Could you date a goth?

[Anonymous]

[eileen_ruth]

Haha lol yes. My obsession with Patricia Morrison and Peter Steele and Peter Murphy is telling isn't it?

I know rozz was gay but if he needs me to be his beard I will

So sexy

Girls are sexy

[Vetis]

Not to you, watch me make you think like me

[eileen_ruth]

@Vetis wdym?

[Vetis]

Girls are not sexy to you, anymore

[eileen_ruth]

@Vetis um okay then

[Vetis]

Oh man. You're sick and dont know it

[eileen_ruth]

@Vetis better than being homophobic

[Vetis]

Better is subjective, and i will define it for you

[eileen_ruth]

@Vetis ight I'm kinda interested

[Vetis]

Be patient for ten years, i will tell you

[eileen_ruth]

@Vetis sure

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

No, I couldn't date a goth. Guys that are dark, moody, and draw unnecessary attention to themselves with their all black outfits and black makeup were never my type. Also, goths were more of a thing when I was a teenager in high school and I wasn't interested in them then. I'm almost 30 now and I would be even more turned off by a goth around my own age because it shows he had yet to grow out of a childish phase.

[WindAtMyBack]

Yea if they are not totally over the top. I like alt. However they likely have very different politics than I do, so that could be a problem. And well, anyone near my age still doing goth would seem weird. I was never into it myself, but I hung around a lot of goths in the early days of goth. That crowd was a mix of goth, early punk, glam and second wave hippie. It would just seem strange if they still did it.

[Miristheiss]

Yes and no.

In some ways I always found them gorgeous because I like pale skin and most goths have really pale skin and dark hair... etc.

I hate piercings and tattoos, those are deal breakers. So I would have dated one that didn't have tats and stuff.

[AmandaYVR]

Yep probably. They would think we have nothing in common. They'd be wrong.

[ShortCircuit]

I guess it depends on *how* goth...

Shops at Hot Topic and likes wearing black, with the occasional fishnets, chokers, or black lipstick? Maybe listens to punk rock and likes edgy humor?
- Sure.

Weird hairstyle/color, tats and piercings, and skulls on everything she wears? Genuinely depressed, angry, and nihilistic? Actual Satan-worshipper who sacrifices animals in her parents' garage?
- Hard pass.

[Asker]

The in-depth description had me dying😂
thank you for sharing

[ShortCircuit]

Haha no problem

[strawberrylipstick]

dude... the goth you described that you would date is the posers lmao. that's not real goth. the alternative subcultures are based off of 2 things, music, and belief. if you don't agree with the points of view of the goth/punk/emo community, then you aren't part of it, you're just a poser who wants to use it for the "look"

[ShortCircuit]

@strawberrylipstick Well I can't be a "poser" because I'm not goth and never claimed to be. And ok, if what I described are the "posers", then I like the posers. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Iknowbestgirls]

The first part is what we call a loser it a fake goth. So that's not a real goth girl.

The second part is everything that is awesome and hot about a goth chick and if you can't handle that then they would probably sacrifice you hahaha besides most goth chicks don't practice satanism it's more along the lines of witchcraft and yes there is a huge difference!

[Iknowbestgirls]

Not a loser I meant "poser"

[strawberrylipstick]

^^ this guy has actual brains , listen to em

[ShortCircuit]

@Iknowbestgirls @strawberrylipstick I don't really want to get in an argument over a topic that I care nothing about. But who made you guys the arbiters of who is and isn't "goth"? Gatekeeping is cringe. And regardless, I have a right to my preferences.

[strawberrylipstick]

dude. gatekeeping is saying "if you dont like The Cure then you aren't goth". being goth is ENTIRELY BASED around beliefs. saying that if you dont hold the beliefs isn't Gatekeeping, its literally just the facts lmao

[Iknowbestgirls]

@ShortCircuit well maybe we do care about this topic. So maybe you should respect what we have to say because we actually live that life style and hold those beliefs. We don't just dress that part. It is truly a lifestyle.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Probably. Though all the constant dark imagery might get to me after a while. I was never goth but I went through that whole only wearing black, listening to sad or heavy metal music, etc. It just made my depression worse. I took me a long time climb out of that and surround myself with colour and variety. I wouldn't wanna fall back into that again

[AmtgardJean]

Yes, please. Lol. Actually have. It was great. I love the goth look on girls. I can't pull it off though. Had my girlfriend buy me some clothes and had me try them on and put some goth makeup on me.
She immediately said. "Yea, no. That does not work at all."

[RawIronhide]

I've been trying to, I don't look goth at all. I don't think she thinks I look like her type. I wish people weren't so quick to judge. I've had a few emo streaks before, we're actually a good match.

[genericname85]

could yeah. "would" probably not. i mean i met a few goths and they genuinely seem nice people but the majority of them had deep set psychological problems. i don't mean that in a "looking down" sort of way at all.

[SystemOfTheMachine]

I love the goth style. I would date a goth, but as others have said, I'll draw the line on satanism. I'm an atheist, so satanism seems extra ridiculous to me.

[Iknowbestgirls]

Honestly it's just an aesthetic look. I doubt they truly worship satan haha

[Gosceewual]

I could, but I wouldn’t

They all seem like violence loving seriel killers or self harmers

I don’t wanna wake up in the middle of the night to find my dick cut off... much safer to date a non goff normal girl

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Yes. Goths are some of the nicest people I've ever met.

[jshm2]

Nah, they'll commit suicide in a few years, or grow up and become a dull accountant or housewife.

Not many are into that.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@jshm2
I know many people that are inyobthe gothic lifestyle that have never commited or attempted to commit suicide. I know some that are cosmologists, scientists, in the radio business etc. Some even own their own business.

[Mr_longLegz]

Yes as long as their not one if those people with the "if I'm miserable, everyone has to be miserable with me, woah is me" mentality. At least not daily anyway.

[Lion91]

They're Interesting ☺

Daring & Adventures 😊

[Hermes-Paris]

Helllllll no! Step aside and let me pass over to that Latin beauty with a big smile!

[SjE78]

if we clicked and we got on and liked each other then yeah i would happily date a goth

[Bee-Hatch]

Anyone "could" date a goth. As to weather you'd want to, well that's a personal choice.

[stargazeraug1989]

Can, have, and definitely would again. There is a female user here who I won't dare call by name who is has a bit of a goth vibe going on and is breahtakingly gorgeous. ♡

[Wewladdy]

Most are edgy drug addicts. And much like their drugs are tossed around by countless men. No, I wouldn't.

[MysteriousDarkness]

@wewladdy
A lot of people into the gotic lifestyle are not as you described.

[Nick568]

Nah that's not my style personally. No disrespect to Goths but it's just not my thing.

[Anonymous]

I will never date a man who wears more makeup then I do... and I don’t wear any makeup at all

[JoyGirl]

🤣🤣🤣

[winterfox10]

Hell yeah. I'm a Punk. Goth is just a little bit more black

[strawberrylipstick]

well- goth is very different in the beliefs lol. Punk is mostly "kill the government" while goth is really "kill the ignorance"

[winterfox10]

@strawberrylipstick The government is ignorance man 😂

[strawberrylipstick]

goth is against ignorance in people in general mate , not ignorance in the system lmao. i thought the subcultures were p r e t t y c l e a r lol.

[winterfox10]

@strawberrylipstick I mean... you realize that ignorance in the system comes from ignorance in people, right? I've never met a single goth who didn't hate the system. My age group was also just coming off the 80s Grunge though, so that might be a part of it. The goths and punks in my age group were doing our bullshit in the US, right after Columbine.

[strawberrylipstick]

you didn't hear me , im not saying they can't think the same things. im saying there's a difference in the reason they were formed and the main message they represent. lmao.

[winterfox10]

I heard you, I just don’t understand why it matters. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[strawberrylipstick]

cause its literally the difference between night and day between subcultures... are you even punk if ya dont get that XD

[winterfox10]

Yeah, but I didn’t say that they were the same, just similar. Goths say people are stupid, punks say people do stupid shit and I don’t want to be told to do stupid shit.

[strawberrylipstick]

that's what i said...

[winterfox10]

Then we’re both saying the same things 😂😂

[strawberrylipstick]

iM cOnfuSioN

[Chris_u006]

Hell yeah!! I am a metalhead myself! Even though i don't look like one at all.

[Iknowbestgirls]

Hell yea! Goth babes are hot AF really kinky and have an awesome taste in style and music (usually).

[Knightoffire]

I preffer people inclined to goth culture more then others

[DizzyDesii]

Nah some creep me out with the style

[Chris_u006]

Why do you get creeped out by that style? It's only a visual experience

[Iknowbestgirls]

Better style than most tbh... 🙄

[DizzyDesii]

He asked. I told. Its no different from me saying women who dress in those little baby doll outfits creep me out

[Iknowbestgirls]

Fair enough I on the other hand like those outfits aha

[strawberrylipstick]

that guy on the cover's kinda fit... 👀🖤

[HungLikeAHorsefly]

I pretty much only date goths. So, yeah.

[Naxwi]

I don't know, what's she like?

[sheikalana]

I want to! But I never met a goth guy.

[Iknowbestgirls]

It's easy just go to a metal bar or a metal concert, we are all over the place. Though I don't consider myself goth I am a metal head but goth has similar tastes in style and music and beliefs

[sheikalana]

@Iknowbestgirls not very convenient to go to a bar or concert during a pandemic.

[Iknowbestgirls]

Well now days yea.. but I hope you keep that in mind for future reference.

[EssenceOfLight]

Goth girls are good in bed.

[ultimega]

Of course. As I'm one myself

[Browneye57]

Fuck no. Weirdos need not apply.

[Orangesareyummy]

Not one that looked like that guy.

[Waldoe]

not if she had a beard

[AmeerX]

Goth girls look so hot 😅

[YHL6965]

Yes, I don't see the problem about it.

[msc545]

female goth - probably.

[Nigjt]

Oh hell Yesssssss I like them a lot.
God Bless

[Anonymous]

As long as they aren't creepy

[uknown789]

yes but i don't about her if she would date me

[CheeseBurgah]

Nah those days are over

[Anonymous]

Yes I like the Goth girl look.

[slatyb]

Is she kinky too?

[pigoat]

Oh my yes

[UnknownGagsUser]

Yeah why not

[r0ddy]

Goth girls are fire

[hi_it_is_me123]

No. NO.

[xxAlanaxx]

Yepp

[jahaims]

Nope

[KGDavies18]

Yeah definitely

[Diversity_Hire]

Fuck yeah.

[Joker_]

I could

[Lunatic1]

I'd be open to it.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Not at all..

[Luckycharms12]

Sure why not

[InsidiousCookie]

Yes I could