How I escalate sexually with my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I have a girlfriend that is virgin and she’s 24, so far we are going well I really care about her and she care about me. We are together for about 2 months, I guess I was talking things slow but and now we done the touchings, holding hands, kissing on the lips, cuddling. My question is how should I initiate to have sex / go on the next stage on the relationship , I mean I don’t want just to have sex with her, don’t get me wrong, but I care about her and I don’t want her to feel rushed in any way.

What would you doin this situation? What is you’re opinion, what should I do?

[slatyb]

I my experience women made it clear when they wanted sex, and it didn’t take long. Where have you been doing all this kissing etc? I was older and when a woman was ready she invited me home. By then was already obvious from the intensity of our make out sessions. Have you invited her to your place?

[Drumlin2001]

Has she indicated that she's ready for sex? Just keep talking and dont pressure her

[Holly_04]

Have the conversation with her (I want to have sex with you) but wait for her to tell you when it's the right time

[Asker]

You mean to tell her that I want to have sex with her, but also tell her that there’s no rush / pressure, when she feels ready to just let me know?

[Holly_04]

Yes. Put that you want to have sex with her on the table but wait for her to tell you when she's ready. Just so she knows where you stand. 2 months is a bit rushed to start having sex but I guess it depends on how strong your relationship is

[Asker]

I understand, thank you for you’re time / advice 🙂