I had a miscarriage, but am scared to tell my ex-boyfriend. Should I just tell him?

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He didn't even know that I was pregnant and I was waiting for a proper time to tell him. I want to tell him I miscarried though in case he wants to help me decide a name for her/him due to me seeing it proper for the child to at least have a name.
My reasonings for wanting to give the child a name is that I feel that it's common curteious for everyone to have an identity. For certain I know the Childs last name will be the father's for respect on his part.
At the same time, I'm scared to tell him. What do you believe and if you were a guy, would you want your girlfriend to tell you if she had a miscarriage with your child even if she didn't tell you she was pregnant? Thank you.
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@justbeinghonest - I was on birth control and used it in a timely manner. I was probably the most procrastinator when it came to taking that pill. However, like anything else, nothing's 100%. You did take a health class right?
Also, explain how it's playing with his feelings when I wasn't at all?
You're the one that started the drama by using unnecessary words, you act like an 8 year old who still lives with her mom by what I picked up with your personality. That wasn't being truthful, you
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Were just being rude. Also it's ironic you live by what you hate.
I had a miscarriage, but am scared to tell my ex-boyfriend. Should I just tell him?
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