Opinions on a 29 year old man dating a 21 year old girl?

[laura_meliaxx]

is she too young for him? Thanks

[PrinceNeo]

I would say it's subjective from person to person personally I don't see it as a big problem because it's just an eight-year difference between adults however if you were to dial the age back to someone who was 17 dating someone who's like 25 that's where I can see it being a weird scenario cuz the girl is barely even adults and is dating one that is an adult so it is kind of leaves a sour taste in your mouth to think about but in the scenario you described they're both adults so there's no harm and no foul.

[ShadezMcgee]

Nothing wrong with it. Both are consenting adults and if the attraction and chemistry is there, there is no issue.

[psychoticanimallover]

I don’t think 8 years is a very big age difference really, so long as she’s not a
feminist it should be fine.

[WesBrewer]

Nah that's fine, I personally would say people should only date within 10 years of their age, so I say it's fine.

[winterfox10]

Great way for a 21 year old girl to get used. Absolutely no man at that age is going to want to put up with a 21 year-old's drama for a long period of time.

[HikerDude]

Sounds pretty normal. I'm 28 and have gotten with girls in their teens. Attraction and compatibility trump age every time.

[Gafgorkion]

If you're 28 and "compatible" with teenagers, that's really probably not a good thing.

[HikerDude]

@Gafgorkion says who, you? If you're not attracted to 19 year-old girls, your cods haven't dropped yet, son.

[Gafgorkion]

I said nothing about attraction. Of course younger people are generally more attractive. I only mentioned the compatibility issue. If you are a nearly 30 year old adult who is "compatible" with a teenager, then that is not really a good thing at all. If you are truly "compatible" then it basically means you are an adult who still acts like a teenager, an adult who has never actually grown up in other words.

[Gafgorkion]

A 28 year old and a teenager should not be anywhere close to being in the same stage of life for true compatibility to be possible.

[HikerDude]

@Gafgorkion so you presume to know the intellectual and emotional development level of every 19 year-old girl in America. Right. This is why it's so hard to take people like you seriously.

[Gafgorkion]

Kids are still kids, even the so-called "mature" ones. There aren't any teenagers who are truly all that mature and act like actual adults. When an older adult man says he only gets along with teens and early 20s women, 99.99% of the time it is because the man himself isn't very mature and still acts like a kid. He can't get women his own age because they are vastly more mature than he is and won't put up with his crap.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No, I was age 28 and dated my girlfriend at the time she was age 21
nothing bad was seen between us two and our parents approved of it

[nodnol32]

If it works for them, thats all that matters. Its upto the two people dating each other to make it work regardless of the age difference...

[Wiredone]

There's nothing wrong with it. A lot of Young woman like older men. As long as both of you are compatible who cares about age

[KrakenAttackin]

10 years later no one will care. I will say at 21 she is just starting her cock carousel days so she probably isn't the best for a 29 year old man.

[laura_meliaxx]

What does that mean please haha

[KrakenAttackin]

At 31 and 39 no one will see a problem.

[007kingifrit]

no that's 100% normal, the woman is often that much younger

[KrakenAttackin]

4.5 years average.

[bamesjond0069]

No. Why would she be? It's only an 8 year difference. That's really normal.

[SavySav]

Nothing wrong with that!

[Avicenna]

It's perfectly fine. They're both adults.

[silvermoon84]

Nope. They’re both of legal age so who cares?

[Screenwriter]

Not if they get along well and enjoy themselves.

[TonyV]

I dont think so, seems to be how it works usually.

[pleasestopthis]

No, I don't think so.

[Anonymous]

Nope, nothing wrong here. Totally fine.

[Mijopapii215]

Of course she is not too young.

[Paulychicago10]

They're adults, they can do as they want

[Anonymous]

Sounds great for both of them

[Anonymous]

Sounds normal and sounds like he has money