Girls, what is your opinion on a 30 year old man dating a 40 year old woman?

[Anonymous]

Both graduated and have stable careers with no kids.

[4ngelic]

it's a big age gap but it's not creepy or anything. there's nothing wrong with it morally. though there's the whole question about kids. because at 40 she's almost done. women are infertile at 42-44. so time is really ticking. if you dont want a serious relationships, you for sure dont want any kids, it's totally fine. but else you might want to choose someone else. I don't know about this that much since i'm much younger than those ages, but i'm pretty sure you might have some age related problems. because i think 30yos are more young minded and have a bit different behaviors and interests than a 40yo? also the 40yo will probably be a lot more mature and at a different life stage maybe too. so maybe there could be some problems with that

[4ngelic]

also you could get some judgement from people too

[jennifer_bloom]

Most 40 year old women prefer 40 year old men cause 40 year old men are more stable in their lifestyle and living situation. People age match in dating because priorities change with age. At 20 people date for passion. At 30 they date for intelligence. At 40 they date for security and rest.

[Little_Bumblebee]

That's a bit too much of an age gap to my taste, so I'll say it's in the grey area for me.
But other than that, it's up to them, they're fully grown ups.

[TeraGER]

It's normal