Asian men have ranked the lowest and least desirable in online dating if I were to reference the data from response rates from women.
When you grow up not seeing Asian men portrayed in any romantic or revered capacity, it is difficult to envision yourself being attractive to women, especially non Asian women. You come to dwell on how being Asian is a disadvantage since a significant portion of women will automatically disqualify you based on ethnicity. I understand that media plays a role in this equation and have seen it changing slowly in Hollywood, but will it rectify the harm it has done for decades?
I have personally witnessed many who would literally spit in your face with the 'no Asian' sign regardless in bars/pub or the online dating circle. I once overheard my white female colleagues, black female colleagues, and even Indian female colleagues talking about how they would never date an East Asian. So girls, Are Asian men really that unattractive for u?
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Sorry but yes. It’s not hollywoods fault either. I would rather it not be true but I am a man and I can’t really do anything about that. Unfortunately Asian men are like black women in the west. Black women are the more masculine and therefore less desirable to men while Asian men are more feminine and less desirable to women. It dosnt really have a lot to do with your culture, that’s kinda helping you, it has to do with your stature and personality. You just have to look at the silver lining. You get to date Asian women they want you and according to some studies East Asian women are the most desirable. Also I feel like if ur an Asian dude you would have much better luck dating Asian women in America than dating Asian women in your home country. Due to gender ratio gaps and the culture over there, it seems awful.
East Asian men can be very hot. Everyone who says the opposite, hasn’t seen my ex-fiancé.