I'm guessing you're more of the "sit in the corner and watch" type at a party like I am lol
You guessed it And that is very much correct
Are you wanting to be more outgoing?
Yes and no. A part of me feels like if I do become more outgoing I'll make more friends, and possibly a significant other. But also, I like being alone most of the time
If you like being alone most of the time why do you want a significant other? But his personality should match yours. So he shouldn't be too outgoing either. Unless you want someone to break you out of your shell
It's not that I want a significant other, it's just that the thought of having someone I could be myself around, and also experience love is something that has always made me happy. And yes, I would love to have someone who breaks me out of my shell for sure
Have you never been comfortable around a significant other?
No, I've only had one, and he broke up with me because he felt that he wasn't experiencing the full package. Meaning, I wasn't good enough, physically and I guess mentally
But I'd love to feel like I could be comfortable around a significant other, I've just never been able to experience it
I don't understand. Are you a 500lb paraplegic? Or do you have 13 split personalities? Lol
Either or. Joke. But no, I'm neither. I didn't understand either honestly
You seem like you have a pretty good head so I'm not going to say you're crazy (yet lol). I can't help but wonder what you look like now lol
Thank you, I get it from my father, cool dude.👀 Hmm
What's the hmm for?
And to be honest as a stoner calm and cool is always a good thing
I was trying to be mysterious, but I guess being questioned is a part of it 😂I've heard that once or twice
Being mysterious does have a certain mystery to it i guess lol. But on something like this you don't have to be so shy lol
That's very true
So let me get you out of your shell a little bit lol. I'm sure you're pretty cute anyway
Smooth offer, whatta guy
Just saying lol. Not trying to be forward or anything just trying to loosen you up a bit. This is one place you can kinda come out of a shell. It's the internet lol. You can be whatever you want 😜
It's a lot easier behind a screen, but yes, it does do a good job of getting some of my good qualities out there
Well you're pretty easy to talk to so that's a good one. What's some bad qualities?
I don't necessarily qualify as attractive physically. I can be very temperamental, I also tend to be very blunt. Oo and I'm so sarcastic that people usually think I'm serious.I'm really outing myself here lol, good thing I'm anonymous 🤭
Why do you think you're not physically attractive?
Everything else is easy to deal with if you're used to it lol
I'm not sure, I just never thought myself as pretty, definitely not beautiful. But who knows, someone might think differently 🤷
I couldn't tell you because I don't know what you look like lol
Glad to hear! I'm like that, but I've never had any luck
You just hadn't met the right guy but I'll give you hint. Most guys who are worth it tend to need heavy clues that you're interested in them.
Holy crapple I just thought the guy I liked was extremely oblivious
We are very straight forward creatures. I was reading something earlier where the guy was trying to be nice in pointing out he was worried about her health but didn't know how to word it without upsetting her where if it was to me he would have just called me fat and a concrete breaker and I would have gotten the clue.
My suggestion is just talk to him him @ crazyyyy
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OO THE CONFIDENCE
Men don't like women who create drama, proliferate drama, participate in drama, or propagate drama.Men don't like crises either.Calm women: Don't flip out when there's a crisis and don't often get involved in drama.
Good point there, very much appreciated 😊
@crazyyyy If you are asking me, PM me and we can talk it in more detail. For one thing, I need to know a lot more about the situation and what you and he are like.
Me too 🤭
follow him on snap i guess
I don't think it'd be weird at all. The first step in anything, is to show that you have interest. Do anything you can to get in touch with him.
but what should i tell him?