Am I a datable guy to you or not 💗?

[TwinkieToes]

I'll keep it short in the form of a list:
1. I am 25; turn 26 in several months
2. I have never had a girlfriend
3. I had sex only once in my life... she was 16. I was 20. Both virgins. We only saw each other for a weekend (her choice)
4. I only made out with 3 girls total. None of them were my girlfriend. One of the girls was 16 too and she turned herself into a transgender guy a few years later.
5. I am an active student at university majoring in Computer Information Technology; concentration in web and internet technologies
6. I still live at home
7. I used to be an EMT; not a anymore (changing career paths)
8. I spend a lot of time on the computer learning to code (I love Javascript)
9. I smoke occasionally
10. I am 5 feet 6 inches in height.
11. My penis is about 5.5 to 6 inches fully erect (average)
12. I barely drink (like almost never)
13. I don't party
14. I have Aspergers along with anxiety
15. I love to travel; although I have not traveled recently
16. I am on social security disability and unemployed
17. I love animals. I have plenty of pets.
18. I have a car
19. I secretly eat my boogers
20. I am definitely overweight (weight about 230 pounds)
21. I am a very generous and charitable person when I can be
22. Oh, I also have a stalking and harassment conviction. It was due to me trying to win a girl's heart. Long story, but I made the mistake of pleading no contest. I served 3 years probation.

Updates

+1 y

My mistake, I should of made this a poll question

[SucreFleur]

Lot of things about you sound nice but there are some things that will make it hard for me to say yes 😞 they are your height and unemployment. I have no problem with you overweight mdrrr my boyfriend is overweight too, 16 is legal age in France, stop eating boogers 😂😂😂 and I think you understand you make mistake with stalking and promise not doing it again. I am 5 foot 7 inch so I want someone who is more tall than me. I also want my partner who has a stable job so he can support his own life and mine in case there is need.

[TwinkieToes]

You are so pretty 😍😍

[SucreFleur]

Thank you! Very much appreciate.

[Anonymous]

Well.. I believe having sex with minor was a mistake, but that's the past anyway. You didn't have to set your physical characteristics, as long as you have good heart and personality , you are datable to many girls. Your chances will increase if you find a job as you can try working remotely from home. .

[TwinkieToes]

We were only 4 years apart in age and I only wanted a virgin at the time

[Opinion Owner]

Well, what I have said was my point of view, each one have opnion, but in the end, it's your choice and your life dude! Just as an advice, try having sex with someone you love next time, someone you see a future with him. You will avoid lot of complications in your life.

[Opinion Owner]

And cheer up! Your soulmate is out there somewhere 😊

[Thisperson98]

I think the major issues are the stalking convection, having sex with a 16 year old, and no job.

[TwinkieToes]

I am on disability, but I am also in school.

I used to have a honorable job in public safety, but my EMT license was pretty much revoked due to the conviction.

What happened is that I drove to the girl's house to ask her out to prom 8 months after she said she never wanted to speak to me again. Her daddy did not like me and had connections.

[zagor]

I think you need to do something about 19 and 20...

[Dinklex3]

No.
Going after a 16 year old child when you're 20 years old is a huge turn off. Its a personal pet peeve of mine.
#19 is disgusting.
& I'm not into those who are overweight.

[KeziL]

I personally wouldn't date you. That doesn't mean you're absolutely undateable, but I see some red flags in there.

[TwinkieToes]

Which ones are the turnoffs/dealbreakers?

[WAJDI_XWX]

stalking and harassment of course what else would it be

[WAJDI_XWX]

ps also these two "" unemployed"" and "overweight"

[KeziL]

What the other guy said, DEFINITELY the stalking is a red flag. Also the sex one, that really isn't a good age difference, especially when she's 16. It's possibly barely legal, I know there's 4 year apart rules in some states, but that doesn't mean it's right morally. I don't know why you were hanging out with 16 year olds, but that's a yikes.

[TwinkieToes]

I was only 20 at the time. I don't hang with 16 year old girls anymore. The stalking charge came into play when I drove up to her house 8 months later to ask her out again. Her daddy did not like me and had connections.

[Numbnuts89]

You were VERY close to stat rape you know. You were over 18 and she was just barely legal (age of consent in my state, is 16). So you're lucky you got away with that

[TwinkieToes]

Well, I ended up being arrested over the same girl. I drove to her state and to her house 8 months after she said she never wanted to speak to me again. She was then 17; I was 21. Her daddy did not like me and had me arrested.

[Numbnuts89]

That's not stat. rape, as i said, but, he likely had you arrested for preying on a younger girl

She likely had daddy issues, and was lashing out at her dad, by having sex with an older man

DO NOT FALL FOR THOSE

[_food_lover234]

wait so you had sex with a minor? dude... not cool.. that's just a big turn off sorry.

[TwinkieToes]

We were only 4 years apart in age

[_food_lover234]

so what? you were basically an adult, and she hadn't even hit being an adult. and she's a minor. girls at 16 are very fragile.

[elisa_0]

No I’m sorry. My reasons:
- Your conviction
- Your Aspergers (I know it sounds bad but I’m trying to be honest).
- Your weight
- The fact that you smoke.

[TwinkieToes]

The reason why I have thay conviction is because I drove to her house to ask her to prom 8 months after she said she never wanted to talk to me again. Her daddy did not like me and had connections.

Yes, I am an Aspie but it is very, very mild. Almost unnoticeable. Although, I am very immature for my age.

[AngelLily]

You sound like a nice person but I can only date Christian men.

[Year3000]

You wouldn’t date a Jewish, or Muslim, man?

[TwinkieToes]

I only date women without a romantic history

[Year3000]

@TwinkieToes I don’t think this user has had any romantic experiences.

[TwinkieToes]

@AngelLily have you ever had a romantic bond with a guy before?

[tHISpLACEiSbONKERZ]

"(I love Javascript)" you're weird, everyone hates that shit.

[TwinkieToes]

Why do you say that? I am involved in an excellent community of developere of various ages. It is amazing what you can create with code.

[WAJDI_XWX]

u was 20 and she was 16!!! well that sounds like rape... u should delete that third line i guess

[TwinkieToes]

Nah, it was completely consensual

[TwinkieToes]

I popped that cherry too

[WAJDI_XWX]

well it depends on the laws of the place where u live cause the age of consent differs from country to country... ps if she is under age police won't care if it was consensual or not

[TwinkieToes]

Age of consent is 16 in most places, including the state she resides. I traveles from my state to hers and we had sex.

[WAJDI_XWX]

that's not the point the main point is that being datable is a matter of 75% physical attraction and 25% personality ... thats my take on it

[TwinkieToes]

That sounds about right. I am not really physically attractive.

[WAJDI_XWX]

u need to put some muscle then its time to hit the gym

[Anonymous]

Too many red flags. I would pass.

[TwinkieToes]

Aww. Not everyone's perfect. More fish in the sea I guess.

[NATRAL]

Damn bro you going crazy