Does No Contact work on crushes?

[Anonymous]

If 2 people really liked eachother, but the girl rejects the guy initially, can No Contact work to get her back?

[btbc92]

All it's going to say to her is that the person is immature, she dodged a bullet and is about to avoid getting emotionally abusive people who are selfish and only care about what they can get out of the person. Hence why the rejection reveals the true character of a person. The red flag avoided. They don't work with people who know their worth and value. It works on people who don't love themselves. There are only one or a few reasons a girl who is attracted to another rejects somebody:

1. She never wanted a relationship
2. Attraction is just that. Attraction. It doesn't mean anything.
3. You need more than just attraction to secure a relationship. You have to make sure you're compatible in areas of sex, desire, children, marriage, religion, faith, standards, financially, educationally, academically, etc.
4. Or she isn't ready.
5. You're moving too fast and as # she isn't READY for that. Either you respect that or you don't.
6. She had trust issues, is afraid, etc.
7. She doesn't know what she wants.
8. She is attracted to you, but probably doesn't want to be.
9. Wants to, but circumstances prevent her from doing so.
10. She already knew why and rejected you because of it. You already revealed her suspicions.

Stop playing games with people's lives and emotions. Rejection is part of life and it can hurt. But emotionally blackmailing and being controlling are abusive, selfish, and cruel. If you think this is how you get 'love' from others, then instead of seeking a partner. You need professional help. It's unhealthy and it's wrong. And you will not win other's respect that way.

[Rose00]

Right on!

[Anonymous]

No. If she rejected then try moving on. Something like this never works dude. Plus, no contact in this situation means the person isn’t interested.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Depends need more context. Why did she reject him?

[I-have-a-biscuit]

The heck is No Contact?