What are your top 3 red flags when it comes to dating?

[thegreenyogi]

[Zack-Bann]

- No sense of humor / Sensitive to what others say.
I find thick skin and a sense of humor to be signs of strength and understanding that the world is not happy place but it’s also not something to cry about all the time.
Letting go and laughing in the face of misery is the only way to truly enjoy life


- selfishness / self centeredness
I learned the hard way from my ex that it’s impossible to deal with someone that’s goes “me myself and I” all the time
My partner needs to be able to think like a member of a team and make decisions for the benefit of the couple not just what she is 100% comfortable with even if the other person isn’t.


- Poor physical / Mental health
I learned that taking care of your body and your mind is a personal thing. A relationship will not heal your childhood trauma and it will not motivate you to diet and exercise
So if Im going to commit to someone she needs to be already on the path of self improvement at least.
That way we can push and motivate each other towards living a much more fulfilling life


Honorable mentions to good hygiene, good manners, humility, not demanding to be treated like a princess at all times.
(Those are green flags)

[NathanDavis]

- hates or strongly dislikes any "group of people" ... the mere fact that you already label people as "them and us" is already not a good sign, lol

- when they're not the same way with others but they are being that with me... you know kind and nice with you but shitty with others...

- any extreme sided take on politics, religions and few other things that involve blaming a lot on others rather than focusing on your actual self

[mandyfire98]

Close minded
Bad hygiene
Personality disorder of any kind

[Simslover92]

Emotionally unavailable
Disrespectful
Arrogant

[Tarifa]

- Someone who doesn't respect your boundaries or preferences

- Someone who pushes you in a direction you're not comfortable with.

- Someone who dismisses your opinions or feelings as being unimportant. It's a clear sign that they basically just care about themselves.

[MicahRaine]

• Talks about how terrible her ex was/says nothing positive/doesn't take any responsibility
• Doesn't want you to meet the family
• Says they have the same religious beliefs, but doesn't act out of that (everyone has some kind of religion, even if it's just money)

In short, anything that indicates possible manipulation or dishonesty

[IslaTheWitch]

- lack of acceptance for differences...
- lack of personal hygiene
- cruel, disrespectful, indifferent

[Radiate143]

Testing how close they can get in my personal space before I pushback

Me telling them something I want then them trying to convince me I don't want that. Like, I know what TF I want.

Flattery that is just not even believable.

[CharlieTheNerd2008]

• Late by 15mins or more
• Makes excuses
• Smell
• Teeth
• Expects me to pay

[LiamJHayden]

1. Rude to server staff when we go out. I despise those who look down on someone who is busting his or her butt to make a living.
2. Racist comments or attitudes.
3. Bad hygiene

[skidawgkc22]

1. already has kids

2. politically conservative

3. likes certain local sports teams that I can't stand

[slatyb]

Disrespect for others or herself.
Dogmatic judgment of others.

Everything else is just compatibility.

[lightbulb27]

Energy

smoking

social behavior... carrys heself with dignity and respect.

[Nik1hil]

- STD.

- Mentally Unhealthy.

- Unethical Personality ( Lying, deceive, manipulation)

[Grond21]

Disrespectful to people in the service industry. Complains or bad mouths about other people. Is immoral

[loveslongnails]

Political/religious outlook & understanding, hygiene, general attitude

[aquamarine321]

Trust, honestly and respect, if you don’t have those that’s a flag

[In_Trance]

All her friends are guys

She's friends with her ex or exes

Is brainwashed

[Abdulwahh]

1) Tattoos, hair unnatural colours, funny piercings.

2) lack of presence too much on phone.

3) disrespect my opinion.

[Penelope79]

The way treat the wait stuff. Don’t have fun could be sign, talking about their ex the whole time.