GUYS, do you find this girl attractive?

Question

My boyfriend likes all her photos and follows her on all social media accounts. Even his friends think she’s attractive. I’m annoyed because I don’t find her attractive at all. Me and her also don’t look anything alike so is it possible that guys don’t have a specific type? She’s short. Dark haired and curvy. 😒
And I’m tall with light brown hair and lean.

Also, GUYS, do you find her attractive? Or is my boyfriend just blind? I know I sound jealous but y’all have no idea how annoyed I am about this.

Answer 1

serious | 4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

No, to me she is not attractive but just okay. However, attractiveness and appeal are all subjective to each person so I don't know what your boyfriend sees as attractive and appealing to his eyes.

No matter what it maybe what he is doing is inappropriate in my view.

Yes honestly I would say your boyfriend is blind

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Answer 2

Massageman | 2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Not particularly.
It seems as though this photo is a composite: the eyes, forehead and hair from one pic and seem rather "mild", and the nose, mouth and chin from another, and seem sort of "strong".

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Asker

1 y
Her nose mouth and chin are strong?
Massageman

1 y
Compared to eyes and brows, I'd think so.
Asker

1 y
I’m just asking what do you mean by strong?
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Massageman

1 y
More prominent.

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Asker

Her nose mouth and chin are strong?

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Massageman

Compared to eyes and brows, I'd think so.

Answer 5

Asker

I’m just asking what do you mean by strong?

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Massageman

More prominent.

Answer 7

Anonymous

tbh i don't think his friends find her attractive, they probs just saying that. like there's no way all of them do lmao. unless it's a bad pic. cos i mean she's not hot to me, she's too fat & on top of that plain

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Asker

1 y
I agree. I don’t find her attractive. She’s unfortunately not fat. I wish she was. Lol. I went to middle school and high school with her. She was a chubby kid and then lost the weight. She’s in shape now but I guess she never lost the fat on her face. That’s why I don’t find her attractive at her. She has a decent body but her face is ehh.

Answer 8

Asker

I agree. I don’t find her attractive. She’s unfortunately not fat. I wish she was. Lol. I went to middle school and high school with her. She was a chubby kid and then lost the weight. She’s in shape now but I guess she never lost the fat on her face. That’s why I don’t find her attractive at her. She has a decent body but her face is ehh.

Answer 9

Hangry22

Guru

Do you want your boyfriend crushing over a girl you also find attractive? Isn't that way worse unless you're into sharing?

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Asker

1 y
I don’t find her attractive. That’s what I’m saying. Like I don’t understand why he finds her attractive. I don’t think she’s pretty at all.
Hangry22

1 y
That's his preference. People don't have the same eyes as yours.

Answer 10

Asker

I don’t find her attractive. That’s what I’m saying. Like I don’t understand why he finds her attractive. I don’t think she’s pretty at all.

Answer 11

Hangry22

That's his preference. People don't have the same eyes as yours.

Answer 12

VertigoJ

Xper 4

Have you considered that perhaps she's his friend, and he likes her pics because he likes her, or he thinks she appreciates support? Just because they are different genders doesn't mean he's thinking about her in that way. Perhaps asking him would be the way to go?

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Answer 13

Zer0Ghost | 434 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

Why do you have to agree on if she's attractive or not? Different people like different things, and even the same person can like different things, doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive, too.

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Answer 14

argyle

Xper 4

Personally, I find her attractive, but since everyone is different, what does it matter? Had you posted a picture of both this girl and you and asked everyone to choose, what would that have proved?

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Answer 15

DavidFox

Yoda

Why get so worked up about a girl he will never meet and wouldn’t have a chance with?

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Asker

1 y
We all live in the same town. He works with her.

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Asker

We all live in the same town. He works with her.

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morganlove | 127 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

Just from her face, she looks too thick to be attractive but that’s a me thing. Most guys have a “type” but we don’t necessarily stick to it.

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Asker

1 y
I think what bothers me the most is just her face. She’s actually in shape but I went to middle school with her and she was a chubby kid. She never lost the fat on her face but she lost it everywhere else. I just don’t see what anyone would see in her I guess
morganlove

1 y
Maybe if I saw the entire thing I would feel differently but just not feeling it with that picture
Asker

1 y
Her IG is jayne_flowers. If you’re interested in getting a better reference. She has full body shots. I also just noticed that I used a photo where she put filters on. Not the best reference.
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morganlove

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Private profile but I honestly don’t think I would be that impressed either way
Asker

1 y
Oh yeah. I’m ok with her body. It’s her face that I can’t get with. Besides her lips and eyes, I don’t see the attraction at all.

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Asker

I think what bothers me the most is just her face. She’s actually in shape but I went to middle school with her and she was a chubby kid. She never lost the fat on her face but she lost it everywhere else. I just don’t see what anyone would see in her I guess

Answer 19

morganlove

Maybe if I saw the entire thing I would feel differently but just not feeling it with that picture

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Asker

Her IG is jayne_flowers. If you’re interested in getting a better reference. She has full body shots. I also just noticed that I used a photo where she put filters on. Not the best reference.

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morganlove

Private profile but I honestly don’t think I would be that impressed either way

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Asker

Oh yeah. I’m ok with her body. It’s her face that I can’t get with. Besides her lips and eyes, I don’t see the attraction at all.

Answer 23

Dazzler1983

Xper 5

She is okay. Not the best looking but i think she's cute but I wouldn't go on about her. You are probably cute to.

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Answer 24

zagor | 8.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

No, not unless that is just a really unflattering pic.

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Quidthonian | 254 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Average looks in my opinion. Unnecessary star and moon on her cheeks.

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RingOfFire | 434 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

I don't find her attractive, but you can't even tell how a girl looks with those stupid filters.

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Pulseofsulfur | 188 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

I don't understand why your boyfriend liked all of her pics. Your boyfriend is blind. She's attractive in her ways but not in my opinion.

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Answer 28

chriscdi

Master

looks a little like a girl i follow on insta, i think the one on my insta is better tho, at least body wise

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Asker

1 y
This girl has a nice body. I’ll give her that. The whole small waist, big breasts and she works out so she has a booty 😒 it’s just her face that I don’t see as attractive.
chriscdi

1 y
instagram.com/okshannon?igshid=6adaeqwc8zms
chriscdi

1 y
is this her?
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Asker

1 y
No. The one I’m talking about has big boobs. Her name is jayne_flowers on IG. Look her up. She has some full body photos on there.
chriscdi

1 y
she is private but ill take your word for it lol
Asker

1 y
Lol just follow her. I want you to understand my frustration
chriscdi

1 y
im sure she would have to follow back but ill take your word for it, she got a good body which obviously men like
Asker

1 y
Do you find her attractive tho?
chriscdi

1 y
not really, she's alright but i dont see a big deal
Asker

1 y
Same. I don’t see it. I think they just like her lips and her body.
chriscdi

1 y
yea most likely, so lust

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Asker

This girl has a nice body. I’ll give her that. The whole small waist, big breasts and she works out so she has a booty 😒 it’s just her face that I don’t see as attractive.

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chriscdi

instagram.com/okshannon?igshid=6adaeqwc8zms

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chriscdi

is this her?

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Asker

No. The one I’m talking about has big boobs. Her name is jayne_flowers on IG. Look her up. She has some full body photos on there.

Answer 33

chriscdi

she is private but ill take your word for it lol

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Asker

Lol just follow her. I want you to understand my frustration

Answer 35

chriscdi

im sure she would have to follow back but ill take your word for it, she got a good body which obviously men like

Answer 36

Asker

Do you find her attractive tho?

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chriscdi

not really, she's alright but i dont see a big deal

Answer 38

Asker

Same. I don’t see it. I think they just like her lips and her body.

Answer 39

chriscdi

yea most likely, so lust

Answer 40

Dman19

Xper 4

Nopw not attractive to me but anyways. Does he have a past with her that you know of?

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Answer 41

Yourman86

Xper 4

She is cute but I wouldn't say hot. Not a great pic of her

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Answer 42

QuietRunner | 898 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

He is blind

That crescent moon and star need to go

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Answer 43

Anonymous

Who do you think you're fooling? That is you. I've seen this way too many times now.

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Asker

1 y
I’d kill myself if I looked like this. 🤢
Opinion Owner

1 y
I've heard that before too. it's ok to want to have an idea of what others think about our appearance, you look fantastic.
Asker

1 y
I genuinely wanted to know why my SO likes how she looks because me and her are opposites but ok

Answer 44

Asker

I’d kill myself if I looked like this. 🤢

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Opinion Owner

I've heard that before too. it's ok to want to have an idea of what others think about our appearance, you look fantastic.

Answer 46

Asker

I genuinely wanted to know why my SO likes how she looks because me and her are opposites but ok

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jeremy_09 | 161 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

she looks very sexual

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Asker

1 y
I don't know what that means. In a bad way?
jeremy_09

1 y
guys would like her a lot

Answer 48

Asker

I don't know what that means. In a bad way?

Answer 49

jeremy_09

guys would like her a lot

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Gentlemanlover100

Xper 1

Yes she is attractive.

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Joe1956 | 57 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

not overly attractive... maybe she likes to fuck?

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Asker

1 y
I think it’s just her body that guys find attractive. I’m ehh about her face
Joe1956

1 y
not that great really... can't see much of her body..., im with you ehhh on the fae...