and how there’s no good guys. When she has close guy friends who fancy her. Why doesn’t she give them a chance?
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Because if you are not 6' or taller, rich, and as attractive as a male model, no matter how nice you are, they will never consider you more than a friend.0
Because they are our friends for a reason that means that we don’t wanna date u8
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Women act on attraction and emotion, not logic or friendship. if the guy is a close friend, then he has not generated any sexual attraction, tension, or uncertainty. They may well complain about the players and the horrible men, but ultimately they are driven by emotion.
However, if a guy is friends with a girl, he can transform this into something else if he understands the above.
Gradually stop treating her as a friend, create distance, slowly build sexual tension and change how she sees you. This will depend on the guys personality, and whether he knows how to flirt. It may not be easy though.
I already do create distance. I rarely text her, just make plans. But it doesn’t seem to do much.
Think I’m just not a good flirt.
Without being a good flirt, most of the other things will fail. For the most part, women become attracted by what they hear and then see, but men become attracted by what they see and then hear.