Girls, Why did she say she’s nervous and is a lucky girl?

[Anonymous]

a girl who study’s in my city at the same university. During conversation I started to flirt by calling her beautiful and sending  emojis.

within her resonates she always put “ahaha”. For example , she would say “thank you, what are you up to ahaha Etc etc”

I asked why she laughed , but only joking with her and she started worrying thinking I thought she was laughing at me. She said she was not laughing at me and that’s it’s a awkward giggle , she said she does it when she nervous.

And during conversation I we was talking about how nightclubs may re open. And I said “maybe I might take her ” then she said she “I’m a lucky girl hehe ”

why does she awkward giggle and get nervous when I flirt and say “Shes a lucky girl when I say I might take her out”

also when she was working she got really nervous when she said she was busy. Worrying that I thought she was brushing me off. And she said she likes to put 100% into our conversation and not make them dead

[btbc92]

Simple:

1. You're making her UNCOMFORTABLE.
2. She is not used to your flirting which is manipulative. She never got male attention before. And sadly doesn't know any better.
3. She doesn't know to be a friend or be scared of losing her male interest because again, you are the ONLY ONE who paid attention to her.

Simply STOP. If you are not going to befriend her and be serious, she is going to get heartbroken. There are a reason why you flirty men are not compatible with us "shy" women at all. You cannot provide her what she needs and wants. I get that way, or should say, used to because I didn't know how to respond. I was young. Now that I know better, please stop. Never treat women like that. Especially gentle shy ones. She clearly told you she never had a guy take an interest. You are not just moving too fast, you're freaking her out. Not sacring her off. But if you keep that up she is going to get hurt because she wants to impress and people please. No self-esteem.

If you like that stuff, you need to find a different girl who likes that attention. Otherwise, you're preying on an innocent girl who didn't ask for that. Again, if you are not going to befriend her and be a friend, don't lead this girl on just because you interested in her in that way. You barely know her. Don't. She doesn't know what you want. Don't play that "maybe you might take her out" I mean really. You are playing with her emotions. Tell her what you want before you scar that girl and not trust men. That is my warning to you. Change the behavior and treat her right.

[Asker]

Yeah I think she is shy , I like her. And I like shy girls. I don’t think it’s as deep as that. I haven’t done anything bad to her. I complimented her calling her beautiful. And I jokingly asked why she often put haha or ahaha in messages. She said she wasn’t laughing at me but that she does it when she’s nervous like awkaward giggling.

Then we spoke about University. And I also say maybe I might take her out. Then she said “ im a lucky girl 😉 hehe and we continued to talk for a while.

Then I think she is nervous and likes me, because we stopped talking she was rushing with her studying last minute. I jokingly asked if she was brushing me off (which was joking) then she got nervous and worried and said “noo of course not!!” With exclamation marks.

But then she said “ she left studying for lectures to the last minute, and that she wants to put 100% into our conversation so it’s not dead 🥺 x”

Why did she say that and why would she use that emoji , the 🥺 emoji?

[btbc92]

You haven't done anything bad? Do you not see yourself? That's exactly what your doing because you refuse to see that. You do not call a girl beautiful when you barely even know her. She will attach to you because of not loving herself. Which is unhealthy. You cannot JOKE with shy people, they are extremely SENSITIVE. And anything that can affect them will hurt them. I know what she is saying, I made it clear I used to do that. I know her behaviors. Every shy person is like that and she is highly sensitive. She is unaware of what she is doing because of the effect you have on her. Again, I told you. She never had those experiences, and they are new to her. She cares about the experiences. That doesn't always mean she likes you. She doesn't know you enough to make that decision. She is interested in the experiences. Not you as a person until you show that. Since you, again is the only guy in her life that showed such interest, she thinks you want to date her. And wants to please you. Again, because she lacks self. Not good. And stop doing that. Either you take her out or she will be disappointed.

[btbc92]

This is why I don't agree with it. Not by my own personal and intrapersonal experiences. I have friends like her. She is not thinking. She is naive, or God forbid a good player ready to use you makes you think she's shy but has a hidden side to her you may not like. Be careful what MESSAGE your sending, and watch her behavior. Many will pretend to be shy to attract a guy. And they're not really shy women.

[btbc92]

She will believe EVERYTHING you say as if it is truth and law. Think of it as a religion. That is how caught up she is with you. STOP. Because when you don't like it anymore, she will get clingy and feel she did something wrong to displease you and will try to do everything in her power to get you to desire her again. I'm warning you. When their very young, they don't know better. They idolize these things. That's why she said that.

[Asker]

Yeah , I think she become that way because I am have luxury Mercedes brand new. I am still at university and it is unheard of for someone this young and at uni to own a Mercedes. Also I wear a lot of designer clothes and work out a lot.

I do like her , and I think she’s beautiful too. That’s why I said it. But i think you are right what your saying. There are a few signs she’s like that way. For example , when I said “I might take you out 😉” she said “I’m a lucky girl 😉 hehe x”

She kept writing with exclamation marks and seemed really excited to talk. Then after talking for a bit. She liked My message, I jokingly asked if she was brushing me off. She said “no of course not !! x”

Then she said “ she wants to put 100% into the conversation otherwise it would be dead conversation 🥺 and that she left her studying too late.”

Why did she put that face and say that?

Also I responded and said “ I said not to worry , she should focus on her work and that we can talk the day after x ”

then I forgot to message her , and she keeps looking at my posts. I feel bad I forgot to message her.

[btbc92]

Sounds like she is using this chance to get a rich man in her life. Highly suggest you pull back. She'll play it up if it pleases you. She gains status and power in the end.

[Asker]

Why was she so nervous when I jokingly said she trying to brush me off. Because she was like noo corse not!!” And why did she say she want to put 100% into conversation and not make it dead 🥺 using that emoji. She seems to worry a lot. And I said I’d message her the day after but I haven’t messaged her in two days

[btbc92]

I told you. That is just how we are. By you being rich, she is seen as below you.