Is it okay do be 17 and never kissed a boy yet?

[emilyesler]

its totally finee

uhmm, you shouldve have done it

[Anonymous]

Well, do whatever you want, its not a race and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.
The fact that you have posted the question suggests that you might be unhappy about it though so you need to explore within yourself what is going on there.
If that is something you feel ready for and would like to do then i suggest you persue that.
If however you are just beating yourself up or you are allowing your peers to make you feel bad then i would suggest that you stop comparing yourself to other people and or stop allowing other people to define your emotional state etc

You do whatever you want, be your own person. You do whatever you want to do when you want to do it (assuming you have the proper consents etc of course, you can't just go and snog Justin Beiber, Harry Potter or whatever the fuck a Kpop is just because you want to)

[TruthBringer]

Don't let society makes you think less of yourself because you didn't kiss someone at the age of 17, 20, 25 or whatever. Every person's life is different. You will find the RIGHT person (not the first you see) to have that special kiss with. The important thing is not to rush things, it always ends up badly.

[CrystalSnowflakes]

These days it's irritating how calling someone a virgin or less experienced on the intimate side is an insult. It doesn't matter, wouldn't you rather kiss someone genuinely out of affection opposed to a fake kiss that won't lead anywhere?
It doesn't matter when it happens, it just matters if it was genuine and you both consent and did it out of affection. Don't give in to the idiotic pressure of today.

[Guffrus]

These days?

Its not new..

Actually its much better now, you are only 14 but you are making the right noises, thats whats what social progress looks like.

[btbc92]

Of course it's fine. Don't worry about the opinions of other people and if others fine it weird or your not like them, see well. You can kiss that person goodbye.

[tasleen]

It is better to wait rather than choosing wrong person

[Anonymous]

It's ok, you still have plenty of time, just don't end up like me.
I'm a virgin in my late 30s, I also never had my first kiss, and I never had a date, all of my loves were unrequited :(

[Ianto]

It is perfectly acceptable, if a little unusual.
What holds you back? Most guys will attempt a kiss at the end of a date, so it isn't difficult.

[deeeeone]

Thats not a problem at all.
I'm 22 and never done that.
Be patient.
Everything comes to you.

[paulslammer]

Dont love the first person you kiss. Love us special. You only have one love.

[AaronKrieger]

Yeah, it's completely fine.

[Just_a_human]

Yes it's fine. It's not a big deal

[infinitybreaker2018]

You don't need to rush it

[Anonymous]

Yeah, my first kiss was when I was 20yo

[asshole_]

Of course, however, you're not getting younger

[ItsTheNephilim]

Yeah that's okay.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with that.

[Dchrls78104]

Not just ok; wise.

[Fuentes]

Yeah

[F1nski]

Same opposite.

[Oric5]

Are you awkward?

[emilyesler]

not really, i had some oportunites but they were all fuckboys and I didn't want to be another girl on their list, but all my friend had their first kiss and have been in relationship, except for me

[Oric5]

Are your values different than your friends?

[Anonymous]

It’s SO fine.