Do girls have an actual desire to have sex with guys?

[Anonymous]

As a teen I had little to no interaction with girls so I’m kind of not sure if girls find guys attractive at all or even care about guys’ looks or having sex with them. It doesn’t help that girls almost always seem uninterested in romantic relationships and/or sex (at least where I live). So somebody please elaborate on this stuff.

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+1 y

I mean “is it the norm for girls to WANT to have sex with guys?”

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+1 y

Guys desire sex pretty much all throughout puberty and in adulthood. Is that case with girls as well?

[SueShe]

I would say that a percentage of those girls in the age group 18-22 are willing to sacrifice their health in order to try sex until they realize it is overrated and that it did not bring them what they had expected.

It is more of a disappointment and number of those girls have bitterly regretted having had sex because they did not enjoy the pains and bad experience associated with it.

A large number of those girls are now also carrier of STD/STI and, besides having been objectified and coerced or manipulated/motivated to be intimate, they realize they made a big mistake. They fell victim of the porn industry and their subtle brainwashing.

[Asker]

Are they willing to try it because they have an innate desire for it? Also, do most girls desire (not necessarily try it at that age) sex?

[SueShe]

Of course, a few do have desires for it but a great number are also pressed into doing it, be it because of group/peer pressure to be like the others and not to look like a fool.

It is the problem of youth nowadays. They believe that they have to fit in a given frame in order to be accepted in society and they do not realize they are being abused.

[Asker]

Does that imply that most girl DON’T have an innate desire for sex?

[SueShe]

I cannot speak for women in general. When you say "most women", that would mean at least 50.1% and that would represent something like 2+ billion adult women.

[Asker]

Of course. Have you observed that to be the case in most girls/women you have known?

[SueShe]

Yes, a great number of those girls that I know don't because they are intelligent enough to realize that being ruled by libido leads to nothing constructive.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yes women do want sex. Sexual desires aren't just a man thing, they're a human nature thing. If you take care to make sure a woman gets pleasure, enjoyment from sex, she'll want sex with you as much as you want it with her. It's when people are selfish lovers, only think of their own desires and needs and not their partners as well that can turn people off from sex.

[Asker]

Thank you for the answer. But my question (s) pertained to an innate desire to have sex prior to having actually had sex. Most men develop sexual desire during puberty and retain it in adulthood. I wanted to know if that was the case for most women as well

[Asker]

If I may ask, is it?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

How isn't it? Not ALL divorce is instigated by women... And even the ones that are, how many are because of infidelity or abuse... I left my first husband because if physical abuse. And I walked away with nothing!! Not even possessions that I PAID FOR! I left it all because my safety and life meant more than any dang material things. Don't mean I enjoyed having to start all over again. You men that think only men get screwed over, or get hurt by divorce are only seeing how men can get screwed, can't admit anyone can!! But you damn right had we had kids, it would of been different! Why should those kids lose their place to live and all their possessions because he was an abusive man?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

So to answer with the right reply 🤦🏼‍♀️ lol
Yes girls can want sex before actually having it.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, there are women who WANT to have sex.

[Anonymous]

Yes most girls want sex just not with the average guy

[derdepedie301]

Yes lol are you naive?>

[Asker]

When it comes to women, yup

[derdepedie301]

Ofcourse the y like sex and orgasm and cum from it women feel pleasure too when having sex how old are you?

[Asker]

Pretty much your age

[derdepedie301]

oh ok i thought u were younger.