Honest question.. Would you date someone with an onlyfans page? 🤔?

[RaeTay]

[zeitgeist057]

This world is full of hypocrites.

For proof, check out all the people hating on Only Fans, porn, etc. Then look at the numbers and see who is getting views, and the statistics on porn use:

https://www.statista.com/chart/16959/share-of-the-internet-that-is-porn/

As you read the responses from males, keep in mind that close to 90% of them partake in watching porn at least on a weekly basis. So unless you've got close to 90% of answers from them coming from a place of at least understanding and a little compassion, then know you are dealing with some people who can't deal well with reality. A better question would be, do you think a person with a popular OnlyFans would even consider dating you, or are they too far above you out of your league to consider it?

Let the hypocrites cry out, shake their heads, and shame the workers in the industries they support.. The phenomenon of the Madonna/Whore Complex is alive and well.

I would be fine dating someone whatever job they had, as long as we have good chemistry how they make a living is their choice. If I click with someone, I accept them for who they are and what they do.

[_RandomGuy_18]

Bruh you're totally missing the point. It's not about if people look at that shit or not. It's about whether or not you would date someone who bought there first car selling pics of their butthole. I'm not saying they shouldn't be doing it or that I dont look at porn. But I'm not gonna date someone with onlyfans anymore then I'd date a porn star.

[zeitgeist057]

@_RandomGuy_18 dude, it's absolutely..."about if people look at that shit or not". This is what I mean by hypocrisy. People are totally okay with "using the product", but then look down on the people that are making it as if they are some lesser form of human that is beneath them. It reminds me of a comedian, I think it was Dennis Leary (the sound byte is in a Tool song), said something to the effect of "Hey, you know all those people hating on drugs and saying drugs are bad. Well if you hate drugs so much, go home, take all those albums you love listening to, all that great music and art and just burn it. Because those people who created all that you love so much? Rrrrrrrrrrrrreally fucking high on drugs."

I do appreciate your perspective, I get it that you want your girl to be all yours and no one else has ever seen her butthole and that's what makes it special for you. I'm coming from a different end of the spectrum where I don't think that matters so much, that's just a part of everyday life, I've seen countless buttholes and I don't think every girl whose butthole I've seen is somehow beneath me because she got some money for the shoot.

I'm not saying you gotta date someone with an onlyfans or in porn, but I am saying I think there's a bigger picture here, and I don't think you're seeing it. I'm not saying the way I see things is the only way to see things, actually the opposite, that your perspective is valid, so is mine, and we all make choices for ourselves. I just want to point out the hypocrisy/illogic of loving apples but refusing to date an apple farmer.

[Slim57]

Found the simpleton

[zeitgeist057]

@Slim57 MHO of 3%, very impressive. You don't seem to have a lot to offer people besides being a troll. Perhaps I struck a little to close to home for you; thanks for standing up to be counted.

[Slim57]

That happens when you have answered a bunch of opinions, especially so when you answer a bunch of non serious questions that no one even cares or knows who to pick for mho, and if you also wanna go that route my following seems to think that, I do, funny you brought something up literally useless though

[zeitgeist057]

@Slim57 I agree you are very close to literally useless. Over 20,000 opinions given and little to no value as voted on by all users of the website. You don't need to explain that you put little to no thought into your prolific yammering; that was evident immediately.

[Slim57]

Because of my opinions on an online site? Right. Im sure answering questions has gotten you so far in life simp

[Anonymous]

How could I date someone I couldn't take seriously?

[bambolinababy]

Yes.

Most dudes are already in the sex industry... going to strip clubs, checking out of models, or wanking off to stolen porn.

Heck my standard rule of dating is 'if he wanks to porn then I make an OnlyFans'.🤷 Don't go treating and viewing other women in a manner you don't want men to treat me.

[itsbrielle98]

If it’s just solo stuff idc. If they were “collabing” i. e. having sex with a different person for content and we’re in an exclusive relationship I’d be pissed

[coachTanthony]

We are in the middle of a pandemic... jobs are hard to come by lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, if she did it to make money then it would be a definite NO. I would only consider giving her a pass if she was just doing it for fun.

[Jamie05rhs]

I can appreciate sluts, but I absolutely despise whores.

[coachTanthony]

@Jamie05rhs Glad to see you have such high standards. You must have an awesome girlfriend.

[Jamie05rhs]

@coachTanthony Oh, she will be awesome, my friend; she will be. ;)

[Anon621]

No. I think it's the other person's choice because it's their body not mine but the fact that I would potentially dating someone who has an army of simps who also know what they look like naked I wouldn't feel comfortable. I'm a lowkey guy and I like to have privacy and I prefer my partner to respect their own privacy but at the end of the day everyone makes different decisions so if that person wants a 12 year old army of simps than so be it. I just wouldn't feel comfortable bringing a girl home and then telling my parents something along the lines of hey dont look up my partners social media my partner exposes her body online

[RaeTay]

Not only respectable it’s Understandable🎯

[Anonymous]

I had to really think about it before answering. I know it would make me feel uncomfortable. Especially the interactivity of it. I don't think I would date a girl with an onlyfans. That just wouldn't sit right with me. The interactivity just makes it a little too close to prostitution.

[RaeTay]

Valid point ! Like why would you what the whole world to see your women naked 😭

[Opinion Owner]

It's not even other people seeing her naked that would bother me. I could deal with that. It'd be like showing her off, like "Look who I come home to! Be jealous! ^^" It really is just that they talk and do requests and whatnot that I can't get behind.

[Nordicnerd]

Love how these people comment like they own their partners body smh.

I would. Only reason I might wouldn't is if they weren't honest and upfront about it. Not talking first date info, but if we are talking relationship, I need to know everything.

Money is money.

[ShadezMcgee]

friends with benefits and hook up, yes, but not girlfriend/relationship material. I wouldn't want my girlfriend showing herself to other guys on the internet to get money and possibly end up cheating if there is incentive with the more personal interactive feature to talk with fans of your content.

[israelisevil]

it’s not like she doing porn fucking other guys idc about picture pussy. Better then broke girl but I’d want her have real job too if serious relationship

[israelisevil]

Would u rather broke girl

[israelisevil]

She not gunna fuck some stranger she met who paid 15$ for porn you can get online. Those people all uncles

[israelisevil]

Incels*

[ShadezMcgee]

@israelisevil I would easily take a broke girl over a woman who sells her sexuality and violates the trust and integrity of a relationship we have as a couple. Money she makes for herself isn't worth my emotional sanity and integrity as a man who values relationships over something superficial like that.

Suck it the fuck up and deal with the opinion you keyboard warrior pussy. Bro, do you even understand how that site works and female nature at all? Quit white knighting and simping for them. They think guys who purchase that content from them are losers in the long run.

[israelisevil]

Lmfao how that simping/white knighting people need money retards pay money. nobody touching fucking or getting convo with your girl. Average girl posts instagram content more sexual then photo of a girls tits. Whats female nature got do with selling photos to loosers online. White knighting and simping is saying something like a pimp can't kill his hooker for not paying fees. this just stupid people paying money for stupid things. i dont see it as sex work.

[ShadezMcgee]

@israelisevil it is sex work, bro. They are selling sexualised photos and content of themselves. To add to that, that interactive feature that allows them to interact with purchasers of their content. They are at that point online strippers. It leaves the ones in relationships susceptible to cheating on the guys they are actually with. That is female nature since they are more emotionally based. Their attraction for men can grow.

Plus, you can't look me in the eyes and tell me these women don't have sugar daddies somewhere flying them around in their group of buyers? Nah, get our of here. A good chunk of them have alternative sites and some are escorts and some are legit porn stars and strippers. So yeah, sex work.

It is only a matter of time and how far these women are willing to go. Bet money some of them have gone to that physical side with people who have bought their content.

[israelisevil]

Emotionally based doesn't explain y anybody would cheat with someone pays for nudes from them. thats not the same as a stripper a stripper TOUCHES other men, onlyfans is a internet websites. 95 percent Sugar daddy offers are to trick hookers into getting bank account numbers of where they would send money its takes someone almost as stupid as a cashapp flip scammer to buy into it. A woman not gunna leave you for a loser paying for nudes.

[ShadezMcgee]

@israelisevil 🤦‍♂️

You don't get and you never will. There are other ways sugar daddies give money, but I am just wasting my time with you. I know the truth and so do many men here. Knock yourself out with that belief, but know this. You are a fool.

[israelisevil]

sugar daddies are scam rob girls of money with getting there bank account info you dumbass i got friend runs those scams sugar daddies not real they same as cashapp flip scams. A girl in relationship won't leave you some ugly loser buying porn. if you with girl like that its cause you dated a girl likes going restraunts and money and other sighns being shallow.

[ShadezMcgee]

@israelisevil once again, this subject has gone over your head. I have given you my reasons as to why I would date and hookup with them but not a real relationship with one or make her my girlfriend. Other guys will say the same thing as me and have stated it in the comments below, but you are very hellbent on repeating the same thing and talking to me.

Again, they are only date and friends with benefits for me. Relationships require integrity, trust and intimacy to work. If we get to the core of the question if my girl needed a place to stay, she could live at my place to get back on her feet when she gets a job to start saving and paying for her stuff.

OnlyFans contradicts relationships as a whole. This site has a notorious track record of attracting women for the sole purpose of making a quick buck by exploiting sexuality through a paywall. A paywall for cheap and being able to receive attention and money from thirsty dudes that both want to bang her and validate her for one thing, her body.

You expect a man to be cool with his girlfriend selling her photos and sexuality, and time by talking to her fans online after all the time, energy and emotional and mental strength he put into making her his girlfriend? Again, you are a fool.

Why would a man want a girlfriend who violates the boundaries and very foundation of a relationship for money? It is not only emotional cheating, it's a lazy and cheap way to earn it as a woman.

If she we were dating/friends with benefits I will not have much investment in her because I want a woman who has self respect and integrity and takes the future into account. If she wants a kids and family, that crap will be out there and come back to haunt her, but her kids too.

If she needs a job, why not get one that requires a degree or basic one with simple skills? Why exploit your sexuality instead? The latter one is chosen because it is easier and doesn't require as much effort.

[israelisevil]

yah but she doesn't touch other men there's not even verification who you are like porn your not fucking let alone touching other people. if she's a hooker or stripper id understand but not someone selling photos you can set up onlyfans and sell pictures girls from google y dont u do that. also y u so aware of how sight works do u pay for stuff thats free.

[Daniel3035]

Never.
Sex is something very special between two people if a woman is using that for money then I'm good thanks. Funny you go to hookup sites and look for girls who just want sex you'll find none all of them want money for their "services".

[VanillaSalt]

One requires them to put in the effort the other way it’s just I’m getting paid to be admired. The women that use these services don’t want to really work they think they should be paid for their beauty. It’s sickening.

[Daniel3035]

@VanillaSalt Exactly if your being paid for sex and I'm having sex with you shouldn't I be paid.

[VanillaSalt]

Nope. Sex like anything else is a service and as a service the one looking pays the one offering.

[Daniel3035]

@VanillaSalt Well the one providing a service is "looking" too. I'd never pay them not worth it when I can grab a girl from the bar.

[VanillaSalt]

I would. I’ve wanted to experience a skilled woman always once. My partners have all been relationships and either their very unskilled or I’m just a pain in the ass to appease. Do I’ll do it one day soon. So I can see value in it on occasion. Also I have little skill with the ladies as I’m so dense that I once made a condom joke because a girl commented she always had condones on her... hint hint. I also work a lot and on gy shift while having no real socializing hobbies. My hobbies are things like hunting and fishing so lmao

[Daniel3035]

@VanillaSalt Girls dig hunting haven't you seen youtube vids of girls using sniper rifles etc.

[VanillaSalt]

If your finding women while hunting I ask what your hunting lol. Also sniper rifles?

[Anonymous]

first of all dating does not mean your getting lucky; there are plenty of relationships today were women actively express/ makes that clear (good) so the guarantee of pussy is off the table they could also say that assuming so is sexist 2. the sexual integrity of the relationship is gone, when you're cheating it only really maters if you get caught and you hurt her/ his trust and compromises the integrity of the relationship. 3 fansonly and things of this nature normally leads to prostitution I have several family members who have smashed girls with a fans only. 5. the MIa kalifa- women will do this now but demand respect/ restraint later. consent is important but sexual attraction happens long before consent and affects you're interactions with the person. it would feel weird knowing your boss made money with a fans only and payed her way through school so she can boss you around because you dont have lushes titties

[The_Inquisitor]

No, I wouldn't.

I'd fuck a person, be fuck buddies with them? Friends with Benefits. but not a romantic relationship, I want someone who doesn't flaunt their body around for money to be my partner

[MCheetah]

Even I have more self-respect than that. Escorts and hookers are literally a better option, as at least they have more dignity and work harder than OnlyFans trash.

[israelisevil]

Y people act like she a stripper or hooker. She not gunna fuck some looser pays for porn and cheat. She doesn’t see clients. Ask yourself would u rather date broke girl no money have pay for stuff or girl with money. I’d hope she has real job to

[Kaneki05]

yeah. There is no harm to a relationship for a women to post a pic and get paid for it. Now if she was doing it with intent to cheat that's when it's a problem. But Onlyfans is simply a easy way to get money.

[MecheD]

Yes , if she only exposed herself alone and not with a partner. Simply because it’s truly tough to mentally be able to endure the ridicule. The truth alone tears you up but there is proof out there that people will taunt you with.

[perfectchaos]

Me personally probably not. Like I would have to be so madly in love with them that they would have to be perfect. That would be impossible so no.

[Not_Average]

I'd be her friend as I'm fairly open minded, but I most likely wouldn't date her. There are far more efficient and honest ways to learn a living, and I can't respect what you're doing tbh.

[Guanfei]

Absolutely not. I don't share my girl with hundreds of horny guys. But that's on me, maybe your boyfriend wouldn't mind. I know I couldn't, no matter how nice you are.

[Brian___1731]

Nope, I wouldn't date a girl who has an army of simps following her all the time

[_RandomGuy_18]

Never bruh. Only fans isn't a "hustle" it's modern day prostitution

[deadroses18]

Yesss Definitely agreeeeee!!!

[Jenom]

Absolutely not. Any form of sex work is a total deal breaker from me.

[dac91]

Depends on how open we are as a couple or how we are together
How much we talk
I feel like this can be an ok thing but it can also be a na I'm good

[Be4rdy]

Turn the question round and what would you say?

I wouldn't personally

[RaeTay]

Hell no I already got my answer