Should I pursue a girl although she has a boyfriend?

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LEYvh · Accepted Answer

Definitely not. Since you’re already aware of her being in a relationship, it would likely turn into a moment you’re not proud of in a few years. Also, I don’t believe you would consider this okay were you in your own relationship and your girlfriend was asked out by a guy. If you’re questioning something try to use a perspective of empathy.

Iwasthinkingif · Accepted Answer

I do not think it is a good idea.
If she ends up leaving him for you, that would mean she is not a very loyal person and she could do it again. Also, you may hurt yourself which is the last thing you should do

SjE78 · Accepted Answer

no, if she has a boyfriend already... walk away... do not get involved, that will get messy... but if you decide to ignore that advice, just remember, if she decided to cheat on her boyfriend, with you... that could be you being cheated on when she gets bored or when someone who she thinks is better, comes along...

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

How would you feel if she was already your girlfriend and some other guy knew about you but wanted to pursue her anyway?

If she is the kind of girl who will respond to your overtures and be unfaithful to her current boyfriend, then won't you simply be the next boyfriend to whom she is unfaithful?

Hangry22 · Answer

Nope. If that girl is giving you signals, she's a slut with no morals. What do you expect anyways? She will come with you as your girlfriend? She might but she will cheat on you with another you

boggboss · Answer

Would you want guys pursuing her if she was with you

John_Galt · Answer

As long as the guy is not your friend or important to you in anyway... Then game on!!

“If she cheats on him or dumps him for you... I would keep that in the back of my mind before I committed to a relationship with her though”.

Gabboo · Answer

um, no. If she's willing to play this little shit show game with her current boyfriend, ahe will also do it to you. Don't persue trash

WesBrewer · Answer

Nah, you can be her friend and sweep her up when he is gone but otherwise no.

SandandWaves · Answer

Nope. She has a boyfriend, she is not gonna go with you.

Paolaa988 · Answer

That's not a cool move.. what makes you think she won't leave or cheat on you with another guy?

pleasestopthis · Answer

Show some respect dude, she's already with someone. You wouldn't want that happening to you.

spartan55 · Answer

Sure, if you feel like being one of those dudes. Be prepared to probably take a beating at some point. Worth it?

TessCasie · Answer

Hahaha... of course you should. Just don’t get caught by the guy. Be careful not to get a black eye lol.

CassieCape · Answer

Would you be okay with a guy pursuing your girlfriend if you were in a relationship?

BroadwayQueer · Answer

No, you should respect her relationship and not make things complicated.

yucychan · Answer

I hope her boyfriend knows about you and kicks your ass.

Wise4myage · Answer

No. Move on to other girls and save yourself the heartache.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Don't make a cunt of yourself. Also what happens when he finds out.

In_Trance · Answer

no... you're wasting your time. There's 3 billion females on this planet; pick someone else

tata1993 · Answer

No. So many single girls out there

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

Yes, you only live once so go after what you desire. If she is faithful to her boyfriend, she will turn you down, and if not, you'll be happy you pursued her

Anonymous · Answer

What kind of idiot needs something like that explained to them? 🤨

Jacobthedude · Answer

No bro. Plenty of fish in the sea dont try to ruin someone happiness

Yads_Is_Back · Answer

No. Respect the fact that she has a boyfriend.

SparklyRoses · Answer

No, but you could tell her how you feel and just be close friends with her

OddBeMe · Answer

Just be a friend and play the long game. Also see if she’s jealous when you double date.

Anonymous · Answer

No and you're a worthless idiot for even considering it... Say it with me now, your soul mate is not someone else's girlfriend or wife. Keep your hands to your self.

Tim-loves-it · Answer

I did, but didn't care. 12 years later she became my wife.

mert11345678 · Answer

You can get very little beating who can get in and escape with someone else's spouse.

I-have-a-biscuit · Answer

In my ideal, respectful world, no

Cataphract · Answer

Nope. Stick to the bro code.

iseekpinetrees · Answer

No be respectful of her relationship

dudeinohio · Answer

no you should not... find your own girl.

SavageGirl101 · Answer

Hell no your a total home wrecker

Twalli · Answer

No. She is not the one you want if you get her.

RebeccaBecca95 · Answer

Only if you wanted to happen to you later.

msss98 · Answer

Nope

JoeSchmoeCool · Answer

Obvious answer- no

Konabeana · Answer

Nope nope nope

AmeerX · Answer

No for your own good man.

sheikalana · Answer

Nope.

testersite00 · Answer

no. don't do it.

Joeharbor · Answer

Yup. I used to do it all the time

fishlipsfriend · Answer

No no

AliceTheNguyener · Answer

Nope.

Paris13 · Answer

Move on!!! xx

Anonymous · Answer

Of course not.

slatyb · Answer

You can ask her out.

Whtevernever · Answer

Nope.

iFarted · Answer

No... slap yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

No no heck NO

Coolmanxl · Answer

Of course Lol

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