Why do girls never give their friends a chance after complaining about the players and horrible guys they date & instead moan about being single?

Question

and how there’s no good guys. When she has close guy friends who fancy her. Why doesn’t she give them a chance?

Answer 1

Anonymous

Women act on attraction and emotion, not logic or friendship. if the guy is a close friend, then he has not generated any sexual attraction, tension, or uncertainty. They may well complain about the players and the horrible men, but ultimately they are driven by emotion.

However, if a guy is friends with a girl, he can transform this into something else if he understands the above.

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How?
Opinion Owner

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Gradually stop treating her as a friend, create distance, slowly build sexual tension and change how she sees you. This will depend on the guys personality, and whether he knows how to flirt. It may not be easy though.
Asker

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I already do create distance. I rarely text her, just make plans. But it doesn’t seem to do much.
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Asker

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Think I’m just not a good flirt.
Opinion Owner

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Without being a good flirt, most of the other things will fail. For the most part, women become attracted by what they hear and then see, but men become attracted by what they see and then hear.

Answer 2

Opinion Owner

Gradually stop treating her as a friend, create distance, slowly build sexual tension and change how she sees you. This will depend on the guys personality, and whether he knows how to flirt. It may not be easy though.

Answer 3

Asker

I already do create distance. I rarely text her, just make plans. But it doesn’t seem to do much.

Answer 4

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Think I’m just not a good flirt.

Answer 5

Opinion Owner

Without being a good flirt, most of the other things will fail. For the most part, women become attracted by what they hear and then see, but men become attracted by what they see and then hear.

Answer 6

msc545 | 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Because if you are not 6' or taller, rich, and as attractive as a male model, no matter how nice you are, they will never consider you more than a friend.

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SavageGirl101 | 254 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Because they are our friends for a reason that means that we don’t wanna date u

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Why not though?
SavageGirl101

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Because we just don’t have feelings for u duh
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I see. But girls seem to fancy less guys than guys fancy girls?
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SavageGirl101

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What
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As in guys fancy a lot more women in their lifetime than women fancy guys.
SavageGirl101

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What’s wrong with that?
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Nothing if she’s happy with that
SavageGirl101

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Well yes plenty of women are happy being without a man❤️

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Asker

Why not though?

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SavageGirl101

Because we just don’t have feelings for u duh

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Asker

I see. But girls seem to fancy less guys than guys fancy girls?

Answer 11

SavageGirl101

What

Answer 12

Asker

As in guys fancy a lot more women in their lifetime than women fancy guys.

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SavageGirl101

What’s wrong with that?

Answer 14

Asker

Nothing if she’s happy with that

Answer 15

SavageGirl101

Well yes plenty of women are happy being without a man❤️

Why do girls never give their friends a chance after complaining about the players and horrible guys they date & instead moan about being single?

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