For most my adult life most if not all my friends have bee mostly male mainly because I work in a exactly male dominated industry and without sounding like a boot licker men are so much more better friends to have them females.
You can be 100% yourself and they won't judge, you can just laugh with them and rip each other to part and not take it personally and they are always there to talk and protect you when things aren't great. There's no games or lying when you have male friends they just want a good laugh.
I've never dated any of my male friends and if I've ever started to catch feels they'd know because I'd start to drift away from them and not be so friendly.
I have a boyfriend and he his my best friend and he's the love of my life. He'd the only man I've ever been with and i plan on spending my life with him. We've been together for 4 amazing years and hopefully many more so I don't get why my friends girlfriends are so threatened by me.
All I ever talk about is my boyfriend half the time so I think that should be a big green flag but I have no intention on taking there man.
I get I am very attractive and of course my male friends probably would if they had the chance but that's why I set boundaries. I don't let them in my house and I try my best not to touch them in a way that would lead them on.
A few of my male friends have given me lifts places before and when there girlfriends find blonde hairs in the car and it's started fights.
A few have said there girlfriends are jealous of me too and don't like them talking to me.
Whenever I meet my friends girlfriends I try really hard to be as nice and welcoming as possible because I wouldn't mind having some female friends too and I want them to know I am no threat at all but I think they think I'm over doing it out of some kind of defence mechanism.
I will be honest I am definitely more attractive then most my friends girlfriends as much as I hate to say that and I think that's why they hate me
