Guys, what would you do if you saw someone you were going to date from on line but she looked totally different?

[JuliaStyles]

You saw a girl on a dating site and thought you had a decent connection and decided to meet. But when you got to the Starbucks you were going to meet her at and she looked totally different than her pics what would you do?

[Anonymous]

I often find women don't look like their pictures in person (often better in person I think). Maybe they aren't recent photos, or maybe just the photos in general? But I've never had any major or "drastic" differences. Like you have pictured above isn't "shocking". It's obvious one is with makeup and one without, and acne (even though extreme in that photo lol)... honestly, that looks more "real" and how you're going to see most people day to day. The other picture honestly almost looks "fake". Bottom line, I've never encountered this to the point where I've thought, "OMG get me out of here" lol

[slatyb]

I prefer the picture in the left. But if she were blatently deceptive, by paying pictures long out of date, I would say "sorry, I don't think this is going to work.", and leave.

This happened to me a couple of times. One woman posted a picture that from ten years and a hundred pounds ago. Another woman described herself as "a few weeks points", but in her case "a few" meant 120.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

I’d walk the fuck out, I don’t waste my time with dishonest people. Just not sure what that picture has to do with anything.

[JuliaStyles]

Simple, the right was her profile pic on the dating site. The left was her appearance without filters.

[Ms_Vanderquack]

Sure, but she is ugly in both pictures.

[JuliaStyles]

Some would disagree I'm sure. If she could get rid of the acne I bet she would look great.

[Libbers]

Pictures can really with both ways. I am sure with it happens all the time to people that use date apps.

[Libbers]

Omg wtf. I meant to say pictures can really go both ways meaning make a person look amazing or make them look terrible. Online dating is a big gamble. I have never used it and don’t think I ever will.

[OlderAndWiser]

I sit there politely, because I don't want to be rude or an unkind person, I bring the meeting to a fairly quick end, and then I never have any more contact with her.

[Mofunfour20]

I would feel cheated. Like getting change from a cashier and noticing one of the bills are fake later

[Avicenna]

It depends how different and why (interestingly, this did not happen to me when I used dating apps). Using old photos, dealbreaker. Some filters or photoshopping might also be.

But there are other deceptions I'd be more worried about.

[Gisellesngft]

Like what is down there? 😂

[Avicenna]

@Gisellesngft: Well, I never encountered that particular one, but that would definitely be one of them.

[Gisellesngft]

What were you talking about if not that?

[Avicenna]

@Gisellesngft: That would be one of them. Lying about her financial situation or marital status would be two of the others.

[msc545]

If she looked better than her online pictures I would be grateful and pleased. If she looked worse I would be polite and continue the date no matter what. I think being rude is really tacky and low-class.

[JuliaStyles]

But so is misrepresenting yourself. Do you think that is not tacky and low class also?

[msc545]

Depends on to what extent someone does that. It's difficult to blame someone for using the most flattering pictures of themselves they can find

[loves2learn]

Awww. Looks like the makeup really helps her feel better about herself. What’s wrong with that?

[JuliaStyles]

Ask the guys that.

[loves2learn]

NoManTwo liked my comment. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[JuliaStyles]

That is not what the question is about.

[Anonymous]

I'd still go on the date and be friendly, but if they are still texting me afterwards I''ll just tell them that I had a great time, but it's not gonna work out. This only happened to me once, but the dude didn't text me afterward so I was all good.

[Daniela1982]

They aren't doing anything that the Kardashians do. Filter all their pics and sue someone for posting an unfiltered pic of them.

[AwanAlphaMale]

Turn her around and make her face a wall and tell her I care deeply about her and want a serious relationship with her. I would fuck her and then leave that ugly cunt behind while I continue to search for my true blonde beautiful wife.

[flovry]

R: First I would feel a bit fooled, then I would ask her if she is the wright woman, till there is communication and the woman not a monster it works I guess, there two layers of psychology behind this, then adapt...

[GnatSocks]

I prefer the left. She looks real, (but skin is destroyed from make up).

[ChrisMaster69]

Both look a tad ugly

both would be a walk past

[Caliguy88]

Have had that a lot. I proceed to have a fun time and just not go back out. I’m all up for having a good date even if there is no chemistry. I love meeting new people.

[Gisellesngft]

Not to back out? Huh

[UnknownUser01]

If she looks totally different, I'll think she's a catfish and leave.

[In_Trance]

Happens all the time

[JuliaStyles]

That is quite a difference between her belly and thighs. Where do you get pants like that where it holds everything in? Of course so does a tight pair of jeans.

[Bean2thousand]

Usually I just won't pay her for her services and then leave.

[Shihab91]

holy-shit XD that's why I don't date women who wear heavy make up

[Bklynbadboy12]

I wouldn't date them I'm a firm believer in be honest and lying right from the start would get you dumped pronto

[Texasguy99]

I’d finish the date or meeting and probably end it after that.

[Phoenix98]

One of the many reasons I don't like dating apps.

[msbrightness]

Being scared. Don't hide it.

[Anonymous]

Hope she didn’t see me and walk back out

[Anonymous]

I would be very disappointed