18 year old dating 43 year old?

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ElvenMr · Accepted Answer

It's been done before, i find it a bit weird, but if you are comfortable, maybe.. you have to decide. Think about everything you could and could not do with him (if you are the girl). And what would you miss by being with him and not someone a bit younger, like around 30, if you are into older guys then you.

I don't think it could end well with this big of a gap personally.
It wouldn't be too healthy for you, it probably wouldn't feel like a real relationship, more like sugar daddy type of scenario, it would probably be fun for a while tho.

WilliamO · Accepted Answer

Fucking weird as hell and if I'm honest my first thought is daddy issues or gold digger I mean people can do what they want as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else but just keep me the fuck out of it lmao

_ohhey_ · Accepted Answer

As long as you were 18 before you started dating (pedophiles can go to hell), then I don't see a problem. Not my thing, but everyone's different. You do you, boo.

SavageGirl101 · Accepted Answer

That’s disgusting 😐 who wants to date a pedophile? Couldn’t be me

Vide_Noir · Answer

Um why is everyone assuming that the 18 y/o is a girl? And I personally find it disgusting for an age gap that big as they can be a grandpa by that point. Though like many have said it is the choice of the two, it doesn't mean there won't be repercussions and consequences such as loss of social life, judgment, and other things like that. But yeah it's the couple's decision

ik9999 · Answer

Personally, I find it disgusting. You can lie to yourself: personality, intelligence, traits, etc, but the truth is the older person just wants someone younger because of her beauty, and his life experience (old dog tricks), power and economical stability help him to get it.

Anonymous · Answer

It's can be a double-edged sword for both of them:

1A) It can be good for him, cause he has a young and hot wife;
1B) He is getting old, soon he won't be able to fuck, and she is probably going to start cheating on him.

2A) It can be good for her if he is rich;
2B) If the guy is poor, she won't get much out of the relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Pedophile taking advantage of a younger girl because of how naive and impressionable they are at this age. A decision you will look back on and feel stupid for. Also, if you fall in love... a heartbreak waiting to happen.

Avicenna · Answer

They're consenting adults. The main issue isn't their respective ages, it's whether they are compatible, which is the issue at any age as far as I am concerned.

RingOfFire · Answer

As long as a relationship is legal it's no one else's business what kind of relationship consenting adults want to have. Life is short and has enough unhappiness. Find happiness anywhere you can.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Do you truly love and respect each other? Are you compatible? If the answer to both of these questions is yes, then it's nobody's business but yours; may you live happily for the rest of your lives.

LoveSmallTits · Answer

oh 25 year difference. if both are Okay and aware of pros and cons and will settle everything then its Okay.

Wise4myage · Answer

He's a lucky dude. It likely won't last, so enjoy it.

DavidFox · Answer

I am wondering what a 43 year old woman wants with a boy who just became an adult. Seems odd.

Anonymous · Answer

Ew. Ok when i was 20 i dated and married a 37 year old. But 18 you are just a baby and with a grown man like that. Nahh.

AmeerX · Answer

Fine by me as long as she is in true love and not just after the money

Grubhub · Answer

My thoughts is his game is weak. He can’t get anybody his age

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

You or they are an idiot if you or they are saying someone that is your or their father's age.

Hangry22 · Answer

She got daddy issues and he maybe rich

slatyb · Answer

Likely a bad idea. How did you meet?

magiusX26 · Answer

she got a friend for me?

taveuni · Answer

can't beat 8 year old dating a 430 year old

OrhanKultigin · Answer

It is not a wise choice.

Anonymous · Answer

You do you; you're both adults.

Skankhunt · Answer

Go for it. You're 18+, so it's legal.

DKShaw48 · Answer

Whatever makes you happy tbh

REDHOTLINE · Answer

If both of them happy no problem

Squirts93 · Answer

Age is just a number

gandolph3 · Answer

if you are having fun, why not

lanadelrey25 · Answer

Sounds fine to me

jasco · Answer

Honestly idc

chriscdi · Answer

good for them

Anonymous · Answer

She's having daddy issues.

Anonymous · Answer

Lucky 43 year old.

Iron_Man · Answer

sure why not

Anonymous · Answer

Gross as hell

Bismarck_96 · Answer

☕🐸.

In_Trance · Answer

whatever works

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

None of my Buisness

Darknessfollows666 · Answer

Thrilling

Silvius · Answer

Perfect

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