Would you ever consider rejecting another person as a date entirely because they are overweight?

[welcomemen]

Be honest with me please

[andreasderjuengere]

Yes I would; and yes I did.

But I ''refused'' in a polite manner of course.

Anyhow - I control my own weight - and expect the same from a (potential) partner.

[notwoke]

absolutely, this is a no brainer for me, I find it completely repulsive

[ZackBan]

Well I wouldn't go on the date to begin with if I wasn't attracted to her body.
Now assuming we matched online and I didn't know and showed up snd she's largely overweight then I would go through with the social activity we had planned but I wouldn't make a move and definitely would reject anything she might make. Then I'll respectfully decline any further dates.
(So yes a rejection but not a hurtful one)

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends on whether their weight impacts their level of activity. Like I want my partner to pursue an active lifestyle with me so someone who is basically too far to function is not ideal. I don't mind someone on the chonky side but he needs to be fit enough for walks etc.

[Anonymous]

You ask this question like people are just one thing or that all people measure by the same standards. And that's just not the way the world works.

If you're overweight all you can do is do your best minimize it, then love who you are. Because people can't love you if you can't even love yourself. And there will ALWAYS be people in this world that will reject you no matter what you are, whether you're 1 lb. Overweight or a couple hundred lbs. Overweight.

[serious]

Even hypothetically my answer would be YES. Honestly.

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, if she is obese and doing nothing about it. I'd be her friend, but I am too active to have a dating relationship with someone who voluntarily leads a sedentary lifestyle.

[megabamse]

To be out of shape is not a issue. But to flat out be fat? Yes absolutely i would reject it.

[TheSpaceGnome]

It depends how overweight she is, and why she is overweight.

[AnonGuy9000]

I definitely would. I'd friend you if we vibe though.

[Anonymous]

Yes. A fat person has health issues and higher risks of health issues.
I wouldn’t want that.

[Jennz6]

No, but not if they are 500 pounds

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Yes. I wouldn't date an obese person.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes obesity isn’t healthy

[Alex8736]

that would be completely shallow