Well said sir
Would you want more children?
Not sure. I'd have 2, approaching 40. Would take time to meet someone and be settled enough to have a kid. Don't think i would seek to have another one, but if she really wanted i could be persuaded
I like your open mindedness
Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions
Thank you for your answer
@Asker Are you a single woman, with kids? Maybe? Just trying to find someone that knows the kids come first, and can accept that?
Actually I am just a single woman with no kids. But I heard that it was easier today woman with kids
I definitely understand that children come first that’s not the issue that I’m having. I don’t mind a man that has kids I’ve dated one. But it did come with a lot of baggage like the mother wasn’t stable so she had to stay with him a lot
@Asker So the opposite! He had kids, not you! Sorry, no experience with that! A lot of people bring a lot of baggage to the next relationship. Partly why I have been taking a break, to sort that shit, and leave those bags behind! Nothing major, or troublesome, but 'little things' and I don't want to bring those to the next. . .
perfectly said, I feel the same, at 57 I'm looking to settle for life, I'm rather lonely and get a boost from interacting with children, and love to pass down my life experiences to younger people of any age,,,
@Pete671 honestly even if I was in my 30, at that point. besides she could be an amazing person and the kids could be great too
Thanks, looking back I would have been happier settling in my 30s,
@Pete671 lol well I'm sure you still have time
Thanks, more likely a woman with a daughter with kids though lol,
@Pete671 That could be such a bad thing :3 kids are cute unless you don't want them
Would ever want birth the kids yourself in the relationship?
How so and why
What is the link
I have zero intention of raising another guys so unless she's only looking for something short term I'm not interested.
Why do you believe you don’t have choice?
you dont choose who you fall in love with. as a guy i almost get zero choice in who i date really.
I guess it’s true. Women either
women get most of the choice in who to date though. but yes women get as much choice on who they fall in love with, which as previously stated is you dont.
Why? Because her first priority would be her kids, most likely. Better to start with no strings. Though if her kids were nice I guess I could do it.
because I want my own kids from her
That’s good to hear
by the way do you have kids?
No but I want them in the future and don’t mind if the person I’m dating has them as long they not involve (sexually) with the child mother
alright let me know if you are single n searching too ;)
Why for sure
because we would have less freedom to do stuff the kids would come later
I’m glad that’s still options for you
I like kids but they get old fast, they're a responsibility I dont want anything to do with. I'd rather have time to do whatever we want not planned on a schedule of what to do with the kids first
Less baggage and expenses