How can I get my girlfriend to let me touch there boobs/ass while kissing?

[Anonymous]

We've been kissing for a wile but never got to that mid part in first and second base, and its been 2 years. Im wondering if there's a way to let me touch her a bit more

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+1 y

Well to put it this way, she isn't a fan of people touching her, she's very sensiteve about things. so if i put my hands on her ass, breasts, or even her special place, she says she will never talk to me, just becuase i touched her. when we kiss, i manly holder by the waist or her shoulders

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+1 y

Well, i guess asking her worked, she agreed ;)

[strangytie]

Okay fuck those guys, you really need to ask. That’s a boundary that you are better safe than sorry to ask to cross. The bases isn’t a real idea of how a relationship works, it’s more of a way to gauge how a relationship could work when in reality people really just get to certain bases before others. I’d ask her if it’s okay for you to touch her in other places. W

[MMarina]

You could talk to her about it, try to find out why she won't let you!

[MMarina]

She might have been abused.

[Asker]

Actually, she has one time, some stranger touched her butt on the bus...

[MMarina]

That doesn't explain why she won't let her own boyfriend touch her...

[Asker]

thats what i said

[MMarina]

So what did she say?

[Schnitzel]

Personally after two years I would definitely just plant my hands on and see what happens, I don't think you could be accused of moving things too fast.

[Asker]

shed either slap me or never talk to me after it, possibly even both

[Schnitzel]

Good to hear about your update. 👍

[Asker]

thnx, it went well

[Unknownreality]

aren't you holding her ass while kissing her in the first place?

[Asker]

she dosent let me

[ushername]

it's been 2 years and you didn't touch her. while kissing, do it. there's no need to ask her.

[Asker]

I've tried but she grabs my hand before i even touch it, she has some mad reflexes not gonna lie...

[JesseTheMan]

Ask her

[Anonymous]

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