What are the main red flags you try to avoid in dating?

[JHAYES317]

Mine are:
A girl who makes uncontrollable physical flaws (like lack of height, small dick etc) a dealbreaker (also a girl who would dump/reject a guy PRIMARILY because he developed undesirable physical characteristics, like baldness or impotence). Like preferences are understandable, but when they are the be all end all it’s a problem. Cause we all get old and lose our physical functions anyway…

A girl who wants a guy to spoil her and pay for everything (I understand paying for the first couple dates, but then beyond that it’s gotta be an equal partnership)

A girl who lacks empathy and respect for others’ livelihoods or beliefs (like a girl saying music/movie/game piracy is ok, calling men insecure but then insulting them for things they can’t control, being intolerant of political differences, etc)

A girl who won’t take accountability (for example if she is fat, and refusing to lose weight, or trying to justify cheating or leading men on)

A girl who has nude photos/videos publicly available online (I’m not talking leaked sexts or something, I’m talking like only fans, playboy type stuff)

A girl who is emotionally unstable and makes impulsive judgements (like cancel culture girls or girls who get “the ick” easily)

A girl who expects me to chase her or fight other guys for her (like if her life is in danger, sure, but I’m not going to jail just because someone verbally insults her)

A girl who puts no effort into her appearance (I’m not talking plastic surgery or anything, I’m just saying exercising, skincare, style etc)

A girl who is overly controlling (not letting me hang out with my guy friends ever)

There’s probably more but that’s the main stuff I can think of

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Irresponsible, no sense of purpose/not actively searching for one, doesn't proudly offer to pay for anything, ever. Never takes pictures of us, can't talk about herself well, has never accomplished anything they're proud of or sets a very low bar for themselves to that regard, has anxiety, never asks about my family, she has denied me sex even once, but when we do have sex she presents herself to me with a stinky puss. (that's a new one), she has unkempt fake nails, never worked a shitty job. Too soft, everything is about me, never stands up for what she wants.

I'd say those are the main ones

[DarkLegacy]

Some brilliant red flags described here, pity more men are not like you. Where i live women will purposely try and get their bfs into fights with other men. The first part is also very good and spot on.

[DarkLegacy]

Thanks for MHO

[laly520]

main red flags for guy
being abusive (verbally or physically)
being immature n never accepts being wrong
being a cheater, player, slept around a lot
lying constantly
living in total void (no job no carrier no degree no ambitions)

[JHAYES317]

@laly520 I would say no job or career is not a red flag as long as they are actively trying to pursue higher education or have a very specific career goal in mind that they are consistently working towards

[laly520]

tryna look for a job is fine
what I meant is a person who refuses to work or learn or anything

[JHAYES317]

@laly520 yeah I agree that would be a red flag

[Anonymous]

• If she asks probing questions about my job that makes it clear she's trying to size up my income.
• If she is overly negative.
• If she is overly emotional
• If she makes comments that denotes she's low class
• If she's in tremendous debt
• If she has an extensive checkered dating history.
• If I sense she has poor morals and values.

To name a few.

[Anonymous]

I don't try to avoid; these are deal breakers.

* No maga's/GOP/extreme lefties/religious zealots
* No fake accoutrement girls, like weaves, fake eyelashes, fake nails, botox, excessive makeup, materialistic
* No single moms with young kids - grown kids or almost out are fine
* No smokers, including vaping, no excessive visible tats or excessive piercings, particularly the septum "pig ring" ones

[Yannae]

Hung up on ex
Demanding me to pay
Dressing like a street worker
Constantly looking to argue
Flaking on a date

[Cazaputas]

I don't like rude, promiscuous women with piercings, choker or tattoos.