Is my Tinder weak?

[Jhab96]

I know this is a silly question but im looking for genuine feedback ! I hardly ever get many likes/matches on there (I don't take Tinder too seriously on the count of id prefer to meet someone organically anyway) but sometimes I wonder if there's maybe something about my page thats off-putting or bland? Is my black eyes alien photo too weird? Bio to generic? Do my photos give a certain impression? And tips or advice? I even have a picture of my cat ! 😂 Input appreciated 😁

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+1 y

Thanks for the feedback everyone ! I just need different photos and look less gay gotcha lmao

[Vewrie]

Well... I can’t speak for everyone so this is just MY take. I am not found of those filtered selfies, actually I prefer a photo that is not even a selfie because it looks less self absorbed. And a natural one where I can see the true eyes (windows to the soul...). I am not attracted to dressing up as aliens, vampires etc so that is also a no from ME. I don’t know why but I don’t want to see pets on Tinder. I am sure some girls like that though. Probably.

[Vewrie]

Hm, I don’t find how you edit your comments here. But I wanted to say some more. You look good, you remind me of Joseph Gordon-Lewitt who I find gourgeous. I see some others perceive you as “gay” and I actually did too. Now, I can find gay men attractive 😛 so that actually is not too bad for me, but I think it is what I perceive as “self involved” with these filtered selfies. I don’t find people interesting that posts a lot of selfies in general and when it comes to guys it is bad for me. I like guys who confess to “know nothing of social media”. But that’s me.

[stupidgrls]

The beard doesn't look good on you. The first pictures is cute tho. Also the quote thing, I personally would get turned off by it. I think it screams "I'm a gentleman and will treat you like a queen" too superficial and cringey for me. I think you should say something funny instead of a bland quote.

[Jhab96]

I gotcha thanks 👌 ! 😂

[stupidgrls]

Also a better picture of your cat. I'd swipe right just to check out someone's cat

[Jhab96]

I have more photos on my page I just selected the ones I thought were key for this post

[Jhab96]

That is a fact tho haha

[Vewrie]

Yes I agree and I don’t like girls that post stupid shit about being queens either. They are not queens, they are just common people like everyone else. I think all of this narcissism is off-putting. Even worse when a guy does it. Don’t promise to treat me like a queen and to behave like king. That is not who I am and it sounds delusional and immature. Promise to be fair and try to get to know me for me. Promise to be yourself and nothing else.

[ozzzzy]

Bad pics, get rid of filters and try to look more masculine, and not so feminine. Those filters are childish, and girls are attracted to men, not to kids. Weak pics, weak description. Sorry bro, just telling how it is... how do I know? I get at least 3 matches daily on Tinder.

[Levin]

My advice is as follows. Grow a thick manly beard. I've had to shave mine today and it feels like I've lost 30% testosterone with one fell swoop.

Outside that, bench press. Americans like to bench press.

[Vewrie]

Ew, NO! Only a few guys look good in a beard and it is those who lack a jaw and are bad looking without one. Also, long hair the same length as the beard is a must.

[Anonymous]

Um... Get rid of the filters, the cat picture, hand pose and put a shirt on ffs. You look incredibly immature, like a little boy, and it’s the filters and hand pose that does it (most women are looking for men not ”men” who act/come across as 14 year olds). Shirtless pics scream player/just looking for sex (= most women will swipe no). They’re also not trying to date your cat so swap it for a full body picture of yourself (preferably one not taken in the mirror... Get someone else to take a pic of you when out doing something).

[jessiejones3]

I thought u were gay too... there's a sissy look in ur eye like a woman does when she takes a selfie... no offense... ur not bad looking but u look like a wuss... I can't explain it. I look at pics and dont feel like I see a man that cld protect me from anything

[Jhab96]

Lmaoooo. I do have other photos on my page. Guess these ones don't portray strength or competence enough? Thanks for the input jessie

[NarutoUzumaki007]

hahaha. She got you virgin boy

[Ackpain]

you're pretty cute and your cat's great but really I'd be put off by somebody having one of those things you've got at the end on their profile, it belongs on an instagram story

[Jhab96]

And whats the problem with that? I standby what it says so.. ? Would it put you off maybe because it seems a bit too heavy n straightforward ?

[Ackpain]

yeah that and when people are showing off those beliefs like that some might think you're just saying it to try and get girls

[Jhab96]

Hmm. I see where you're coming from. But I've gotten good responses from it actually.. it seems to weed out some people. Thanks for your input tho !

[Anonymous]

You look absolutely hot in the first photo, but the facial hair looks awful. Pleeaase take my advice and NEVER EVER keep facial hair.

All that aside, you’re a really hot guy lol and I don’t know about other girls but your first photo definitely got my attention😜

[Opinion Owner]

I was expecting you'd follow me back😜

[MarkyMark77]

@slay_girl have u tried tinder? how was it? and like what did u do on there?

[Celtero]

Snapchat filters are for shallow stupid women, they make you look like a gayboi. Kitty cute, too bad they're not dating kitty. Quote is diarrhea, even if it wasn't diarrhea any retard can google a quote and post it.

[DanaeAdam5]

Remove the second photo, keep the other ones and try to include more pictures of your face :)

[Hunnybee1]

If you're gonna post cat pics, you gotta be in the pic!!

Also don't post quotes, people will think you're too deep

Also maybe a full body pic? Hope this helps

[Vewrie]

Haha, it is not deep to post quotes, like at all. And deep girls don’t think there is something as “too deep” but inspirational quotes are not in the risk zone for that.

[Hunnybee1]

@Vewrie you might be right~
But yeah i kind of looked at it from my perspective.
Well, tell me what should be changed from your perspective

[NYCQuestions1976]

Get rid of the ridiculous filters and the "peace" pose, and put on a shirt. You should probably also remove the picture of the cat.

[humanearth]

I thought you were a chick at first. Sorry dude but your photo make you look femine and stuck up

[Maspolomas]

Are you gay or straight can’t tell plus I didn’t read your profile

[Jhab96]

Haha I'm straight as a number 2 pencil my friend 🤣

[Maspolomas]

Ok maybe look more masculine. I’m not gay I’m married. To me you look gay sorry dude

[Jhab96]

🤣🤣🤣 Roger that cap

[_Just_A_girl_]

Just be very forward know what you want in a woman or don't be on there.

[Truthatanycost]

Is that a different person in the first picture?

[Jhab96]

Nah fam just a cleanly shaven face meets SC filter

[Anonymous]

No wonder you are a virgin

[Jhab96]

And you're a troll 👀 be gone wit yo crusty lip self 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

First you ask for opinions then you get triggered

What a soyboy. Cry more xD

[Jhab96]

I'm not triggered friend im amused at the fact that your meager existence gets off on trying to make other people feel bad 😪

[Jhab96]

And you didn't even give me an opinion you just insulted me by calling me out assuming I'm a Virgin lmao. Maybe you're projecting your own lifes struggles onto me man I don't know

[Jhab96]

🤣🤣🤣

[Opinion Owner]

haha. we both know you are a virgin who are you fooling

[Twalli]

Your eyes make you look almost demonic

[Jmmmfi4]

Looks like you should be on grinder

[Anonymous]

It's obvious why you're not getting matches😂

[Daniela1982]

Get a life!

[Anonymous]

God you look gay

[Anonymous]

It’s okay