Are all men superficial or is it just NYC?

[Rebeccalions]

The experience I have had here is that guys are really into looks

[cth96190]

Men are hard wired to be attracted to female beauty.
What we classify as beauty displays good genetics, good health and that the female is of our own kind.
That is why millions of years of natural selection has hard wired the male brain to be attracted by what it sees.
What you described as 'shallow' is the male equivalent of a female being hypergamous.
It is all about natural selection, which means that it is natural and therefore objectively 'good' because it creates offspring who are more likely to survive and be successful.

[Rebeccalions]

Thanks, I'm gonna take a bath with razor blades now

[cth96190]

@Rebeccalions
Why does the reality of human mating behaviour displease you?
Do you not rate well on the 0 to 10 scale of female beauty?
There are always ways to maximise what you have and to fish in the ponds that will be the most productive for what you have to offer.

[Rebeccalions]

Hitler felt the same way as you. That's why he killed off the weak and what he considered the unwanted. Seig heil to you!

[cth96190]

@Rebeccalions
Who hurt you?

[Rebeccalions]

No one, but you are saying the same thing a Nazi would, so at least I know where you stand

[cth96190]

@Rebeccalions
Perhaps without realising it, you have acknowledged that National Socialists base their ideology on science and the order of nature.
That would make them correct and others... not.
Why do you think that there is something wrong with truth?

[Rebeccalions]

So what if something were wrong with you? If you were hideus looking then, would you want to be killed like they did to people?

[cth96190]

@Rebeccalions
What you think that you know about the Third Reich is mainly lies published by the Jewish-owned news and entertainment media and taught as fact by Jewish-controlled education systems.
I had friends and relatives who lived it. What they described was very different.
Look up Kraft durch Freude, for example.
Did you know that the Third Reich was the first to pass modern environmental and animal protection legislation?
Did you know that the Third Reich was the first to build a modern highway system? Eisenhower was so impressed by what he saw when he entered Germany that when he was president of the USA he built the US highway system, which did not exist before his presidency.
If I looked hideous I would probably have put a bullet through my head a long time ago.
As it happens, I have always been described as a good-looking man, although that did not do me any good with females until they and I were on the wrong side of 30.
When I was young, more than once, I heard one of my mother's friends say something like: "Karl is so good looking. Why doesn't he have a girlfriend."
Then and now, young females wanted POS bad boys who looked as though they just stepped out of a wanted poster.

[abc3643]

Guys are really into looks if:
1) They themselves are good-looking guys and
2) Are undead and under 45.

[Anonymous]

40% of men are true bad boys (treat women badly)
59% of men are fake nice guys (nice to women for sexual purposes)
1% of men are nice guys (respect women's minds and emotions)

[dragoblack]

The 1% also get called boring and uninteresting because they don't cause drama like the women are used to from the 40%

[Anonymous]

Probably just the city.; and not just the one in New York.

[HikerDude]

People in hipster cities like New York and LA are going to be superficial overall.

[Rebeccalions]

What cities aren't superficial?

[HikerDude]

You know, that's a great question. I think heartland cities tend to be less superficial overall. Mid-sized cities that aren't among the biggest metro areas have more real people. Any place that's on the top places to live lists tend to attract those type of people.

[Rebeccalions]

Thanks, sounds like what I'm looking for

[Jamie05rhs]

L. A. is not a hipster city. Portland and Austin and Denver are hipster cities.

[HikerDude]

@Jamie05rhs LA is at least as hipster as those places. Maybe not all of it, but not all of Austin is hipster, either.

[Rebeccalions]

@Jamie05rhs silver lake and los feliz are very hipster

[Jamie05rhs]

@Rebeccalions Pretty much every city has a hipster neighborhood these days.

[Juxtapose]

You say that while women do the exact same thing!

I'm usually rated a 7/10, but if I was a 3/10 would most women give me the same chance? Fuck no!

And on top of that you women judge men by our wealth and social status while we don't judge you by the same.

[Avicenna]

Places like NYC (my hometown, incidentally) are like that.

[MCheetah]

I could ask the same thing about women.

It's likely just New York City, though.

[0112358]

I don’t think so, however you will run into people with higher standards on the superficial stuff.

[winterfox10]

No, not all men are superficial. NYC just became a garbage city with garbage culture in the last 10 years.

[okeydoke]

I think all people are into looks.
I’m in NYC too, but I don’t really mind. People like what they like.

[Shihab-91]

you know the answer but as you said you had a bad experience.

[Rebeccalions]

If I knew the answer I wouldn't ask

[Shihab-91]

really? here is the classic answer no not all men like that. generalization always wrong

[Rebeccalions]

Ok thanks

[Shihab-91]

you welcome

[GAGSucksBalls1]

About as superficial as women

So, yes, they're ALL superficial

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. At least it's not L. A.

[Rebeccalions]

What difference does it make

[Jamie05rhs]

Go to L. A. and you will see.

[Rebeccalions]

I've lived in LA. It's the same shit

[genericname85]

everyone is a little superficial. men and women.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yes 🙂