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Honey, experience is... tricky.
From the guys point of view, obviously... LOL... some guys tend to lean towards younger women. That isn't as mean or hateful as most oldwr women tend to think. If a guy has a younger girl, basically its to cover the fact that he has no game. If he had either an age appropriate, or older, woman on his arm, there's no way he could get away with 30 seconds of grunting, thrusting, and nipple twisting. But for a girl with nothing to compare it to, thats the most erotic thing she could possibly imagine.
Im guessing on this one. So correct me if im wrong.
A lady with more experience really should be looking for a guy who lost his cherry 2 weeks ago. Ahe knows that he's gonna pop as soon as he unbuttons his Levi's. But thats ok. Give him 5 minutes and he will be back for round 2. Just playing the numbers, most likely a less experienced guy didn't pick up some aort of social disease. Plus... this is the big one... he will offer her something so valuable that its not even funny. Word of mouth. Free publicity. he's gonna tell his buddies. Guaranteed. Word will get around about her casual, 3 week maximum relationship regulations. They will be lined up to be... taught.
In conclusion. A may-december plaything arrangement won't hurt anyone. If thats where you are at, live it up. Be honest. But dont lose sight of the idea that this person is (dont throw me shit on this) disposable. A proper mate is plus or minus 3 years from you..
People can be taught if they are willing to learn. When they aren't willing, that is probably where the deal breaker comes in.
During sex, inexperience is only a deal-breaker when engaging in hookups and one-night-stands. If you're the type of girl that enjoys causal sex without many strings attached, the chances are great that you want the man to know how to satisfy you right off the bat. If he is unable to do that, then your sexual experience was bad and you might feel implored find another man to satisfy you. However, if you're the type of girl that wants a long-term relationship, then inexperience should never be a deal-breaker. The more that your long-term partner has sex with you, the more experience that he gains and the better he gets at pleasing you. You are able to build a stronger bond with your man when you allow him to learn how to please you and coach him whenever he doesn't quite get it right. Personally, having sex with virgins is a turn-on because I enjoy roleplay and that allows me to play the role of the teacher during his first time. I also enjoy being a guy's first too. I try to make it a very special moment for him. To me, it's sexy, but also very cute at the same time. I can't really speak for men because I am not a man, but in my experiences, they seem to prefer virgins more. Perhaps it's based on the myth that virgins always have tighter vagina, which is not always the case. However, it also could be the experience of being a person's first. As I mentioned before, it's very cute and the roleplay can be very sexy, even for men possibly.
Pretty much never. My boyfriend had never even kissed a girl when we first got together. He was too scared to even try to kiss me at first. But I’m a good teacher and he learned quickly. Just find somebody who is willing to teach you things, instead of judging you for your inexperience.
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I like men with no experience the most.
Virgin men are my preference. But VIRGIN BY CHOICE. Not because he's too socially awkward to get action. I want him to be virgin because of his deep religous convictions gives him self control.
If he never kissed it's even better.
Good then we should date
@AkshiJanjua And how do you intend to do that? Make out with your screen?
No, because I'm extremely inexperienced and if I were to reenter the dating scene again, I would love someone who was also inexperienced, as I imagine I would feel less pressured (though to be honest, I was heavily pressured in my last relationship by my also very inexperienced ex). I would still consider someone more experienced, but think I would feel more at ease with someone more on the same level as me.
I’ve been involved with a guy years older than me but I would say that I’m quite inexperienced when it comes to making out but I feed off of his energy and he teaches me some things such as: he likes my arm around his neck, he likes staring into my eyes and so many other details that I won’t get into.
I never had a guy tell me “You cannot do this so we’re done here.” The way I see it is, if a guy just wants to get his nut in and isn’t interested and being more then every little flaw will be a dealbreaker. If someone is into you in some way, shape, or form, he’ll teach and could care less if you’re inexperienced because having that intimacy with you is the only thing that matters.
I am definitely inexperienced but the men still like me and want to take me out on dates so I’m living the Dream. 😂
Depends, anything can be a learning experience but if a person has never reached any sort of physical intimacy with their significant other (could be because of a myriad of reasons) then the inexperience might be a deal breaker for some. Tldr; You can always teach someone stuff.
Well for my boyfriend it was a dealbreaker if I weren’t a virgin. I was of course and turns out I’m a natural anyway. Anyway about the virgin bit, these guys like super virgin tight girls. Virginity is precious and for the one you want to spend the rest of your life with! That’s exactly what happened. Most guys appreciate a virgin whom nobody has touched before them.
Everyone can learn how to have rhythm... Like some job requirements, some people should be distinguished out from the rest with a bracelet or a badge that represents that they “require at least 2-3 years of experience” in a partner in order to refrain from any embarrassment. 😂
Lack of experience is a good thing, but if there are issues that can't be overcome, then that's a problem and it may be a deal breaker. Really have to try to work with the other, it's a team to progress each life... ideally. I don't equate inexperience to issues... some people are reserved, just not good at dating, have boundaries, belief systems. I know 40+ year old virgins m/f... it happens.
No because I don't care and it's extremely stupid to care. Everyone's first time is different and it doesn't happen all at the same time. It's no different than being an inexperienced applicant in a field, something most college people understand. If you want to be with someone, it should never be because of experience. Experience can be gained and it's something you can work through together. Otherwise, you really don't love that person and are very shallow.
Only bad thing in showing an inexperienced girl some quality time is that you might raise the bars super high all of a sudden. She'll be fantasizing about you a lot.. okay now thinking about it, all good, no bad aspects after all 😂
Nope just means they need more practice and I get to teach them right. Now I messed with one girl years ago and she had no rithym. I worked through it. I'm no quitter.
As long as the person lets me teach them inexperience is never a deal breaker. Some inexperienced people are very talented.
Nice. You would be a good teacher. :)
If you're robbing the cradle. I certainly wouldn't want to devirginate someone very young. Seems inappropriate. I think kids should work out such stuff with other folks near their age.
When your inexperience stops you from progressing in a relationship it is a deal breaker. Inexperience for me usually results in boredom and at that point I want out.
Only of I'm specifically looking for someone more experienced, which I don't do anymore these days. For actual relationships, inexperience is the least of my concerns.
I met a guy that after 2 sex dates he expected I was alreayd used to the idea of intimacy when in reality I was still lacking bu tand he told me it was a boredom, even if he did want after all to be with me
Typically when someone was single for their whole life and is in their 40s, 50s... there's a reason for that - and more often than not this reason is off putting (and they may not even know or acknowledge it!).
I think sex should stay between a husband and his wife on their honeymoon the way God intended it to be ! Thanks
No it's never a dealbreaker! Inexperienced guys are so much fun! You get to mold them into a personal toy. :*
I've never had that happen. Partly because I'm not opposed to teaching. Worst I've had was a girl who kissed in a way I didn't like. That's about it
At no point really.
I'd actually prefer a virgin girl, to be honest. And if she's never even been kissed before, that would be even better.
A bad kisser is a real turnoff. But mostly if they are really insecure about their inexperience it gets annoying and I won't see them again.
If they dont know how to operate a Soviet RBMK nuclear reactor they should just leave and never contact me again.
*gets Chernobyl flashback and hides in a corner*
S-steam made by the fision of neutrons o-of u.. uranium 235, which is.. controlled by graphite between.. the pressure rods.. b-boron.. plays a ro.. role in it. I swear, it was Bryukhanov's fault, and Akimov's
As long as he's not just laying there like a dead fish, I don't care.
Not a dealbreaker for me. The less the experience, the better.
Dealbreaker when they aren't open to at least trying.
Lol yeah guys rarely care about experience yet women always seem to be concerned over this...
The less the better, like many men, that's what I think. If only more women had this view
Not for me teaching is get but you have to feel comfortable with your SO to let him or her show you what else is very pleasant
There isn't one.
Absolute zero experience would be ideal and then it's just a matter of how much I'm willing to compromise from there on in.
The last girl I was dating left me after hearing I never had physical relationship with other girl before. Before knowing that everything was fine. She told she wanted more experienced men.
When they don't want to get the experience to make it pleasurable for both.
When the nervousness becomes so overwhelming that it prohibits any forward progress
If someone is gonna sit there, day after day, pushing their excuses because they don't want to deal with their nerves then that's what wrong with that
That's true but can you honestly say that if a new partner of yours was constantly putting off sex or even basic intimacy, throwing out every excuse under the sun, that it wouldn't have a knock back on your own confidence and perhaps even question where you stand in that relationship?
Well they owe nothing, therefore making the nerves simply normal. It's different when you have to deal with the same excuses day in and day out but if you aren't in a romantic or sexual relationship with that very nervous person then really it shouldn't affect the same way.
Inexperience itself, no. Most of us have been though that. An unwillingness to learn and grow is a deal breaker, though.
If the girl is acting too shy or not responding according to my needs then it's certainly a deal breaker. I wouldn't like to fuck her by force obviously. Sex should be enjoyable for both.
no. in my opinion, any level of experience is fine.
Never a deal breaker for me as long is the person is at least a bit open minded to get this experience, to experiment a bit.
No a virgin is best. Experienced women are psycho, loose, and unfeminine.
It only becomes a dealbreaker when they aren't willing to learn and try new things.
Not really. Anything they don't know about, I can teach them.
Girls that are bad in bed are a no go for me. I don’t enjoy that ever.
“Alright milf” that personality though.
@thenewgirlll probably what she wanted to hear
Sure she did. Lol.
It is never a deal breaker to date inexperienced women for me.
It depends on the situation but if you truly love them then you have to give them experience.
When it gets in the way of my needs.
LMAO...
I doubt you can be more inexperienced than me
I sincerely doubt it.
it seems to be a red flag to women more than men
Yeah for sure. I got bruises to show for it. Lol
Yeah because my girlfriend expects too much
Inexperiance is boring and a turn off
More inexperienced the better.
Definitely girls deserve respect
I only like inexperienced virgin guys
Ummm your a unicorn and I love you! weirdest thing I've ever said right there!
dam, that makes me happy, because I am an inexperience virgin :)
Ya when its not enjoyable
I dont think it is, learn them
Nope. Doesn’t bother me
No not at all
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