What are guys thoughts on women who embrace being feminine?

[lifelearner011]

I'm already an adult, yet from my own history and family I've learned to enhance being a woman, taking care of myself and embracing being feminine. I never though of it as a weakness until I began working with people who kind of "confuse" it giving it a negative connotation as if it is a weakness. I do have strong work ethics and love what I do in my daily work. Paradoxically not only because of my personal values and inner strenght of intentionally being compassionate and respectful towards others, yet this feminine side has open a lot of doors for me. So I dont' actually see it as a weakness. In terms of dating and attraction, I'd like to explore with men what are your thoughts on women who are feminine?

[Jamie05rhs]

There's nothing wrong with that at all! Femininity is very attractive. The only downside is when girls sometimes are too meek and quiet and don't speak their minds. Also, if you act like a damsel all the time and don't have the gumption to do things for yourself (like opening a car door and stuff like that); I find that very UNattractive. I don't want to be with someone who is weak and doesn't know how to take care of themselves.

To be honest, I have always been very attracted to tomboys, and the reason is that I like sports and other outdoor activities, and a girl who is physically active is definitely a turn-on. Also, not being afraid of what others think and not feeling the need to follow gender stereotypes; I've always seen that as a positive thing.

However, I've also always been extremely attracted to girls who dress up in dresses and wear ribbons and bows in their hair and stuff like that. It's very beautiful. I just don't really care for high heels; I think they're kind of "extra", if you know what I mean. And I couldn't care less about jewelry, though I don't mind if girls do have some.

But overall, femininity is a positive trait.

by the way, here is my response to a related question:
https://www. girlsaskguys. com/girls-behavior/q4305662-does-a-woman-s-femininity-belong-at-work? utm_source=dynamic&utm_medium=androidapp&utm_campaign=question&utm_content=q4305662

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[Jamie05rhs]

by the way, your earrings look great on you!

[lifelearner011]

Thanks, Jamie, you're kind.

[Jamie05rhs]

You're welcome! :)

[slatyb]

I like women who are feminine but not flaky, who like to dress up but are low maintenance. "That's Why The Lady us a Tramp"

[Ricky1966]

I just started exploring my feminine side and I love it.

[SubashANZ]

Feminine is also about accepting the equality.