What are some ways to help my girlfriend get more handsy with me when we make out?

[Dim1213]

When we make out she will often keep her hands to herself but recently she has been following my lead like when I put her arms around me. What are some other ways to help her relax and get more handsy with me?

[mermaidrocketship]

You have a girlfriend! Yay! For your question... Have a conversation about what you're each comfortable with. I remember that you're religious. Maybe she is more reserved and not ready or feels guilty about getting too touchy.

[Dim1213]

Yup how are you doing yourself?

[mermaidrocketship]

I'm starting a retail job at the end of the month, part time so I can do grad school. And I'm joining a church. I miss my friends back at college, but I'm making it.

[Dim1213]

Cool

[Floralskateboard]

The best way is just to straight up ask her to be more physical with you. Sometimes it's hard to tell when a partner wants you to get physical, just be straightforward.

[alice55]

Just let her time, with time she'll surely become more handsy. If you talk to her about it she will surely be very embarrassed and even more stressed.

[AdviceIsNeeded]

Keep leading her in the places where you won't to be touch. Sometimes we need some encouragement and guidance

[Dim1213]

i did that and she was wondering why i kept moving her hands.

[Nader95]

Get better at making out that she loses control over her urges that her dormer sexual predate is loose then u will have one he'll of a ride

[Dim1213]

Won't happen she kind of shuts down when to into it. She puts her hands between her legs puts her chin down and leans back.

[Nader95]

Then what other opinion owners said grab her hand and put where u want

[Anonymous]

Grab her hand gently and place it where you want on your body, preferably above the waist! Basically guide her hands

[Dim1213]

it worked to a point. she asked me why I was moving her hands

[Opinion Owner]

I hope she wasn't taken aback. Just tell her you like it when she gets a little more hands on

[Anonymous]

You may need to tell her that it's ok to explore your body. Sometimes giving consent like that is all it takes

[Marson4life]

just ask her to be more handsy if my boyfriend asked i would