Would you turn a girl down because of her boobs?

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So I have DDD boobs (apparently that’s an F in the US) and they’ve started to sag a bit and I’m only 20. They are big and I always have friends telling me “you really do have big boobs” or when I talk to people, they stare.

I’ve become so self conscious that I don’t even want to date because I feel like no man will want me especially now that I’ve noticed they’re starting to sag. At this point I haven’t got a clue on what to do. Before I didn’t try dating because I felt no guy would like my boobs and now the sagging thing just makes me even more self conscious. I feel like I’ll never meet someone! And when I do I’ll probably just cut him off so he doesn’t have to be stuck with someone who doesn’t have small, perky boobs.

I don’t want any rude comments, just advice or your experience or... anything like that

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

At the time with having a 34KK it was the complete opposite for me, lusting guys were only ever after one thing, however in time I met the guy of my dreams who simply wanted me for who I was, and not what I was... We're now very happily married with a little boy.
You see, dreams really can come true.
Please do feel free to pm me if you would like to chat more.
Please do take care and stay safe.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hey! From one woman to another, I highly recommend you try the 'abrathatfits calculator'. A properly fitted DDD isn't a big size at all so there's a huge chance you could be wearing the wrong size. From one woman to another, I definitely recommend you check it out! <3

BeyondCuriosity · Answer

You're so wrong about your boobs! Men love big boobs! Natural big boobs sag. that's just nature and physics. Not only should you not be self conscious, you have every reason to count them as an asset in your favor. People stare at your boobs because they're impressive.

I hope none of this comes off as rude. I'm just trying to be helpful. Here's my advice: Embrace having huge boobs. Show them off even. Don't shy away from people looking at them. What I predict will happen is that you'll start to get a pretty good sized group of men wanting to have sex with you. Of those men, some will want a relationship as well, and you can choose the one you think will be the best for you.

BUT brace yourself, because not every man that's interested is going to be one you're interested in back. They will remain interested all the same. You will probably also get a lot of unwelcome comments from guys about how they like them, and sexual things they want to do. I'd imagine it's pesky or unpleasant, but most of us have no clue how to be good when expressing interest in a woman. We wing it and sometimes it's bad.

I hope this is helpful. You've been blessed, and you should enjoy it.

GingerGuy · Answer

You won't be every guy's "cup of tea", but don't beat yourself up and feed into your insecurities, that's not going to help you at all. There will be guys that love you. And your boobs don't make who you are. Meaning if a guy rejects you solely on your boob size, he has no interest in a relationship with you anyway, so that's good to know right? If a guy is truly interested in you, this won't matter. Like women feel about penises, it's about who it's attached to and so much more to you than your breasts.

virgin20 · Answer

If you're really concerned you could look into getting a boob reduction treatment, where they simply reduce your size. If that'll make you more confident with your body!
I'm not a fan of big boobs but it's not a dealbreaker for sure. It's about connection and other features on her.
So if we got on well I'd date you!

personwew · Answer

I personally have a preference for smaller boobs but I know for a fact that I am in the minority here. Most guys find large boobs very attractive, so don't worry about it! And about the sag thing, that's how boobs look! They're supposed to be like that, they're not supposed to be perfect spheres. Women in media do not represent how women look in real life, and that creates unrealistic standards like the ones you're trying to live up to. Your boobs are perfectly normal!

MathTeacher · Answer

First. I love some sag.
Secondly. Id date you no matter what your boobs look like.
Third. You deserve a guy who likes you for you.

Fourth. If you really hate them, you can change them, but I don't know if you should

Tea-Spaghetti · Answer

Um I feel like the boobs would have to be really weird for me not just a little weird but even then if I really like the girl I might not care. I mean that would be pretty superficial I admit if I just look at boobs for a girlfriend haha.

morganlove · Answer

Small and perky is my preference but there are sooooooo many men with a boob fetish. I would say buy bras with Maximum support and if ya got it, flaunt it. Might want to look into breast reduction if it bothers you that much or if the sagging starts leading to back pain.

mistixs · Answer

Many people like big boobs, and assuming you go for a guy who's mature, I doubt he would be surprised that your boobs have some sag. It's very common.

Kaneki05 · Answer

no? that would be a dumb reason to turn a girl down.

ChattyGuy43 · Answer

because I am a fan and very much attracted to big bust girls, i would not in good sense turn down a busty female

fett253 · Answer

I've dated mostly huge here, really like the size that way, and sag is natural when they're that heavy, trust me, if a guy likes big, you will turn him on.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

If they are fake or if the chest is totally flat, yes.

Skankhunt · Answer

No, absolutely not. Boobs are not the most important thing there is.

REDHOTLINE · Answer

No if you aren't fat or overweight they are perfect for me big boobs are greats.

Unit1 · Answer

I love big tits! It doesn't matter what boob size women have. I simply love women.

worldscolide · Answer

men like breasts. Size is irrelevant. Most men do not care about sag.

AmeerX · Answer

I don't think anyone would dislike you just because of that

Anonymous · Answer

First things first: How tall are you and what do you weigh?

Anonymous · Answer

I would never turn a girl down because of large boobs. Possibly for small boobs, but never the bigger ones

joncombs · Answer

your good girl. dont worry about it.

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