I recently went abroad to a country my ex lives in. We hung out. One time, a message came up on his phone whilst I was looking at some pictures he had taken of me. It sounded like his girlfriend from the way it was written. I asked him if he has a girlfriend and he said no. During my trip he kissed me, touched my breasts, down there also. He asked if he could come to my hotel room but I told him no. One time I was trying on dance costumes and he was there. He kissed me, kept trying to see my boobs as I was changing and taking pictures of me exposed.
Turns out on my last day, we’d made up from a disagreement we had. Out of the blue he said,’ do you want to meet up, I can bring my girlfriend?’. I was pretty surprised. All this time I didn’t know he had one. I said no because I didn’t want her to get angry at me or anything. The worst part was knowing that my ex had done all these things whilst he had a girlfriend. There’s no way I would have let anything happen at all if I knew he had a girlfriend.
I confronted him about it and he said it doesn’t matter, we weren’t that intimate, that I have my life and he has his. He just didn’t care. He also said she doesn’t care, but I don’t think I believe him.
I saw the name of his girlfriend as the message popped up on Instagram. I can find her if I look in his followers. I am not sure whether to tell her or not. If I leave it it will be more peaceful but if I don’t he’ll get away with it. What’s your opinion and advice?
