I'm a straight guy (26) who's been single for almost 6 years, I don't enjoy clubs, and have never had luck with dating apps, how do I find someone?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

You are the only one that can help that situation.

In order to have friends, you must be pro-active and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in the relation. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.

If you are good at one specific occupation (let's say airplane models), then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place.

But you have to work on your issues such as shyness and social anxiety first.

You can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.

But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen.

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[JackieofWhite]

I can’t really help you their since I have the same problem.

[RealMarek]

First, know that the dating market is very difficult for men in their early and mid 20s. The best answer I have is to attain stability and status. Be good at what you do, achieve things, and be confident. If you do this and stay in decent shape you’ll be surprised how women just seem to show up and dating profiles (not hook-up sites) will work better once you are in your 30s.

[Slartybartfast]

If you're still interested in dating by then you'll do better because Most men give up at 30. If half the men over 30 stopped dating it makes it easier fur the men who fir sine reason still want to play that game.

[Avicenna]

Meeting someone is usually totally random. Increase your social circle and go to morexeventsxwhere you can talk to new women.

[Slartybartfast]

You may just have to accept the fact that you're not going to be able to attract anyone.

Learn to enjoy being single, women aren't worth the effort anymore.

[Anonymous]

Dating agency, not cheap but worth the added expense

[Iron_Man]

Trying serious church that has a lot of members

[TheBigGuy9]

Don’t be shy