1. Red flag if they still shop at Abercrombie. I just don’t like the clothes with a burning passion 2. Big Red flag if they just wear matching designer/name brand clothes and think it’s drip 3. When they still have the “fuckboy” haircut in 2021 4. Always talking to me about their ex; lmao if you want your ex than go find them 😀 I’m not the one 5. Their egos so big they never apologize, self explanatory 6. fetishizing me for being black 7. Using the words “chocolate” towards me as a compliment *I find it very rude 6. If they cheated with the person that they where with right before me 7. Their still friends with their ex 8. If they have No sort of ambition whatsoever 9. Only texts me at night 10. Hyper fixated on taking my v card 11. Way too sexual 12. Trump supporter 13. If they aren’t an open minded person (in terms of anything) 14. Slow replies to text
1. Red flag to people who always victimize themselves and always expect the other person to say they're wrong
2. They don't recriprocate (treat you the way you treat them)
3. Don't respond to texts immediately or don't have an explanation for why they haven't responded to you all day. (if that happens intermittently of course it's not a red flag, we all have lives)
4. Doesn't want people to know you're dating
5. There was a situation where my friends girl was cheating on him and he kept going back to her because she was manipulating him, this girl I was talking to said the girl did nothing wrong, that's a major red flag
6. Thinks their problems are worse than everyone elses
7. Hypocritical
8. doesn't learn from their mistakes
9. Has a history of relationships that were very short. (less then 8 months or so)
10. High body count but thinks it's not a lot. I don't have a problem with a girl who has been with a bunch of people, I just find it to be a red flag when a girl with a lot of bodies thinks that they're not promiscuous at all. It shows that they're desensitized to leaving people.
11. People who talk too much about race. Or people who let their prejudice have too much power on how they look at people as individuals.
1. Pedophile 2. Has been incarcerated 3. Serial killer 4. Bad credit 5. Unsafe Driver 6. Likes guys with phatties 🍑 7. Chews with mouth open 8. Leaves pads just sitting in the garbage can and not balled up 9. Vegan 10. Anti-Semitic 11. Racist 12. Not religious but is Spiritual 13. Too Many face piercings 14. Liar 15. Always has to be right 16. Selfish 17. Ungrateful 18. Being ghetto and dumb (separate these are okay but together Foh.😒) 19. Eats gross cereal (shredded wheats) 20. Spoiled 21. Eats almond joys or mr. goodbar 22. Being man-made (like a dyke) 23. Hates Jesus, Santa and Christmas in general 24. Materialistic 25. Trusts Kamala Harris ( I don’t know what it is but imma find out) 26. My cat doesn’t like you (Cus she’s a sweetheart😽🥰) 27. can't Cook 28. can't suck a 🍆 or is bad at it 29. Leaves door knobs wet instead of drying your hands 30. Being under 6ft tall 31. can't ride a 🍆 32. Wanting to Eat and lose weight 33. doesn't do laundry 34. Talks too much 35. doesn't wipe good 36. doesn't read good 37. doesn't do anal 38. Overreacting when I call you a bitch for being a bitch 39. Not able to kill or catch a mouse 40. Wanting to use condoms
If he is an inconsistent texter follows only fans or weird porn things on Instagram (u gotta creep to know) if he tries to put his hand on my neck like a chocking during making out Bad reputation serious insecurity
What is a dealbreaker for me also is if he throws trash on the floor. I find it disturbing. This happened to me one time, I immediately lost ALL interest!! Ew :D
1. Dishonesty. No relationship can work if one or both parties is dishonest. 2. Not being trustworthy. This goes back to number one to a certain degree, but it goes farther than that. Can I trust her with my deepest, darkest secrets? 3. Judging me based on my past 4. Not accepting me for who I am 5. She has bad hygiene. I have ADHD, but that's no excuse for bad hygiene (as I've heard other people with the same condition go days without showering). I personally didn't have the best hygiene in college myself, but my hygiene is much better now than what it was back then. 6. She is not a Christian. She must be a Protestant. 7. She has a history of being unfaithful to friends or previous romantic partners. 8. She is on the left side of the political spectrum. I'm a conservative, so this one is big no-no 9. She is disrespectful to her parents. 10. She wants to spend all her free time with me, and not spend some of her free time with her friends and family.
The list could go on. As other people have stated, number 12 and 13 for you cancel each other out. It's fine if you don't want to date a Trump supporter. I wouldn't want to date a rabid Trump supporter myself.
1. Doesn't value my time 2. Tells me something a long the lines of "You can't say that to a woman." 3. Gets jealous of my friends who are girls 4. Narrowminded 5. Has a long history of cheating. It's asinine to assume once a cheater always a cheater, because it's a VERY flawed way of thinking, period. But a long history of cheating makes me expect nothing less than they will do the same to me. 6. Smoking 7. Calls me Mexican, Cuban, Dominican, or whatever, but never once asked me where I'm from. 8. Ask me how big my penis is 9. Expect me to apologize when I'm not wrong just because they want to "win" or be right. 10. No ambition or desire to better themselves. Even baby steps are better than being stationary. 11. Don't respect my feelings 12. Don't listen to me
1. Entitled: gets offended easily. 2. Treats other people poorly, especially those she doesn't need something from. 3. Mean to or overly precious about animals. 4. No eye contact. 5. No boundaries. (This one is hard, because it's actually endearing, romantic, and easy to fall for.) 6. Acts disinterested, ignores, or otherwise distances herself. (either she's playing games or just isn't interested; in either case it's a waste of my time) 7. No friends or close relationships (family). 8. Super bitter about ex (es) and or other failed relationships such as friends 9. Gossip.
1. If they have piercings 2. If they have not mastered their emotions 3. If they cut their hair 4. If they use hair dye 5. If they don't remain among the buke social caste by doing jobs that signify them being among the heimin caste. 6. They only focus on money 7. They don't actively attempt to put their life on the line as required under our clan structure's way of serving the Code of Bushido or attempt to be something similar to it. 8. They are loud because of being defensive rather than because of aspects of the tenet of the Code of Bushido called Chugi aka Duty and Loyalty. 9. They don't uphold the mask trademark inherent to our clan structure that the progenitor clan to ours trademarked during and after the pandemic happening and coming to an end. 10. They have tattoos
Nah, keeping up with and conforming to current trends is indicative of envy, banality, and materialism. I don't want a slob, but I also don't a Paris Hilton.
Grow up, kiddo. People are people and you're not special enough to demand change in others with that sort of shitlist.
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This is a list of things I don’t look for in people, so sorry to break it to you but you need to grow up and realize that people are allowed to have preferences
1. Manipulative 2. Forces opinions and ideas, especially when it comes to things like religion. 3. Treats waiters and security guards badly. 4. Plays mind games. 5. Gives ultimatums
Lol, you're so stupid you don't even know what a red flag is 😹 Anyone dating you probably needs you to wear sandles if they want to count to beyond 30.
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Lmao, I have standards. And the question wasn’t asking what you think about what I personally don’t look for in a person. It’s not that deep
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