Have you ever decided not to date someone because of their body size?

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OK OK I’m a be honest, I would like a bigger guy than me. I’m not really into too skinny. Because I’m not skinny.  No I don’t me six ft Or whatever misinterpreted stereotype you have.

Caliguy88 · Accepted Answer

It’s just attraction... I’m a guy that has been a 10 on the fitness scale and currently I’m over weight... I’ve been up and down a little... it’s night and day being a little over weight. I know I need to lose my belly... and don’t get me wrong. Some girls don’t care... but I used to pull in 8s and 9s... a few random 10s... not joking... now I get rejected by like 5s sometimes. I think girls are worse than guys. Some junk in the truck is popular right now... little curvy... I feel if I was a girl I’d be in that sweet spot... gain a few pounds as a guy and you’re sol.

TheUniqueOne96 · Accepted Answer

I've never really had the chance to date, but honestly, in terms of body size, the only things I'm not attracted to, is someone who's OVERLY fat for their height or overly muscular/shredded, so unless one falls under either of those categories, then I'd probably be fine with other body types, even if none are my ideal preferences.

I try to distinguish standards from preferences and not be stupidly picky, acting as if a preference is mandatory, it's not, otherwise it'd be a standard.

clalinesuu · Accepted Answer

I prefer guys generally bigger than me because i feel safe and protected. Taller and not thinner than me.

I dont have eating disorders but i feel very insecure if im fatter than my boyfriend because it’s really hard for me to diet and all🥺 i love foods heheh

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

No can't say as I have, but I'm not into super skinny either, I like some muscle, some meat lol as I'm not skinny myself either... And I'm not obsessed with height either lol

daisySykoSykes · Answer

I met this guy 4 years ago and when we met he was very muscular. We recently got in touch again and he is bigger which i don't mind because I'm also bigger than i was when we met so i don't mind at all. Plus id rather he be bigger because I've never been super skinny myself. Recently he has been going to the gym and losing weight and i said id lose weight too but haven't. So in a way i feel like i would much rather have him bigger but nonetheless i like him either way and i need to lose weight!

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah, a Norwegian girl, she was about 6’2 stunning but scared the shit out of me.  If you think Brigitte Nielsen when she was Red Sonja era or even exactly her lol.

DamnSam · Answer

Ues, turned down a lot of skinny girls...

Not direct because they are skinny but the believed that every guy on the planet sees petite/skinny girls as the top of the line...

They look pretty frustrated if you take her fat friend home instead of her...

But im just into big girls, no one to blame on... just nature

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I have a couple of guys actually. There was this one obese guy who was really really nice and we liked some of the same things. But I wasn't physically attracted to him, so I ended up rejecting him in a nice way of course, because I didn't want to make him feel too bad. I'm attracted to guys who have more of a slim or athletic build, and I have one myself too.

Finchie40 · Answer

Not typically their body size just not attracted to them , a girl that is too skinny or too fat is a turn off to me , I prefer a girl to be average or a little bit of cushion on her and nice size tits and ass and have a beautiful face and eyes and personality is what attracts me to a girl , No body is perfect but if they have more positives then negatives then it’s easier to overlook their flaws and love them for who they are

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I only like the hourglass shape, preferably very top heavy boobs and medium small butt, no sagging skin or fat rolls, but with enough fat to not see ribs or hip bones, some belly fat (1-3 inches) isn't a turn off and can look attractive, I don't care about seeing abs.

BlueEyedBirdWatcher · Answer

I was told not to be shallow and be open to dating people who didn't have a good body. But I think that was bad advice. Appearance is important for a relationship. I would decide not to now.

Hannajenky · Answer

I date people who live a active lifestyle so I don’t think I could date a guy who was too overweight I don't know but I think there is someone for everyone no matter what type of body you have you are a human being worthy of love and respect

Anonymous · Answer

It’s been a factor, but not the top one.

I dated a heavy woman once - weight wasn’t why we stopped dating, but I could see it could have been part of some reasons we might have broken up fairly early on. More that it was a sign of some issues in her life (And her behavior with those issues) that were too much for me to put up with.

Kas19 · Answer

I don't date skinny guys. But I won't date someone who was morbidly obese. I prefer bigger guys in general though.

Savage_Wisdom · Answer

No. It's not that importiant an issue to me, unless she's anorexia/bulimia leval skinny.

Tedyruckspin · Answer

No I value how a person treats other people and animals over appearance. Because as soon as I find out the person is a horrible human being it doesn't matter how hot or sexy they are I am repulsed by them

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yes. I can't date a girl unless she's little. I like thin and short. If she's very short she can be a little less thin, if she's very thin she can be a little taller. But thats it. Like 125lbs max at any height. Usually date girls more like 95lbs.

Hannah_le · Answer

To be fair I never cared never been a issue for me lol.

somebodyelse101 · Answer

I haven't myself, and I feel like most people would get over it after initially speaking and seeing if there's a spark between the two of you. Obviously everyone is different and has their own opinions but it never puts me off

slatyb · Answer

Yes, I have. I have been attracted to overweight women but at some point it's just too much.

ILikePlants · Answer

Both guys I've dated have sorta been fluffy tall guys

SirJohn42 · Answer

well im not into unhealthy wonen anorexic or overly obese. Im really not to picky I like most sizes and heights.

shanshu · Answer

I'd date a girls who are a bigger size, I'm big aswell, for 2 reasons I'd date a bigger girl, 1 I doubt and skinner girls would want me and 2 bigger girls are more cuddly

genericname85 · Answer

most definitely. i'm not attracted to girls much bigger than me.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, of course. Appearance is the primary determining factor when it comes to attraction. Weight and height, in particular, are the main reasons why I dismiss people as potential partners, in general.

Ripper_E · Answer

Not yet. I've had women approach men that have ranged from skinny to fat. Their body size was never the issue though. I'm attracted to different sizes.

Adam1978 · Answer

Yes I can't date people who I don't feel attracted to and some body types goes as far as disgust me. So I wouldn't date them.

MCheetah · Answer

No, I haven't. But if they were like, super emaciated or 400+ pounds or something, I might possibly say no to them because of it.

Feelicks · Answer

I've certainly decided not to flirt with people I don't find appealing for that reason.

COMMODOREII · Answer

I am now doing that. It has a lot to do with how they live their life. I can not be someone who sabotages my health because they do not care about theirs or they are lazy. I need an athletic woman in my life so i can stay athletic and healthy.

Anonymous · Answer

We all do it subconsciously. It’s called preferences.

zagor · Answer

Yes, several times. We stayed friends anyway, but, well, lets just say I was afraid of falling in...

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes, I have. Because they were obese. Sorry, but that's just not attractive to me.

jasco · Answer

Yea, its a standard of mine just like everyone else's

Paul09 · Answer

Yes. I'm not into big chicks. Big chicks seem to be into me. I once foolishly did a favor for a friend when I was drunk.. Made out with a big chick. Some sexual contact, but it just wasn't doing it for me..

Biancam13 · Answer

Yes because physical attraction is literally the first thing I notice in a guy.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes there was this really obese girl. Sweet as can be. There was no physical attraction to her. I feel bad because she was so sweet but like I was repulsed by her even trying to touch me.

US-Agent88 · Answer

A few fat and obese women. One super tall beam pole.

more_than_a_guy · Answer

Everyone did this at least once. Everybody have certain preferences.

Tomtom9090 · Answer

weight, appearance, race, socio/economic status, sexual history

Anonymous · Answer

I like chubby chicks if she's cute, but there's a limit to how fat. Cute/thick, chubby Milf type is still attractive, but too fat is unattractive sexually.

Ace_Chidorigafuchi · Answer

Of course. Like, its a constant battle trying to fight off grenades to get to the bunker.

JDavid25 · Answer

Yeah, I have.. Only if they are too big or weirdly shaped.. Or both.. Lol..

Spade07 · Answer

It's subconscious. So the answer to everyone in the world is yes. And the answer is no it is because they are settling as it relates to looks.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't date chunky chicks.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, I didn’t date a chick because she was fat. I didn’t want a girl because she had saggy ass. Everyone has standards.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Maybe I have; because I will never date a large sized or obese girl, or even a morbidly emaciated one.

mrkeepitsimple · Answer

Yes long time ago. I told this lady that was corresponding with me I prefer slim women. She was more on the heavy side.😊

Harleyguy · Answer

Well I date someone because I like them and because I think they are good looking.

Nalix · Answer

No. My reasons for not dating people are based on personality.

foxy033 · Answer

Yes, women have done the same, some guys are too skinny or too fat, some girls dont like it, some girls are too skinny or fat some guys dont like it, we all have preferences and they are very varied

MHS118 · Answer

i don't decide. I had dated with evry kind of girl with body shape. But i loved chubby girls in bed the most. Skinny and average figures were also good.

monkeynutts · Answer

Yeah all the time, they got to make the cut, you want the best, you got to be the best.

legalboxers · Answer

Im not shallow. I go for whats in the heart

locutus9999 · Answer

personaly I date a person... not a body... if were about shape... I wil date a mannequin.

Satish2607 · Answer

Well I never really had some many options. The only woman I seriously dated is my wife.

BUNroaster · Answer

I love the look of a lot of big women, smalls and talls. Just not so much, the one's with balls.

Maspolomas · Answer

I don’t mind what body height you are as long as we can both be happy and in love

Anonymous · Answer

I am not attracted to skinny girls. They look like underaged boys

BlacklightShade · Answer

I don't date anyone shorter than 12 inches.

Anonymous · Answer

Yup. Couple of times.

Avicenna · Answer

Yeah, I don’t date obese women

krin_m · Answer

No, I am not too bothered by that.

Li-Na · Answer

Not really.

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