Do you find/think Asian men attractive? why do you think society has deemed Asian men to be unattractive?

[BlueScorpio]

I've heard a lot of talk about Asian women, well just women in general, not finding a lot of Asian men attractive as they use to? A lot of Asian women would rather date white men than Asian men. I find it strange cause I've always thought there were handsome Asian men everywhere. Do you think it has something to do with the media and how it's negatively effected the image of Asian men same way it's negatively effected the image of black women? Asian men how do you feel about this? Or do you think it's overblown? I think most Asian women stick with their men most of the time.

[hellacray]

If we're talking about the USA I can't entirely blame the media because most Asian households don't support or encourage children to pursue a career in the arts. Whether it's acting, singing, dancing, etc. If you want to do it as an extracurricular activity they're ok with that, just don't make it your job.

So that's one of the reasons why you don't see too much Asian representation in the USA. Most of them has chosen careers outside of the arts.

It would be nice if they have some sort of affirmative action to help Asians get acting roles. But i doubt that will ever happen and I think it's a dumb way to do it.

And tbh I think a lot people in general just buy into stereotypes. Also the values of Asians and everyone else can be quite different. Most Asians I know even at a younger age like to have fun, but they also have their shit together. While others skip class, does drugs, and just overall very irresponsible.

I'm not sure how true it is that Asian women here prefer white men. But I have seen a good amount of mixed couples. I've seen Asian guys with white girls too, but it's incredibly rare. Most Asian guys I know have an Asian girlfriend.

I'm not sure what everyone else thinks, but I do find it pretty laughable that some women say they want a man with a job, and their shit together. Then they end up dating a felon and say there's no good men left. Lol ok...

[Tea-Spaghetti]

haha thank you for your astute analysis. Yeah even if you're successful if you're not masculine you don't stand a chance with most women I think.

[UKisGross]

I think Asian men are celebrated in Asia but not so much worldwide and as an Asian man myself I am not bothered by it. I realize that as a group we’re not the go-to dream boats of this planet I can accept that.

Also there’s a lot of diversity within Asian men. Some are hot while some are just awful just like any men. But as a GROUP they usually get ignored. At least in the likes of Hollywood I guess. It’s ok pop culture is just superficial to begin with I think so I personally don’t care.

Generally speaking North Chinese and Koreans tend to be taller and paler but have thinner eyes. South Chinese and South East Asians are darker and shorter but have rounder eyes. Stereotypically speaking. Japanese are kind of like South Chinese looks in my opinion. Of course that’s just my broad strokes generalization of things.

I think Korean guys probably look the best. Followed by maybe south East Asians like Thai, Philippine, and such. Of course every individual is their own case at the end of the day.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Thank you for MHO!

[Mystic_Nova]

The second photo is nice.
Im just not a fan, maybe certain men are rugged enough to spark something within me, but oriental men are just to feminine most of the time for me.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

at least you're honest thanks!

[Anonymous]

People view Asians as more feminine and black people as more masculine. That's why Asian men and black women are considered less attractive

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Yeah but I feel like every individual person should still be given a chance and not just filtered through their stereotype right? yeah I think so :D

[Opinion Owner]

@Tea-Spaghetti I agree. I'm not justifying it, just explaining it.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

okay i understand

[TenderFantasy]

I am older than you so I know that this has been around for some time. I don't know why it's only now that you are realizing it. Yes, a lot of it indeed is a a result of society's beauty standards in America but the thing is, you don't see Mexican men (like the short ones with dark skin and flat noses and are illegal) being praised as "handsome" either. It's ALL a ploy to degrade people. A part of subtle racism unfortunately. Also, if you have noticed they really DO want to keep all the power in their hands! White men and white women now have their CHOICE to marry either a White Man or a BLACK Man, and their first choice will always be the more POWERUL one (usually) which is the White Man! Lucky for caucasians/whites that their races has various pretty eye and hair colors, that is generally what makes them attractive. There are Spanish people that flee or immigrate to Mexico too and become Mexican citizens and they too have pretty hair and eye colors. But yeah, our world is STILL shallow like that unfortunately!

I really wish it wasn't! I heard that opposites attract (not in everything but at least in terms of looks). That is why I became attracted to my ex (he was white).

[SCRUMPSHUDILLIOCIOUS]

Who is this society that you speak of and who the hell are they to deem what’s attractive and not attractive? Basically saying anything white is attractive or desired and anything else is viewed as
less attractive and undesirable... Which is utter bullshit.🤣

[NamerOfStars]

I'm straight, and entirely so; I've never had a sexual feeling towards another man in my life. So I can't comment on whether they are attractive, but I have noticed something about how they're depicted. The movie The Replacement Killers featured Jet Li was the first Hollywood movie (that I know about) to depict a man of that ethnic group as actually being sexually attractive- he's shown and shot the same way hunky white or black dudes are. Obviously, I imagine it's different in the relevant parts of Asia (do note that Vladimir Putin, Benjamin Netanyahu, Osama Bin Laden and Mohandas Gandhi all are or were ethnically Asian men; this is a minor semantic quibble, but it bugs me nonetheless), but here in the US, it's a relatively recent and still somewhat uncommon thing.

[Anonymous]

Asian men are hot! I’d take Asian guys over white guys 100%. One thing I hate about white men is that most of them have some nasty nuts — big, hairy and smelly 🤢 like no thanks, so fucking gross. A bad experience was when I hooked up with this white college wrestler hunk and he had some fat hairy nuts that smelled so bad I almost wretched. From now on, the only time I’d ever touch a white man’s nutsack is in self defense where I’m squeezing the hell out of those large smelly white eggs! Might make myself a large omelette lol. But this is why I love my Asian guys, their balls are perfect size and smell good.

[FriendlyEnigma]

Ofc! Any person of any person of any race can be attractive, these three for example, hella attractive. I feel like deeming an entire race of people to be unattractive just doesn't make sense

[AmyHew1tt]

Personally, I find many Asian men very attractive. But there aren't many where I live.

[DavidHart]

As an Asian guy, i would recommend u Uncle Roger (YouTube).

[Faheem_akhoon]

I don't think so. If u look people in Afghanistan Pakistan , they can be strong competition for white men

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Yeah like Riz Ahmed from the Venom movie www.thehollywoodnews.com/.../...enom-Trailer-2.jpg

[Anonymous]

Yes us Asian guys are the best :) Thanks for celebrating us :)

[Amy10223]

I find these men very attractive, especially # 2.

[pizzalovershouse]

I can't say cuz not every 1 feels that way

[zagor]

Not being gay, I don't find Asian men attractive.

[Anonymous]

RACISM

[YAsQuen]

low t