(for the record I am in high school so this does not apply to adult dating)
I have no male friends and it makes me really jealous when I see girls because gurls who have guys friends are branded “cool girls”, they are 99% of the time popular, they get a shit ton of male attention, and dating overall is easier because they can basically take their pick.
None of my friends have guy friends so it’s not like I can make any, I don’t know how to approach a guy without make him think I’m flirting, it’s just bad because it makes me feel weird and unlikable. If you have guy friends you know your hot and likeable and I know no guys. I’m pretty and nice and funny.
on any note it’s not good to be jealous especially of my friends who are popular and shit who know a bunch of cute guys they ”forget” to invite me out with so I have to stop. What can I do?
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Maybe start with to not see them as like I don't know superior? Don't put these girls on a fucking pedestal and also stop seeing it as something important.
You already have friends and that's cool!
(Also making male friends in school is just by starting to talk with male guys who sit like next to you and just be more funny than flirty)
From my experience going to an all girls school, I can assure you that even those girls you are jealous of have the same problems. If you want guy friends just try and out yourself out there whenever you get the chance. Thinking of putting yourself out there like an experiment, just try stuff for fun and if it doesn’t work then try again.
Seek out validation from yourself and stop worrying about what others do.