Guys, how many partners is too many for a woman?

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abc3643 · Accepted Answer

Anything over 10.

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This is my slut/manwhore equation regarding "body count" - a very obnoxious and revolting phrase but, considering that the people who use it are typically manwhores and sluts anyway, what should I expect?

I use a formula for both males and females:
Let Y = cumulative number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
(that is, the "body count")
Let X = age-appropriate maximum number of distinct sexual intercourse partners

X = ROUND_UP [ 1.5 * (AGE - 15) ]
So:
Age = 15, X = 0.
Age = 16, X = 2.
Age = 17, X = 3.
Age = 18, X = 5.
Age = 19, X = 6.
Age = 20, X = 8.
Age = 21, X = 9.
Age = 22, X = 11.

If Y > MINIMUM (X, 10), then "Slut/Manwhore" else "Age appropriate".

Basically, what this is saying is:
1. "Don't fuck until you are at least 16."
2. "Only fuck in committed relationships; up to 3 committed relationships per every 2 years."
3. "If you need more than 10 committed relationships by the time you are 22, then something is wrong with you or you're a slut/manwhore who is fucking too often just for fun."

More than 10 guys is really too much.

Most guys would be rather uncomfortable competing against such a lengthy history because the probability of his being the best you ever had (or having the biggest dick you've ever had) seriously goes down. He wants to be memorable and important to you and "not just another lay".

Nor does he want a pussy with "a lot of miles on it" because, frankly, they are considerably looser so the experience isn't as good for him (although it is still mighty fine!).

So, bottom line; more than 10 guys is too much for the majority of men.

For the record, my Y ("body count") is 5 and it wasn't 2 until I was almost 26!

Body 1: 21 y 09 m
Body 2: 25 y 11 m
Body 3: 26 y 02 m
Body 4: 32 y 10 m
Body 5: 36 y 10 m

loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

That would depend on how old you are and when you started having sex. Let's see. You're 24. If you started having sex when you were 16, and had a new partner every 4 months, that would be, that would 24 guys. Hmm... that would be too many! LOL

What do YOU think is too many? How many have you had if you're willing to say?

Orangesareyummy · Accepted Answer

I think that’s her choice and none of your business. I personally have only had 2. Men tend to ridicule women and praise men.

heatherlou · Accepted Answer

It doesn't matter to me. Some guys will think it does - but I'm not interested in those guys.

Miristheiss · Answer

Depending on her age... a virgin to about 5 seems about right.
Keep in mind the specifics matter.
Being in relationships, being with her regular boyfriend vs. having a one night stand or a hookup.
Girls that had hook ups and casual sex were gross to me. Her even being willing and on board with that just grosses me out so even if she says... I didn't like it, I wouldn't do it again... it doesn't matter. She was willing to do that.
We just wouldn't have been compatible.
I was only interested in those who had committed relationship sex and if she were 21 and had already been with 10 guys... first... yuck! Second the math doesn't add up to having 10 long term boyfriends which means she's just having casual intimacies with relative strangers.

If she is 40 on the other hand, well the numbers would go up most likely.

Anyone whose had 15, 20 and higher. It really doesn't matter what the scenarios or situations are... that is just gross to me and we are getting into prostitute category, I would have had no interest.

Skankhunt · Answer

It's not about what your body count is what really matter, but the cause of it. Girls/women who have a high body count do have or had problems. Problems these girls have could be because they:
They have/had a bad childhood
Poor upbringing
Dad is absent (passed away, divorce, bad contact, not contact at with her father)
Don't get along with her mother and father (rebellious behavior)
Bad experience/trauma (rape, physical abuse etc), this can lead to promiscuous behavior

Yes, a lot of men don't like it if a girl has a high body count, but it's not necessarily her fault and it doesn't mean she is less worthy of being loved and desired.

I want to say that it's not always her fault, however, if she is promiscuous just to have fun, then it's a trun off. You can't tell for 100% why a girl has a high body count, don't assume she is a slut, there can be a deeper issue causing her to behave promiscuous.

MCheetah · Answer

The unofficial rule is "no more than half your age." So if you're twenty, having more than ten partners lifetime is way too many. (According to other people; I kinda don't care.)

summiter · Answer

There is no number that makes it too much. Our pasts are our pasts. I have had sex with dozens of wonderful girls (yes I always used a condom) but I am not ashamed of it and do not consider myself a player. Your thoughts?

WesBrewer · Answer

2 partners is too many, they should only have one at a time, if you are talking about total in the past, then I don't really care how many she had.

Dog87 · Answer

There really isn't a number. That shouldn't matter. As long as your loyal and honest now the past means nothing. Not to mention guys don't even count and the higher the number the better they feel. Lame. Dont even think about the number of anyone treats you some type of way because of it they're not worth the time or effort anyways

CaptainOverthink · Answer

Depends on the woman and her mindset.
Depends on how she treats her partners.
But really, there are no limits. Same for guys, do what you do. Just do it with respect. Live your lives while you're young.

Anonymous · Answer

I genuinely don't give a shit, so I never ask.

I guess I might be disturbed if she has a notch count of like 300 at the age of 20.

But as a general rule, I guess, as long as she doesn't have significantly more experience than I do. Which atm is in the 70s.

Rexos · Answer

A women can have as many partners as she wants. If she wants one, hopefully she finds her one, if she wants a thousand, let her have fun.

HeyMikeyLikesIt · Answer

It depends, 35 partners at 16 years old is way too many, but 35 partners at 30 isn’t a big deal.

AmeerX · Answer

Depends on the women. If she is a pornstar. She needs like 50+ partners. If she is a family girl she is good with just one. It all really depends

RHK36 · Answer

I don't think it's an issue unless it's a ridiculously high number.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

After 2 different cocks have been inside her, the female loses her ability to pair bond with any man.

clampfan101 · Answer

In total? No limit regarding attempts at a LTR. At once? No more or less than 1.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

I'm probably going to estimate about a quarter of their age.

Ilikegirls2-2 · Answer

That’s a thought one. Depends on age. Do you have a high number and are worried?

andy530 · Answer

There is really no such thing that’s is up to her not me

pokenstroke · Answer

Since it really is no ones business but yours, why should it matter. Tell no one, and no one will know

Whatever919 · Answer

Depends on the age, i see your profile says 24 so 1-2 is ok.

Anonymous · Answer

Four. That leaves one guy without a hole of his own.

MrCreep · Answer

It's more why and who than the number. 1 is too many I find men discussting really.

ohshee · Answer

I think that's more up to her not the guy

jspl90 · Answer

well lets go with thousands

HikerDude · Answer

I won't ask your number if you won't ask mine.

WAPdestroyer · Answer

I don't care as long as I get my turn 😂

Iron_Man · Answer

At your age more then 1

Anonymous · Answer

That's up to you, not anyone else.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

3 max. Like come on who going to marry that? Smh.

TheFlak38 · Answer

After her first she's already a slut.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

2 total (including myself.)

DavidFox · Answer

500+

EaterPeter · Answer

When you start picking STIs left right and center.

Waldoe · Answer

more than 1 at a time

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think it matters too much to me

Massageman · Answer

2 is 1 too many.

jahaims · Answer

Virgins only

Anonymous · Answer

More than one

COMMODOREII · Answer

400 😎

Anonymous · Answer

Any more than me.

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely 4.

ayomanwya · Answer

More than one

bend-u-ovr · Answer

No such thing

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