Girlfriend getting hit on?

Question

My girlfriend gets hit on and chatted up in a regular basis. It bothers me, but I don't want to come across insecure so I just kind of laugh it off. Or say something like 'I can't blame them'

is this a good though though that she's tells me about them? She always tells me about guys in work, she's open about a guy friend from school who recently asked her on a date. She tells me openly about guys who seem to try and chat her up. This is a good thing that she tells me? I've always told her I like honesty. She has told me I am her everything and wants a future with me.

She also has a good few guy friends who she regularly sees. She has known these before me. Although I get jealous I accept she has guy friends. She has told me that she has guy friends but I am the only one she has romantic interest in.
Should I be grateful she is open about all this?

CurLyF · Accepted Answer

Well if you told her you liked honesty I guess she thought you'd like to know all that stuff. I find it normal that *inside* you feel a bit jealous about guy friends, as long as you don't act on it. I would be a bit too but as long as he doesn't give me any reason to, I wouldn't ask to stop seeing his girl friends or something. I'm very honest but I still would talk to my boyfriend *all* the time about all the guys hitting on me, maybe just mention it once or twice as a way of showing I have nothing to hide and have done nothing wrong or good things that seem bad. I would never ever cheat, though. It doesn't matter if the person is getting lots of atention or not and it doesn't matter if you keep that person on a tight leash or not, if they want to cheat they will and there's nothing you can do to stop it and that ONLY reflects on them and their poor moral values. So all that's left is trust and take a leap of faith :) you will never regret doing the right thing and hoping for the best, trust and love her and enjoy her and the relationship.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I've been down that road.
You should be careful and low-key pay attention to what she does and says.
She's got a lot of temptation that you will never experience.
My ex was open and honest about getting hit on daily and eventually she did get tired of me and start fucking around.
It's an easy option for her and if she's fighting with you she can always get attention elsewhere.
Welcome to the joy and pain of having a hot girlfriend.