We haven't met yet but I really like him and want to soon
Obviously think safety but it’s a case of being happy as well.It’s worth making sure a friend etc knows about it as well.
Yeah I will have to travel to another state though
Luckily mine drives and lives local lol.It a long drive?
I'll probably take train to NY from pa
Excellent, you thought when you likely to do it?
Maybe next month
Excellent, you had much negative feedback from friends etc?
No not really they know regardless I'll do what I think is right also they see how we talk and he is very genuine and sweet
he's divorced 😬
Major red flag. Divorced and going for some younger than him... women his age don’t want to put up with him or what?
I'll have to find out more
Why not :)
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Who or what
My dad is 60 so not as bad
I dint care what others think but I was looking for others advice for generational differences
age gaps matter for only 3 reasons:1. age of consent: you are both adults so this one is moot2. relatability: you already claimed you can relate to him pretty well mentally.3. lifespan differences: this is the only unknown to me, if he looks younger/healthier than most his age, then this is also moot, if he looks heavily aged however, then you might need to consider that you may live longer than him and you will be alone in your last years.
Yeah its scary he will die sooner bur he's only 40 so we have time
He might not die sooner, he might live 20 or more years longer than most people, you might live 20 years less, life is uncertain, but lifespan isn't about how many years you existed, it's about how full your health bar is, and how often and how well it's refilled.Healthy humans have indeterminent lifespans, meaning there is no cap on how long a person can live so long as they maintain good health.Many people fuck up their health beyond repair before they even reach adulthood though, and they have no clue what things are doing it short of a select few habits or injuries.
I've never cared fir others opinions as long as I'm not hurting anyone
No under 18