Do you think it’s okay to reject another person as a date entirely just because of their weight?

[Anonymous]

[Miristheiss]

Of course. You mean because they are fat and unhealthy? Of course. A lot of people are physically turned off by fat and excess body weight.

It's all that processed food and junk that is in our food. If you see pictures of people from the 60s and 70s... they were all thin. Now half the population is fat.

[slatyb]

You can reject anyone for any reason. If you aren't attracted, don't date them. Don't tell them why, just say that you don't think it would work.

[SteveSmith1985]

I think It's okay to reject somebody you aren't physically attracted to at all.

So it really depends on the situation. Can you give me some context? is this in person, or online, or what? Was this person interested in them until they found out their weight

(maybe shallow... but ok.. if the person is shallow enough to know they won't find the other person attractive due to their weight. )

I think I need more information to answer this properly.

[slatyb]

It doesn't depend on anything. No one has an obligation to date someone else.

[ohsheeT]

I think it could happen for any reason.. are any of them right I guess it all depends. . but for some reason the person not wanting to has a reason . And that's all that maters. Weather they are wrong or right

[Summeroflove]

Well at least they aren’t wasting your time. A person can reject someone for any or no reason at all, if it’s too superficial then…. Be glad you’re not the one they’re with.

[Zack-Bann]

Of course it is
What’s not ok is trying to date someone despite the thing that turns you off about them


No need to throw it in their face as that won’t help anyone and is just mean


But you can (and should) reject them

[sawno]

Of course, no attraction is no attraction. I am not attracted to fat people either so I'd be unable to be more than friends since I just would not enjoy or be comfortable doing anything sexual.

[molonski2]

HELL YEAH ! Absolutely , never encourage fatties , its an attitude , perfectly reasonable , never acceptable , sloppy is just sloppy.

[itsannalee]

Of course, it’s fine.
Everyone has their own preferences.
And being fat is likely more to a choice.

[Nikki1989]

Rejecting is your choice but insulting them in the process over their weight is an asshole act. Have some respect and class.

[Valdemort]

Well if that's part of attraction, it's a valid reason not to pursue someone.

[Lliam]

Yes. I wouldn't date anyone I wasn't physically attracted to.

[Anonymous]

Yes, frankly if you aren't into them physically there's no point in wasting their time.

[Hellraiser1984]

It depends if she was chubby I'm fine with it. If she looks like Mama June from honey boo boo no.

[Anonymous]

As ok as I think it is to reject another person entirely because of thier height.

[Asker]

A person has more control over their weight than their height

[Opinion Owner]

So you're a guy posing as a woman eh.

[Asker]

No, I am not male.

[masterSir]

Yes weight is one of the only atteibute that is controllable.

[LazerBean]

Well yeah, why wouldn't it be?

[BarryLiverstone]

How much do they weigh?

[jahaims]

Duh.

[hello4433]

It's okay