then he felt really bad (it was kind of cute to be honest) then he decided that he just had to focus on giving me pleasure because that would turn him on. So we made out and he rubbed my clit until I had an orgasm and then I got on top and told him I was going to put it in. I just went really slow and it didn't hurt at all (they hymen is not actually supposed to break you have to gently stretch it a bit that's all) and he kept asking if it hurt and I said no so he calmed down and we kissed and it was like a bonding thing I guess but nothing amazing. I didn't orgasm so he ended up wanting to give me oral again so he did until I had another orgasm (even though I wasn't expecting to cum on the first try). Then I was really tired and we snuggled and had a nap and he kept saying how much he loved me so like the first time is kind of awkward but it's a bonding experience. First time sex is nothing compared to sex when you have actually done it with that person a few times and you know what each other like. Our sex now is mind blowing and amazing and the first time it was kind of like "well that was pleasant I guess, and a bit awkward but I love him!"

[Jibaku]

Would you say that sex brought you two closer together?

[bunnyy]

yes I think it did

[psychobarbiex]

Omg you're so lucky. That sounds like an awesome first time:x

[Jibaku]

Would that be why you keep doing it?

[bunnyy]

well yeah I mean orgasms are pretty great haha

[throwit]

It hurt a lot at first but then we went at if for a good half hour and it was amazing since I'd never had anything up there (not even a tampon or finger) so every sensation was completely new and amazing.
After he was done I told him to play 'I just had sex' on the computer lol and we high five for not being virgins anymore (we were both)

But yeah it was just another activity, it was nothing magical or anything, its just a thing that we do now lol like kissing but just more advanced haha

The anticipation of anything is always more exciting than doing it, or the aftermath of doing it.

[Jibaku]

I've never thought of it as 'just another activity'
Did doing it change how you previously thought about sex? or how you thought about your partner?

[throwit]

No not really. It was how I thought it would be and it didn't make me think any different of my bf, except maybe I've gotten even more comfortable with him (which is probably just the product of time)

[Anonymous]

People make such a big deal out of the "first time having sex" thing.. Idk, everything once happens for the first time, right? If you don't expect much, you can't be disappointed, you can even be surprised. Of course, it's better later on, but I don't think it feels (or should feel) a lot special the first time. Yes, somewhat special, but not a lot. It feels special when you do it with the person you love (also not the first time, it doesn't), or it feels more special when you have your first vaginal orgasm with your partner, but first time sex? Nothing special, even though it was with the person I loved. For me, it felt somewhat like I imagined it would..

[Jibaku]

Did you find that your feelings for the person you had sex with to intensify?

[Opinion Owner]

No, sex isn't something that would make your feelings grow for another person. It's the time spent together, conversations and all the little things happening while you're with them..

[Jibaku]

Then why do You have sex?

[Opinion Owner]

Don't get me wrong: it gets special with time. It's something that you give as a gift to your partner and it should be respected.. But why do any of us keep doing it? Haha, isn't it cuz it feels good? ;)

[misscoffeehead]

First time having sex it hurt to be honest, but it was just like an uncomfortable hurt, and good the next time around.. I think i ended up having sex with my bf *now long time ex* (at that time, in 2010) every single day.. I was craving for it to much it was bizarre.. But extremely good