Guys, Would you date someone if they did not have a lot of followers on social media?

[CMC93]

Under 200 followers

[SteveSmith1985]

Don't take this the wrong way... but this question is really sad.

Honestly... I assumed it must be coming from like a 14 or 15-year-old girl. And even then it would be a sad question.

I think that any guy worth your time, will definitely not care AT ALL about how few followers you have on social media. That's a fact.

It's so crazy to me to think that there's somebody out there (you) who is genuinely worried that guys would give a shit about your social media popularity. They don't.

I can tell you, that for me, It wouldn't matter ONE BIT if a girl had 1 follower. I wouldn't think any less of her for it... and any guy who would... is an idiot.

Please, please PLEASE don't worry about this. You really don't need to. :)

[Avenoma]

That's pretty short sighted. The social ladder is has been reforged and just looks and feels different. Should we work to deconstruct the current norm? Dunno, that's a big one.

[Dusty_06]

Honestly, who cares how many followers a person has on social media. I mean 200 people following may not sound like a lot, but it's still a lot of people to sift through. Guys will follow girls in order to see if they are single or if they may post risque pictures online. I personally have under 200 friends on Facebook, and that's because I only want to see people that I have interactions with and not a ton of people I would only know through online.

[Portblue19]

What? Is that even a question? Of course, I'll date them. Social media has nothing to do with relationships. This notion that if one doesn't have many followers they may not be likeable or attractive is crazy. People can project good things onto social media and blow up their followers despite having big problems in real life. It's all pretention. So no, it wouldn't even be a criteria in determining if i would date them or not. I'd even be delighted if they weren't on social media at all.

[genericname85]

of course i would. however if they had no friends that would be a red flag.

[CMC93]

Why would that be a red flag?

[genericname85]

Because im Not into antisocial people or sociopaths

[Robofeet]

I don't think I have a single person in my life that I've ever looked up how many followers they have. It wouldn't factor in at all to me.

[cloud9vortex1234]

Yes, because they might actually have a life outside of Social Media.

[CMC93]

I like this lol

[seansin]

And here we go in with the short dick syndrome and long dick syndrome a pissing match who gets the bigger nipples or the tighter pussy you know come on that's so f****** high school can we talk about something more intelligent

[akkedis]

Absolutely. That is all superficial to a LOT of people. It's about who you are in real life. Social media doesn't matter then.

[alohasnackbar]

What does social media have to do with a relationship? If you aren't dating people who like you for you then what's the point?

[CMC93]

Maybe they assume the person is unlikable if they dont have a lot of followers. It seems most people have at least 1,000.

[alohasnackbar]

That's ridiculous

[Trooper205]

Yes, of course! My Girlfriend doesn't have to be popular to be Perfect!

[Anonymous]

I would date them if they weren't on it at all. So not important in any way! lol

[Anonymous]

Yes.
most guys find girls with lots of followers off putting
200 is a lot girl.

[Matthew2222]

I would not even check this so yes I would.

[Mindwipe]

I'd prefer they used social media very little.

[es20490446e]

I have no social media.

[COMMODOREII]

Of course.

[Dchrls78104]

Yes, I would.