its a big turn off. I was at a baseball game with her and she was double fisting margaritas just to get the collector's cup. After her 4th, the 3rd inning starts, she yells, "don't look at me like that, I'M DOING THIS FOR YOU." Holy Christ, we almost got walked out. My parents were watching the game a home and they heard her. She was loud and we were near the tv booth.
Sex was even worse. She had demanded to be on top which wasn't bad, but she kept yelling, "DO YOU LIKE THAT?" then before I can say anything, she'd put her finger on my mouth, saying shhhhhh. Then she'd yell again, "DO YOU LIKE IT?" Then the finger on the mouth again. This happened a few times before she lost her dinner on the floor next to the bed. Thankfully, it was her place and not mine.
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OMFG 💀 That's sooooooo crazyyyyyy!!! Thanks for sharing your story and experience I really appreciate it🤓🎀💖
Yes because above the age of 30 I expect any woman to be able to drink well. That means she knows her limits and is mature enough to know when to stop drinking.
Any woman who drinks so much she's passing out in the street is not somebody who deserves any kind of respect or even decency, if she's over 30 in fact if she's over 21 and still passing out in the street she ought to be left where she is.
Any man with a woman like that deserves to have his balls removed and placed in a jar within the halls of lost manhood because any man who stays with a woman like that had zero self respect and zero credibility as a man
The only people who like sloppy drunks are those who are looking to take advantage of the drunk and hope they won't remember who you are. For those people. Don't forget to clean all your DNA from the scene. Have enough respect for yourself. And even share some with the drunk and try to help them by not taking advantage of then and even try to get them help for their problem
Long ago, I had girl friend who got drunk in one of my parties because she was crushing so hard on another guest in the party that she thought showing him she can drink a lot will impress him or encourage him to take advantage of her. Well, not only did she puke on my plants and in my toilet, she urinated on my guestroom bed.
Anyway, the guy she was crushing on hardly even noticed her throughout the night 'til she started vomiting and when she had to be carried to the bathroom. He was interested in someone else in my party.
Additionally, she lost a few friends that night and the days that followed because wasn't remorseful at all for her poor behavior. I also ghosted her eventually because she avoided me since refused responsibility for my damaged mattress. In my anger, I had my employees deliver the mattress (uncleaned & wreaking with her pee stink) into her apartment over a week later to spite her. (Her landlord cooperated after I told him what she did.) It took another week or so until she finally apologized.
Hell yes. I dated one before and at the time I did not drink at all but did not judge or at least try not to. The irony was that about 5 years before she met she was drunk at a party and passed out and was raped. NOt that it was her fault etc, but she did make some bad choices to put herself in that position and after being raped and having and abortion i have no idea how she can even look at a drink.
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OMG this is sooooooo sad... Alcohol destroys lives 😭🎀
No, guys like being puked on, right? And getting a stumbling incoherent slurring woman home safely is always fun.
I once spent a Christmas Eve visiting a girlfriend in rehab, so this question kind of triggered me. So, final answer,... Yes it is a turnoff/deal breaker/run quickly in the opposite direction kind of thing.
Im not a huge fan of drinking. So I'll deffs be looking for a partner that doesn't get blackout drunk all the time or drinks often. I need somebody who's life doesn't revolve around drinking. Sloppy drunks are such a turn off. If you're gonna drink pls at least be in control of yourself.
Yes! I'm always disappointed when it happens. It's like the night was going well, we were probably going to get all hot and heavy, and then we took one too many shots and we can't stand anymore. Lol after that sex or anything else is a serious struggle.
Never experienced, but yes, that would be a turn off. It might be a lack of self-control, or something to hide/forget other problems. I would try to help her to get her problems solved, including her drinking problem. But if it doesn't work, I would probably leave. I think it's hard to live with an alcoholic.
Good stuff but a sloppy drunk doesn't equate an alcoholic. Alcoholics usually handle their shit well. It's the lightweights that can get sloppy cause the difference between nicely drunk and too shitfaced can be just like a half a drink. Lol. I know a few alcoholics, they can be dickheads when drunk but aren't usually sloppy. At least that's my experience.
My former upstairs neighbor , Megan used to get drunk and would hit on me, i have to admit i loved the attention she gave , even thou she had someone she would jump on me and grab me but yes she was a sloppy drunk she was turn off at times. LMAO
I had a very professional woman want to be her man. She is a long time friend of the family too. I didn't get to know her because I was in the Army. I met her and she rell likes me. I noticed a problem. I never seen her sober. She smokes pit and drinks after work so by the time I get to her she is feeling good. She began jumping hoops to get to me and I am nothing special either. I had asked the family about her and they didn't want to comment on it. I have little tolerance for shit like this. So!, after 6 months of getting to know her ( no dating) I approach her about it when she ask me," why you don't make me your woman "? I said, " I never got a chance to know you , you are always drunk". I don't mind the pit but alcohol! That's a brain changer
Not really. Because, a lot of people try to keep up with old school military guy's like myself and can't. So, when a girl tries it's funny. Well, some times. But I only let the ones who have known me for years get that drunk. Because, they know they can trust me. I am very protective when they get drunk. If I see them headed that way. I stop drinking to sober up a bit. Then give them a ride to there place. Unless they are at my house. Then, they know they have the guest room. And they are safe.
I think so, probably because I always get sloppy drunk customers at work. They’re mean, crazy, and have poor hygiene. So yeah I’d hate to be with someone just like that in a relationship.
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Girlllllllllllll that "mean and crazy" part is sooooooo true 💖
Public drunks ain't good. Stupid drunks are worse. But I've had some great nights getting a bit toasted with a few friends on the beach or at home that were great. .. Just like anything you gotta keep your cool and be wise.
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Thanks for sharing some feedback!!! I really appreciate it 💕🎀
Kind of awkward. I'm a happy drunk type. The sloppy drunk tends to mess up my whole fun. That said, I do like drunk girls, and at least sloppy drunk isn't nearly as bad as broken drunk or violent drunk.
Oh yeah!!! But he doesn't. He knows my opinion on it. Last time he and his friends wanted a drink he actually asked permission lol. Talk about your boyfriend knows his place.
It is. I don't want to date someone who loses control all the time, annoying everyone, becoming a danger to himself or others. Too many accidents happen because of that shit.
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OMG!!! That's literally the worst!!! Thanks for the help Love🙅
Its disgusting. Its a deal breaker.. Same as drug use and tobacco use.. I won't be with someone who has no self respect, and all of those show she has no self respect.
I think it would be a turnoff if she were always trying to give a blowjob while really drunk, and her blowjob skills were very diminished due to being so drunk - such that it didn't really even feel good.
Yes, I hate that so so much even if it's my friend like I think I'm a pretty good friend by if you get too drunk that you can barely walk or you throw up, I can't take care of you
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Sameeeeee!!! I give free warnings before we even go out 🎀
I had 1 f2f that was such a horrible drunk I had to tell her if she went out and drank she had to stay gone all night. Keep in mind I'm not the pillar of sobtiety myself but she took bs to amazing levels
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