So i regularly get guys trying to wind me up, looking to see if they can get a reaction out of me. They generally smile while theyre doing it but they never ask me on a date. I look vulnerable so are they just doing it because they know it might make my day or have they been teased to act that way with me?
The reason why i ask is cos someone came up to me, i think he was quite a bit older than me going by the beard. Im tired as its been a long day so didn't get a good look but he mustve saw me from afar or maybe seen me in the restaurant we were in I don't know but i was struggling due to being tired and not having eaten all day. I was finally eating and he comes up to ask for a chip, i said no twice but he kept persisting then just grabbed one. On his way past on his bike he yelled thanks for the chip i liked it. Like i didn't make them😂he was with his mates
Besides this was my crushes used to wind me up a lot. And smile while doing it
Im really not the prettiest of girls i have a rubbish face and dont wear make up. Im just about trying to get by everyday so don't make a general effort
The reason why i ask is cos someone came up to me, i think he was quite a bit older than me going by the beard. Im tired as its been a long day so didn't get a good look but he mustve saw me from afar or maybe seen me in the restaurant we were in I don't know but i was struggling due to being tired and not having eaten all day. I was finally eating and he comes up to ask for a chip, i said no twice but he kept persisting then just grabbed one. On his way past on his bike he yelled thanks for the chip i liked it. Like i didn't make them😂he was with his mates
Besides this was my crushes used to wind me up a lot. And smile while doing it
Im really not the prettiest of girls i have a rubbish face and dont wear make up. Im just about trying to get by everyday so don't make a general effort
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Edit mum Says they were probably drunk🙄
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I'm sorry but I don't think it's anything nice even. I think they are winding you up. Like the one taking a chip, just sounds like he's using you.
I know you said you look rubbish, which I'm sure you aren't, but the actions they are doing just sound like banter and wind ups.
Sorry but hopefully it clarifies it for you!
Well when i ask them to stop they should stop
Not if they know they can take advantage or know you are powerless
Well Most of the guys around were around other people. I've never been on my Own with a guy. I try and stand my ground, my last crush i went up to him. And laahed out at him because i assumed he smoked. He then cut me Off. So. I try and stand up to them Only for it to get thrown back in my Face